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High earners - how do you spend your salary?

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Citygirly · 21/05/2022 10:03

DH and I earn just under £140k combined.

We do maximum pension payments (his is 9% as NHS) and we also give about 10% a month to charity.

Other than that, we plan to start overpaying the mortgage. We invest £1k a month (so £500 each) and save £1k for holidays. We of course do general/specific savings but then have a good chunk left over for disposable income.

AIBU to ask other high earning households how they tend to allocate their money? Just want to see if we could be using it better or this is about right for comparables.

OP posts:
Subaru4336 · 21/05/2022 18:23

TomatoorChips · 21/05/2022 14:30

You couldnt afford 3 children in private school and a mortgage of £3 million on £500k.

The schools outside London would be £50k and £90k inside.

Firstly that would exceed earning multiples ( I have just checked through 3 banks) and secondly the mortgage repayments would be prohibitive

Incorrect to assume schools outside London are cheaper; supply and demand dictates school fees, and you'll actually find that in London (apart from the obvious very expensive ones), they're often cheaper, or certainly comparable to, those elsewhere, because there's more competition, as well as grammar schools. 🙃

TheSeldomSeenKid · 21/05/2022 18:15

We over pay the mortgage as we’re paying interest on that. So keen to get rid of it asap. We’ve always been told by financial advisors to get rid of debt really before doing anything else.
We invest in medium and high risk shares and crypto.

lancsgirl85 · 21/05/2022 18:15

SicParvisMagna · 21/05/2022 17:43

I have nothing really constructive to add to this thread, except that Morrisons own Jaffa cakes are banging and far better than Mcvities.

Oh wow really?! Need to try those!

lancsgirl85 · 21/05/2022 18:14

It's something we really enjoy and I think it's really important to have as we make lovely memories and get a good break from our stressful and time intensive jobs.

Yep. Pretty much applies to most of the population I'd say.......

Nothappyatwork · 21/05/2022 18:13

@SicParvisMagna

Houseoffools · 21/05/2022 18:13

Mamai90 · 21/05/2022 13:27

Is that you Molly-Mae? 🙄

bloody hell.
“only you can change that”
spectacularly wrong on so many levels

Nothappyatwork · 21/05/2022 18:12

SicParvisMagna · 21/05/2022 17:53

Actually tell a lie I would like to ask something. My husband currently earns just under £30k and I am not in work due to having to leave my retail job after an injury (nothing serious enough to claim for but enough for me to have to leave before I was forced out).

We don't own our own property, and we have no savings.
My husband is also a part time script writer and has started to get some success with projects being made. Each one is probably only going to be in the region of £20k and under a time (some as low as £2k), but added together it would be a nice little amount especially since we are currently poor!

I would like to save it, possibly put towards a house (would only buy if we could be mortgage free, we're late 30's early 40's and I don't think we would get a mortgage now but would rather not have one if we could possibly avoid it).

If you was in my position, and had a lump sum of say £60k what would be the best course of action? I'm utterly clueless so any advice would be grand. I know that's not a life changing amount, but I hope it would just be the beginning of what he will earn.

If you can buy a house in your locality for 200 grand to live in I would do that and if you can’t buy a house for 200 grand on a buy to let mortgage and rented out especially if you can wait about 12 to 18 months when the madness of highest prices hopefully will end you might be able to snap of a good deal. In the meantime for 20 grand each into a ISA I made about £2000 last year on a stocks and shares Isa. If you’re under 40 I believe you can get the first time buyers ISA, one each and the government Will add 25% to both of your totals.

Butchyrestingface · 21/05/2022 18:08

We allocate £12k to holidays a year currently and will want this to go up once we have DC. It's something we really enjoy and I think it's really important to have as we make lovely memories and get a good break from our stressful and time intensive jobs.

Dorsal fin spotted heading for shore... 🦈🦈🦈

Onwards22 · 21/05/2022 18:07

@resipsa
I’m sorry to hear about the cancer diagnosis.

Do you mind me asking what job you and your DH did to earn so much?

Robinni · 21/05/2022 18:03

Shamplade · 21/05/2022 17:43

Lordofmyflies

I can see the argument for seeing the world while you are on it but don’t you worry about the impact on the climate emergency and the future for your kids? I’d feel too guilty to fly so much.

This is actually a good point. I can see them limiting leisure flights in the not so distant future if we can’t get things under control…. So high earners will need to find something other than holidays… dread the housing market then.

Peanutbuttercupisyum · 21/05/2022 17:54

School fees times 4

SicParvisMagna · 21/05/2022 17:53

Actually tell a lie I would like to ask something. My husband currently earns just under £30k and I am not in work due to having to leave my retail job after an injury (nothing serious enough to claim for but enough for me to have to leave before I was forced out).

We don't own our own property, and we have no savings.
My husband is also a part time script writer and has started to get some success with projects being made. Each one is probably only going to be in the region of £20k and under a time (some as low as £2k), but added together it would be a nice little amount especially since we are currently poor!

I would like to save it, possibly put towards a house (would only buy if we could be mortgage free, we're late 30's early 40's and I don't think we would get a mortgage now but would rather not have one if we could possibly avoid it).

If you was in my position, and had a lump sum of say £60k what would be the best course of action? I'm utterly clueless so any advice would be grand. I know that's not a life changing amount, but I hope it would just be the beginning of what he will earn.

resipsa · 21/05/2022 17:51

londonmummy1966 · 21/05/2022 16:24

The most important advice I can give you is not how to spend it but to make sure you have a decent income protection policy. I'd made partner before I had DC and had the standard partnership policy (which was designed for middle aged men having heart attacks etc). It was very generous which is just as well because I was hospitalised for 6 months with severe postnatal depression after having DD2 and have not been able to work since. That policy pays me an indexed link amount equivalent to my old drawings until I'm 60 and thank goodness it does.

This isn't a pity post as I've been able to lots of interesting charitable projects since stopping work but losing my hard won career was traumatic enough without losing the income stream on top.

Absolutely agree! My DH earns more than OP's and her DH's joint income and my salary is 6 figures too for context). We lived accordingly but were blind-sided by a cancer diagnosis at 38. Income protection saved us.

emuloc · 21/05/2022 17:48

orwellwasright · 21/05/2022 12:52

I draw out around a thousand each week in £50 notes then burn them in front of poor people.

Hi Boris.

SicParvisMagna · 21/05/2022 17:43

I have nothing really constructive to add to this thread, except that Morrisons own Jaffa cakes are banging and far better than Mcvities.

Shamplade · 21/05/2022 17:43

Lordofmyflies

I can see the argument for seeing the world while you are on it but don’t you worry about the impact on the climate emergency and the future for your kids? I’d feel too guilty to fly so much.

wishmyhousetidy · 21/05/2022 17:42

Woundabout · 21/05/2022 12:02

I wouldn’t call that particularly high earning but I guess depends where you live. In London it wouldn’t go far - I’m single but earn quite a bit more than half of that and don’t feel high earning so money goes on usual things - holidays, house, mortgage, going out.

Seriously - that is high earning. I live in London too and that is high earning and not sure why you think otherwise

Iamacatslave · 21/05/2022 17:41

Nando’s.

SheeceRearsmith · 21/05/2022 17:35

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Vermetastic · 21/05/2022 17:30

We save it and also help family. Mortgage is paid off. Earn around 200k combined and live in London suburb.

Probably live a similar lifestyle to those on a quarter of our combined salary and don’t do anything particularly special with it.
DC is at a state school, no debts.

What our income affords us is not having to worry about money and if something needs replacing/breaks, we can buy it without it having any impact.

Nothappyatwork · 21/05/2022 17:29

Mally100 · 21/05/2022 17:21

My dh is in banking and earned much more than this at 27. It just shows the poster is clueless as to other professions existing. It is very much possible.

You’d hate me then I was on 100 grand a year at 22 back in 1999.

Robinni · 21/05/2022 17:29

@orwellwasright what is wrong with somebody from a humble background asking other high earners how they manage their money?

The girl has no social reference points.

If she were from a family of high earners they would already have an investment portfolio and be guiding her as to how to wisely manage money for the most beneficial long term outcome. Probably would have her as a director of several family businesses already.

MN is for everyone and honestly I don’t understand why any time an individual so much as mentions money be it their earnings or inheritance they are met with women being jealous/suspicious/outright nasty.

Nothappyatwork · 21/05/2022 17:28

I have gone long on McVities rich tea I managed to secure them at 1.9 for two packs which I’m very pleased about, that’s an investment that’s going to prove lucrative.

generally speaking most of my money goes in my pension now. I cannot wait to exit the rat race even if I won’t be wealthy in my dotage I won’t be working so I’ll be happy.

i’m hoping that that will mean that I’m able to support my daughters in their career choices as well and help them by providing childcare I do you think that’s probably the best gift you can give your children.

Mally100 · 21/05/2022 17:21

AhNowTed · 21/05/2022 15:59

My 27 year old son earns more than his (just retired) father was.

He has a STEM degree and a Masters (and the student debt to go with it) and works in finance in London.

Not just possible, but fairly common.

My dh is in banking and earned much more than this at 27. It just shows the poster is clueless as to other professions existing. It is very much possible.

orwellwasright · 21/05/2022 17:19

Citygirly · 21/05/2022 16:30

@orwellwasright I think your contributions to this thread are much more about you rather than me or anyone else who has posted along the same vein. If you don't think this post is beneficial, then no need to try and engage.

I think it's beneficial for you to realise that it's not ok to pretend you need help so that you can boast about your earnings.

Seriously, sweetheart. You're going to be so embarrassed about this when you're older.

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