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To only just realise it was Peter Andre in the wrong not Katie P!

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Macbeth8 · 30/06/2022 23:40

This is a random thread..if you arent interested in Katie and Peter please dont bother reading...
Just had a binge watch of old episodes of Americas Next top model on youtube and it showed me Katie and Peter stateside - their opd documentary..I used to watch it and love them as a couple together. Was gutted when they split but like everyone else at the time I remember thinking how awful Katie was and how she was in the wrong during that infamous massive row they had in that shop in LA.
It pops back up and so I watch it again, near in mind this is after years of me seeing ir. And cant believe it! Its like a brand new argument - completely saw this in a different way.
Pete was the onein the wrong, not Katie. In fact he was awful, actually abusive? Swearing at her calling her a f*king b**ch, "a cow", "you think youre gonna get away with it?"
Bleeding hell, if this isnt abusive I dont know what is! Im more in shock because I remember all the stick KP got, the hate campaign and the "team Pete" . He deserves a medal and all that bollocks.
It just doesnt make sense. How can anyone see it for what itnwas? In fact watching it again, KP hardly spoke..it was all Pete winding her uo, qlmost goading her and then blasting her when she bit back at him..Im just really shocked I guess....😶 makes you wonder how things can get so easily misrepresented.
What does everyone think?

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motogirl · 01/07/2022 10:09

You can't trust anything that's filmed - people put on an act for the cameras. What is clear is she a very troubled woman now.

Ilovedthe70s · 01/07/2022 10:08

Not entirely true.
I worked with her father, he introduced them at her request. He did not encourage the relationship.

CanYouNotReadTheSign · 01/07/2022 10:04

I think they're both awful. I really do feel sorry for their children, being rolled out and used to generate sympathy and likes. Pete doing his perfect dad and husband routine and Katie encouraging Princess to be a mini me, then using Harvey for sympathy when she fucks up AGAIN.

Macbeth8 · 01/07/2022 10:04

If you rewatch the episodes of her with the kids, she is clearly different with Harvey. Much more gentle and affectionate. She actually seems at peace when shes just sat with Harvey..like a different woman.

Its a bit unnerving when Princess is having a tantrum and banging her jead on the floor - you just see Katie laughing it off whereas when Harvey starts to have one of his meltdowns she takes his arms and hugs him, whispers to him..amazing mum to Harvey..I couldnt imagine what it would be like to have a child with so many complex needs. Hasnt anyone thought thats one the main reasons shes so overtly depressed/manic? I suppoose years of that would take its toll on you.
I know I would not cope at all.

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Allnostalgic · 01/07/2022 10:03

Whatever Katie Price is or isn't. It doesn't take away the fact that Peter Andre is a lying, manipulative, abusing creep.

She might be a mess, a druggie, a criminal and more but she took 100% of the blame and the public hatred and misogyny while Peter Andre carved himself a nice little career as a saint all off the back of Katie Price and her misery.

He used her to get his name back in the public eye, he gladly contributed to her downfall and now he has his young wife and their squeaky clean saintly image but he is a horrible, creepy, spiteful little man.

ItsSnowJokes · 01/07/2022 10:02

itsgettingweird · 01/07/2022 09:41

her questionable relationship decisions aside, she has done a great job with Harvey.

I use to agree with this although suspected she had far more help than the average send family.

However I'm disgusted lately with how she takes him from that safe and supportive environment into nightclubs for meet and greets. There is absolutely no way he is competent enough to fully consent to that and it's definitely about making money for her and not him.

His living costs are paid for and he'll also get full rate PIP.

His father paid Katie Price's mum a minimum of 35k a year to be his carer, as he was mostly brought up by his Nan when he was younger. Then nannies. All this bullshit of she has brought him up singlehandedly is so wrong. She has never brought him up on her own.

She buggered off when he was just weeks old for weeks on end so she could go to the playboy mansion.

Earpieced · 01/07/2022 10:02

He was always going to go to residential I don’t think he’s been removed from her, no. The others she agreed to live with their dads near their schools when she was caught on tape taking cocaine and it all blew up in the media. She was getting herself sorted out. She then was seeing them frequently until she got involved with her absolutely awful boyfriend and now she has very restricted access after a serious of very serious events

Americano75 · 01/07/2022 10:01

I didn't really watch the show, but I've never fallen for his Nice Guy Peter act.

KneeQuestion · 01/07/2022 09:58

Harvey was the last to go as he is clearly more difficult to place and has no father to take him

that is categorically untrue.

TruJay · 01/07/2022 09:57

She has made some poor choices absolutely but the parent she has been to Harvey, single handedly, is a good one. Whereas his dad completely abandoned all responsibility.

My children have similar disabilities and when I’ve watched her with Harvey, I can totally relate to the circumstances and her interaction with him. It’s a difficult life and she’s devoted to him.

No one actually knows her except those closest, we only know what is fed to us by the media and by people who benefit from her being made out to be this terrible person.

It’s also ok to disagree with me without throwing insults at me and my so called ‘low bar’.

RewildingAmbridge · 01/07/2022 09:53

I don't think you can judge either of them in that relationship based on record docusoap footage.
KP needs help, she's going to end up in prison if she carries on the way she has been

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 01/07/2022 09:52

Badger1970 · 01/07/2022 09:51

What an absolute crock.

She's a disgrace of a human being who has lost custody of her kids.

Fucking hell, there are some low bars on here.

It’s not crock to see the bigger picture of how someone ended up where they did.

I don’t get why her brother stopped looking after her money

Badger1970 · 01/07/2022 09:51

What an absolute crock.

She's a disgrace of a human being who has lost custody of her kids.

Fucking hell, there are some low bars on here.

Earpieced · 01/07/2022 09:47

What you see is Katie gets a lot of self gratification from Harvey, it makes her feel good secure and loved. The other kids she is very matey with in a way of banter and not as nurturing and affectionate it’s a different set up

I do know someone who knows her but yes my info is 2nd hand I never said it wasn’t? Actually the person I know also felt sorry for her and liked her a lot, then was turned on by Katie. There are 2 sides to that story too rightly or wrongly Katie has got a lot of issues and no intention of getting the right kind of help she would benefit from. The main knowledge I have is that she is in total denial about her money issues and blaming everyone else and won’t take any responsibly for any of her own actions.

itsgettingweird · 01/07/2022 09:41

her questionable relationship decisions aside, she has done a great job with Harvey.

I use to agree with this although suspected she had far more help than the average send family.

However I'm disgusted lately with how she takes him from that safe and supportive environment into nightclubs for meet and greets. There is absolutely no way he is competent enough to fully consent to that and it's definitely about making money for her and not him.

His living costs are paid for and he'll also get full rate PIP.

fuming12 · 01/07/2022 09:41

I think this has been fairly well documented.

Katie accused Peter of having an affair but was basically having an affair herself which resulted in an abortion. There is a possibility it was Peters baby, but who knows.

Her children have (all) been removed from her and she only has supervised access. Harvey was the last to go as he is clearly more difficult to place and has no father to take him. She is no "good mum" currently. She does appear to be a good mum when not on drugs and with unsuitable men, but the fact SS have removed the kids speaks for itself.

Peter Andre may not have been an angel, but Katie is the one who cannot stay in a relationship. Their relationship was already going very bad when those rows were filmed.

Emily's father introduced her to Peter, and as he knew him well one assumes he is not generally an abusive arsehole, but probably Katie brought out the worst in him.

Katie's current male pal is a user who is verbally abusive and physically abusive and banned from seeing the kids, yet she is still hanging on to him.

She has documented long term issues with alcohol and drugs.

She is very close to being sent to prison for various drug and alcohol related crimes, and is clearly not currently abstaining from drugs.

All in all I think the person starting this thread is a last ditch effort from her PR to try to paint her as an abused woman, which I'm not at all sure fits the bill...

butterflied · 01/07/2022 09:40

They're both fucking awful. If she wasn't KP, she'd be in prison. Just hope she doesn't end up killing someone.

Highfivemum · 01/07/2022 09:38

Katie is extremely vulnerable and on a bit of a spiral. I have always thought her completely honest and heart on her sleeve. When she was in the jungle she came across as a lovely person who wasn’t the person she normally portraits. Her demons are with her and have been for a while. I really hope she comes out of it the other end as it is very sad to watch her downhill trend. I have met PA as he lived close by and he was always a pleasant guy. So no real comment on him. Katie needs help and I hope she gets it.

SmallPrawnEnergy · 01/07/2022 09:38

Earpieced · 01/07/2022 09:26

No I do know someone who knows her

Of course you do.

And even taking you at your word, YOU don’t … so all your “information” is 2nd hand and means absolutely fuck all. You still don’t know them personally and what they’re actually like.

NonagonInfinityOpensTheDoor · 01/07/2022 09:34

Knowivedonewrong · 01/07/2022 09:04

Katie Price is certainly no mother! She has only access 1 day a week to her youngest kids for two hours. After the alleged slapgate her current squeeze is not allowed around the youngest children. Harvey is in residential the best place for him. She parades him around nightclubs for a 6k fee!
She's a convicted criminal. Having many driving offences, in court again next week for another. Proven in court to have broken her restraining order against her ex husbands partner. Has a revenge porn conviction for another ex husband.

She's one seriously disturbing individual, enabled by her family.

Exactly. Just because he was abusive to her doesn’t mean she isn’t a grade A arsehole. There’s only so much sympathy people can have for people like her and she needs to take some responsibility for her actions, no matter how messed up her childhood was or her mental health issues are. It’s not an excuse.

Kanaloa · 01/07/2022 09:33

Plus on a TV show they have a vested interest in showing her being lovey with the child who has profound disabilities because it sets up a narrative/softens her as a character etc. It’s no real view into someone’s feelings or their life. Maybe she thought ‘I better look after Harvey a bit extra since Junior and Princess have their dad.’ Imagine if she hadn’t? ‘Ooh Katie’s ignoring poor Harvey who has nobody so she can cosy up with her new family she’s sooooo awful.’

Kanaloa · 01/07/2022 09:31

I wouldn’t really say she loves Harvey more than her other kids. It’s pure speculation and a bit mean. Think of it the other way - many of us mums with one child who has extra needs might feel we need to do more for that child. To ‘make it up’ to them because they’ve got things so hard. And Harvey has profound disabilities, plus no dad. She’s all he has.

roseapothecary · 01/07/2022 09:31

I thought it was his fault at the time. I remember thinking how he must have an amazing PR team as everyone seemed to be team Pete with Katie getting all the blame.

Macbeth8 · 01/07/2022 09:28

Just reminds me of my own situation with narcissistic partner..Peter Andre turning on the charm and showing how good of a dad he is. All for show
I am ashamed that I originally watched it and thought she was vile whilst thinking he was amazing! Even shedding tears for him after their huge public break up.

Also, watching old episodes I noticed she loved Harvey more than her other kids? Theres loads of scenes of her - you can tell its the real her..she genuinely looks so happy and peaceful holding Harvey and stroking him. Whereas with Junior and Princess, she basically ignores them, or scolds Junior. I was shocked about that obvious favouritism. I do think Harvey has a special place in her heart ❤ which is lovely to see but do feel sorry for her other kids.

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Earpieced · 01/07/2022 09:26

SmallPrawnEnergy · 01/07/2022 09:24

Literally everyone here is speculating, only informed from the shite they pick up in the media.

No I do know someone who knows her