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To only just realise it was Peter Andre in the wrong not Katie P!

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Macbeth8 · 30/06/2022 23:40

This is a random thread..if you arent interested in Katie and Peter please dont bother reading...
Just had a binge watch of old episodes of Americas Next top model on youtube and it showed me Katie and Peter stateside - their opd documentary..I used to watch it and love them as a couple together. Was gutted when they split but like everyone else at the time I remember thinking how awful Katie was and how she was in the wrong during that infamous massive row they had in that shop in LA.
It pops back up and so I watch it again, near in mind this is after years of me seeing ir. And cant believe it! Its like a brand new argument - completely saw this in a different way.
Pete was the onein the wrong, not Katie. In fact he was awful, actually abusive? Swearing at her calling her a f*king b**ch, "a cow", "you think youre gonna get away with it?"
Bleeding hell, if this isnt abusive I dont know what is! Im more in shock because I remember all the stick KP got, the hate campaign and the "team Pete" . He deserves a medal and all that bollocks.
It just doesnt make sense. How can anyone see it for what itnwas? In fact watching it again, KP hardly spoke..it was all Pete winding her uo, qlmost goading her and then blasting her when she bit back at him..Im just really shocked I guess....😶 makes you wonder how things can get so easily misrepresented.
What does everyone think?

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converseandjeans · 08/08/2022 22:41

MichelleScarn

Yes it's an account with various clips. There's an even worse clip on the back up account. He tries to perform cunnilingus on her in public - on camera. Pulls at her pants. It's awful.

Came up on FYP on my sons account which I have login to so I can keep tabs on him.

MichelleScarn · 08/08/2022 22:37

ilyx · 08/08/2022 22:15

@MichelleScarn

Have you actually seen the TikTok page she’s talking about? Because I’ve not seen any bad behaviour from her, only him being extremely toxic to her.

Ah the tiktok page specifically set up to show this?

converseandjeans · 08/08/2022 22:32

Michellescarn

He's calling her a slut on camera. There are 7 clips on TikTok which all show KP sitting there just taking his sarcastic, nasty, insulting comments. He literally has the rage over minor things. In one clip he accuses her of farting and tells her she's disgusting, another he makes fun of her having a mole on her lip.

He gaslights her & convinces her & also the public that she is awful.

I am no KP fan but I think she's made poor choices & I think needs support rather than criticism.

crackerjackbaby · 08/08/2022 22:25

Please send a link to the video footage of the argument you refer to? Desperate to watch now!

AardvarkLaughs · 08/08/2022 22:20

Try and find the clip of him and his current wife Emily discussing going on safari and his angry eyes, passive aggressive, patronising way of speaking, his barely controlled anger and the most aggressive coffee stirring you’ve ever seen!

ReneBumsWombats · 08/08/2022 22:19

MichelleScarn · 08/08/2022 22:10

@converseandjeans do you think her behavior is acceptable?

What behaviour? Sitting in the car while he calls her a slut?

ilyx · 08/08/2022 22:15

@MichelleScarn

Have you actually seen the TikTok page she’s talking about? Because I’ve not seen any bad behaviour from her, only him being extremely toxic to her.

MichelleScarn · 08/08/2022 22:10

@converseandjeans do you think her behavior is acceptable?

ilyx · 08/08/2022 22:09

@converseandjeans

Yep, always had a bad feeling about him!

converseandjeans · 08/08/2022 22:07

I came on here to see if anyone had seen this TikTok account. It keeps getting banned so Peter must be asking for it to be taken down.

He treats her like s**t - I think he's nasty and spiteful. I don't think any woman should be spoken to like this. KP doesn't deserve to be spoken to like this.

Why was it filmed and streamed? Why did nobody step in and say something to him? How did producers think this was acceptable?

He is portraying himself as perfect Dad.

lightisnotwhite · 24/07/2022 11:15

Where did you get she’s absolved from? Clearly she must know it’s wrong but being arrested and going to court are just fuelling the fire for her need for publicity. She needs help with her issues. Why is she actually not in prison?
Theres so many other threads where the mere mention of mental health is enough to shut down any possibility that posters might be wrong. You don’t tell people with eating disorders to be accountable for themselves. But here KP is screwing herself and her family in front of us all.
When she does have a serious accident and hurts or kills someone or herself it will be too late and everyone will say someone should have stepped in.

MichelleScarn · 24/07/2022 08:19

Beefcurtains79 · 24/07/2022 08:05

“but no one steps in to help her see breast implants aren’t news and mustn’t drive unless sober and drug free.”

You think someone should step in to tell her that she mustn’t drive whilst drunk and on drugs? Like a 43 year old woman doesn’t know this? Jesus, no wonder she never takes accountability with fans like hers.
It’s always someone else’s fault or responsibility, never ever Katie’s.
Her fans are complete enablers.

Just echoing this incredulously, but no one steps in to help her see breast implants aren’t news and mustn’t drive unless sober and drug free.” ?!!
I thought she'd already caused several accidents and been arrested for drinking/drug driving? Is that not enough? The police, the court and seeing the aftermath of the car damage caused? Oh no one actually sat her down before hand and told her this is wrong so she's absolved?!

Beefcurtains79 · 24/07/2022 08:05

“but no one steps in to help her see breast implants aren’t news and mustn’t drive unless sober and drug free.”

You think someone should step in to tell her that she mustn’t drive whilst drunk and on drugs? Like a 43 year old woman doesn’t know this? Jesus, no wonder she never takes accountability with fans like hers.
It’s always someone else’s fault or responsibility, never ever Katie’s.
Her fans are complete enablers.

lightisnotwhite · 23/07/2022 22:07

I started a sympathetic thread about KP mental health last year and it was taken down as “ not in the spirt.Thereby setting up the idea that mental health issues are some sort of embarrassment rather than solvable. Her choices are all currently terrible but no one steps in to help her see breast implants aren’t news and mustn’t drive unless sober and drug free.

Shes not disgusting. She’s got self esteem issues compounded by the fact she makes her living through exactly those issues.
She really liked Pete and for what it’s worth I think he really really liked her. But neither could compromise for the other. Their stage alter egos were too strong.

persianmafia · 23/07/2022 21:39

ilyx · 17/07/2022 20:40

KP told Keiran's new wife she hoped their unborn baby would die in a series of abusive text messages

Actually no, there are zero texts, his fiancé is alleging she “overheard” her say it. This is the same fiancé who took out a restraining order again KP because she’s “terrified” of her yet makes constant digs at her calling her a bad mother on Instagram. If she’s so terrified of her she should stop trying to provoke her.

Utter rubbish- her vile abusive behaviour has been witnessed by others. You cannot get a restraining order without evidence.

She is a disgusting creature

Beefcurtains79 · 20/07/2022 06:46

ilyx · 17/07/2022 20:40

KP told Keiran's new wife she hoped their unborn baby would die in a series of abusive text messages

Actually no, there are zero texts, his fiancé is alleging she “overheard” her say it. This is the same fiancé who took out a restraining order again KP because she’s “terrified” of her yet makes constant digs at her calling her a bad mother on Instagram. If she’s so terrified of her she should stop trying to provoke her.

I’d be terrified of a woman who screamed at me I was a cunt at the school gates and how she would ruin my life. Are all the teachers and other parents who witnessed this lying also? And the judge who granted the restraining order?

baileys6904 · 19/07/2022 17:45

Ps. read every post, seeing as I have no life, gave me something to do. Far too entertaining for words. And transparent. V transparent.

baileys6904 · 19/07/2022 17:44

@Macbeth8 presume that's meant for me?? Didn't realise copying a name would be so tricky but 🤷‍♀️
That escalated quickly hun.....touched a wee sensitive tootsie did I? Soz KP how dare I express an opinion on a forum asjin for opinions 🤣🤣🤣
Now excuse me while I go back to my non-life and cry into a pillow for being so pathetic 😉

Macbeth8 · 19/07/2022 14:55

@babaileys6904
You are extremely pathetic. Where on here shows im a KP fan..have you actually read the op? The thread title? My further posts. Either that or you are just a saddo with no life.

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RaleighDurham · 18/07/2022 20:06

@ilyx You hats just nonsense.
I actually follow Michelle on Instagram and she has never said that about a Katie. She's actually very tactful with regards to Katie's younger children, who she is bringing up beautifully with zero acknowledgment or thanks from KP.

ilyx · 17/07/2022 20:40

KP told Keiran's new wife she hoped their unborn baby would die in a series of abusive text messages

Actually no, there are zero texts, his fiancé is alleging she “overheard” her say it. This is the same fiancé who took out a restraining order again KP because she’s “terrified” of her yet makes constant digs at her calling her a bad mother on Instagram. If she’s so terrified of her she should stop trying to provoke her.

ilyx · 17/07/2022 20:36

Yes! It’s all over TikTok, I’ve always found him really insincere, and he’s like that ON CAMERA, he can’t even hold it together with a camera in his face, cannot imagine how bad he was off camera.

baileys6904 · 17/07/2022 18:47

@Macbeth8 alright Katie hun, how's Thailand? X

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