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To only just realise it was Peter Andre in the wrong not Katie P!

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Macbeth8 · 30/06/2022 23:40

This is a random thread..if you arent interested in Katie and Peter please dont bother reading...
Just had a binge watch of old episodes of Americas Next top model on youtube and it showed me Katie and Peter stateside - their opd documentary..I used to watch it and love them as a couple together. Was gutted when they split but like everyone else at the time I remember thinking how awful Katie was and how she was in the wrong during that infamous massive row they had in that shop in LA.
It pops back up and so I watch it again, near in mind this is after years of me seeing ir. And cant believe it! Its like a brand new argument - completely saw this in a different way.
Pete was the onein the wrong, not Katie. In fact he was awful, actually abusive? Swearing at her calling her a f*king b**ch, "a cow", "you think youre gonna get away with it?"
Bleeding hell, if this isnt abusive I dont know what is! Im more in shock because I remember all the stick KP got, the hate campaign and the "team Pete" . He deserves a medal and all that bollocks.
It just doesnt make sense. How can anyone see it for what itnwas? In fact watching it again, KP hardly spoke..it was all Pete winding her uo, qlmost goading her and then blasting her when she bit back at him..Im just really shocked I guess....😶 makes you wonder how things can get so easily misrepresented.
What does everyone think?

OP posts:
RaleighDurham · 03/07/2022 08:42

Why has someone dig up some clips from 15 bloody years ago to push this negative narrative of Peter and "poor Katie?"
God, some of you on here are naive.
Katie's own record of appalling behaviour stands for itself and has nothing to do with her ex partners.

MichelleScarn · 03/07/2022 08:29

Oh yep, what a surprise, apparently her trip to Thailand which was booked even before she was in court is for a new 'travel show' with current 'beau' 🙄.

MichelleScarn · 03/07/2022 08:25

Exactly @Beefcurtains79 KP is completely irrelevant today, am assuming she has something new coming out soon which is why there's this very poorly veiled PR exercise of a thread!

Beefcurtains79 · 03/07/2022 07:35

Peter Andre and her haven’t even spoken for about a decade, is her behaviour today ( 2 husbands and various fiancés later) still all his fault? The only person shoving coke up her nose, abusing her kids stepmom to the point she is banned from their primary school and drunk driving with a man her children despise is Katie herself.
Her PR must have started and are contributing to this thread as I can’t believe the constant excuses being made for her.

ItsSnowJokes · 03/07/2022 06:46

Whereismumhiding4 · 03/07/2022 06:42

All of those links are awful, just DA abusive of PA towards KP

This one is really bad
vm.tiktok.com/ZMNBUKr5n/?k=1

When he talked recently about impact RV has on him talking to the press claiming he had a small penis, I felt sorry for him and that he had a point as no one would accept a man saying same thing. Now I just hear a hypocrite. As HE DID on TV about his own wife!!! By her reaction of "why do you always put me down?" (and rather than stop HE DOUBLES DOWN!) hinting her bits are big she can't feel it, is absolutely disgusting (and abusive). He picks at her appearance and body and over sexualises her all the time in those clips.

I finally see what KP has been saying all along..

What about all the times she has been abusive? If you watch the actual series and not highlights that a fan account has put together of his bad bits how about you watch it and see what her abusive is about.

ItsSnowJokes · 03/07/2022 06:44

Ouchmytoe100 · 03/07/2022 03:17

I never trusted that man. I remember when people were saying whether they were 'Team Katie' and 'Team Peter' and Peter wore a t-shirt saying 'Team Kids'. It seems so sly and manipulative, like he was trying to twist the narrative and imply that he was above it all and only focussing on their kids, hinting that Katie wasn't. It seemed so calculated and try-hard.

But he has been proven right hasn't he? She doesn't give a shit about the kids and has chosen her boyfriend over her children. She has a 2 hour supervised visit a week, and fucks off on holiday as soon as she didn't get jailed missing one of the children's birthdays. Her boyfriend is not allowed around the children and most mums would dump the boyfriend if SS said that he can't be around the kids, but nope she just carries on and says OK I won't see the kids as much.

Whereismumhiding4 · 03/07/2022 06:42

All of those links are awful, just DA abusive of PA towards KP

This one is really bad
vm.tiktok.com/ZMNBUKr5n/?k=1

When he talked recently about impact RV has on him talking to the press claiming he had a small penis, I felt sorry for him and that he had a point as no one would accept a man saying same thing. Now I just hear a hypocrite. As HE DID on TV about his own wife!!! By her reaction of "why do you always put me down?" (and rather than stop HE DOUBLES DOWN!) hinting her bits are big she can't feel it, is absolutely disgusting (and abusive). He picks at her appearance and body and over sexualises her all the time in those clips.

I finally see what KP has been saying all along..

Ouchmytoe100 · 03/07/2022 03:17

I never trusted that man. I remember when people were saying whether they were 'Team Katie' and 'Team Peter' and Peter wore a t-shirt saying 'Team Kids'. It seems so sly and manipulative, like he was trying to twist the narrative and imply that he was above it all and only focussing on their kids, hinting that Katie wasn't. It seemed so calculated and try-hard.

Kitkatcatflap · 03/07/2022 02:26

I commented earlier upthread saying he was a cheesy one hit wonder who used her to spring board a UK reality career. I hadn't even seen those clips and they are awful - the constant put downs and snide remarks. He clearly thinks and acts as if he was better than her.

Blondeshavemorefun · 02/07/2022 21:31

I’ve a,ways said it wasn’t always kp fault

that pa isn’t as much as a saint as made out

yes she could be a better mum

and doesn’t pick the right men

and wrong fir drink driving etc

but as above pa was often the starter of rows on tv

he wound her up many times

you don’t do that to someone you love

Fizbosshoes · 02/07/2022 09:21

The link of him in the segway shop is awful and the one where Nicola(??) is asking him to visit Katie in hospital, I didn't even realise they were talking about her, I thought it was someone he barely knew, not his wife! There seemed no emotional connection at all.
Why was she in hospital? And who is with Pete? (I never watched the show)

Katie seemed much quiter and calmer than recent clips or interviews where she (imo) has seemed hyper animated. And (completely irrelevant) she was so pretty!

Trixiefirecracker · 02/07/2022 08:43

I mean those links aren’t great and he’s clearly a dickhead, but KP is also no Angel. I remember seeing her on a talk show going on about their sex life and how rubbish PA was in bed and how he didn’t satisfy her. Both hideous to each other and a toxic relationship that probably brought the worst out in each other.

Cleopatra2022 · 02/07/2022 07:29

vm.tiktok.com/ZMNBU7JA8/?k=1

Noglassjustthebottleandastraw · 01/07/2022 22:43

spirit20 · 01/07/2022 21:21

I'm sorry but No. You are being very unreasonable. Katie Price is a complete abomination and barely deserves the title human being. Look at the way she parades her seriously disabled son to nightclubs just to earn money for his appearance fees.

She is a vile person, and while I definitely don't condone women being referred to as bxxxhs etc, I can fully understand why anyone in an intimate relationship would end up wanting to call her that. I would also imagine the show is heavily edited to make her look good and him look like the villain.

It was Claire his manager and Friend who checked the editing and signed off each episode. I remember them talking about it during the show when it was on. It was also Claire who signed off each interview and what questions they got asked in tv interviews etc.

EmeraldShamrock1 · 01/07/2022 22:05

From the snippets of the relationship seeing them together I remember thinking she was quite mean though I haven't watched the footage of his abuse.

All of her relationships before and after PA were toxic.

MichelleScarn · 01/07/2022 21:49

spirit20 · 01/07/2022 21:21

I'm sorry but No. You are being very unreasonable. Katie Price is a complete abomination and barely deserves the title human being. Look at the way she parades her seriously disabled son to nightclubs just to earn money for his appearance fees.

She is a vile person, and while I definitely don't condone women being referred to as bxxxhs etc, I can fully understand why anyone in an intimate relationship would end up wanting to call her that. I would also imagine the show is heavily edited to make her look good and him look like the villain.

Exactly, why on earth is there this sudden 'poor Katie rush of posts' totally painting her to be this tragic, victim who had been dragged into such meanness?

EmeraldShamrock1 · 01/07/2022 21:31

Wow I'm surprised.

I didn't follow the show but I'll watch it now.

I always thought he was a bit of a downer.

ReneBumsWombats · 01/07/2022 21:29

Any links for these videos of him being awful?

spirit20 · 01/07/2022 21:21

I'm sorry but No. You are being very unreasonable. Katie Price is a complete abomination and barely deserves the title human being. Look at the way she parades her seriously disabled son to nightclubs just to earn money for his appearance fees.

She is a vile person, and while I definitely don't condone women being referred to as bxxxhs etc, I can fully understand why anyone in an intimate relationship would end up wanting to call her that. I would also imagine the show is heavily edited to make her look good and him look like the villain.

OrchardBlack · 01/07/2022 21:07

Just been down a tiktok rabbit hole Jesus christ he's vile isn't he.

HRTQueen · 01/07/2022 20:52

There is always the common denominator in the chaos and destruction and that is KP

and this is at the expense of her children happiness and safety

ffs she takes her son who has severe learning disabilities to a meet and greet in a club as she knows it will gain more publicity

RaleighDurham · 01/07/2022 20:38

"That's the kind of fuckwittery we are dealing with here"

No, that's the kind of fuckwittery ONE person said. That doesn't mean that most right-minded people agree with that sort of shit.

And, OP, can I suggest that you do a bit of digging with regards to who posted the TikTok footage that you're frothing about. Have a think about a possible agenda?

KneeQuestion · 01/07/2022 20:35

ThePlink · 01/07/2022 20:11

I'll never forget someone saying that she was a whore because she'd had sex with a black man! That's the kind of fuckwittery we are dealing with here.. Despite her misgivings. Fucking vile!

Racism and classism has a lot to do with the way she is viewed and the abuse she gets.

ThePlink · 01/07/2022 20:11

I'll never forget someone saying that she was a whore because she'd had sex with a black man! That's the kind of fuckwittery we are dealing with here.. Despite her misgivings. Fucking vile!

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