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High earners - how do you spend your salary?

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Citygirly · 21/05/2022 10:03

DH and I earn just under £140k combined.

We do maximum pension payments (his is 9% as NHS) and we also give about 10% a month to charity.

Other than that, we plan to start overpaying the mortgage. We invest £1k a month (so £500 each) and save £1k for holidays. We of course do general/specific savings but then have a good chunk left over for disposable income.

AIBU to ask other high earning households how they tend to allocate their money? Just want to see if we could be using it better or this is about right for comparables.

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Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 16:10

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 16:02

And of course they are happy to give the details to the junior at work who clearly hates them…

You need to stop being bitter about others finances and take responsibility for yours.

Well I was shagging one of them so yeah they do get quite loose lipped after a couple of gin and tonic‘s. You can hate the system without hating the individual, the game not the player.

orwellwasright · 23/05/2022 16:05

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SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 16:02

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 15:50

Anything that goes through the books as PAYE is obviously taxed, no way to avoid that. Relatively though it’s buttons.

However they have outside interests where they do not pay anywhere near the same level of tax because they don’t have to, it’s called tax avoidance not tax evasion. These are the directors of the big four, not stupid, certainly not going to get caught with their pants down.

And of course they are happy to give the details to the junior at work who clearly hates them…

You need to stop being bitter about others finances and take responsibility for yours.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 16:01

minipie · 23/05/2022 15:29

Nothappy I think you’re confusing salary vs bonus with taxed vs untaxed. I presume the directors’ earnings outside their monthly salary are also taxed. If not then please report them!

I think so too. Bonuses of course are taxed exactly the same as salary, they aren’t some kind of tax dodge.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 16:00

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 15:27

Again pull the other one, it’s absolutely nothing to do with their PAYE salary. The company that I work for at the moment as a stopgap, The directors wouldn’t wipe their arse with what they pick up on a month-to-month basis its everything else they actually fund their lifestyles through.

You seem very keen to make généralisations from your personal life. That’s rarely advisable.

Everyone I work with in banking and everyone I know in law and accountancy are paid via PAYE.

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 15:50

minipie · 23/05/2022 15:29

Nothappy I think you’re confusing salary vs bonus with taxed vs untaxed. I presume the directors’ earnings outside their monthly salary are also taxed. If not then please report them!

Anything that goes through the books as PAYE is obviously taxed, no way to avoid that. Relatively though it’s buttons.

However they have outside interests where they do not pay anywhere near the same level of tax because they don’t have to, it’s called tax avoidance not tax evasion. These are the directors of the big four, not stupid, certainly not going to get caught with their pants down.

FuriousCheekyFucker · 23/05/2022 15:50

Swan drumsticks, solid gold toilet seats, Van Gogh paintings and lots of noodle doodles, you know, the usual stuff.

Merryclaire · 23/05/2022 15:34

Citygirly · 23/05/2022 11:51

@Bex000

Thanks so much for your helpful post.

We live away from London even though I work there so we can be close to both sides for help with childcare. Both grandparents have agreed to do one day a week each and are happy to come to our house on their day. I would ideally go down to 4 days so then nursery only needed for 2 days. DH also happy to drop a day if he needs to but hope that's not necessary.

This is my philosophy with fashion now. I would really like to spend responsibly on sustainable fashion and pieces that will last.

We are investing for next house now and will put amount up soon and keep putting up as pay rises allow. We need to build a decent deposit as don't have family help to fall back on so even though we can borrow quite a bit, we need to ensure we have that capital to put forward.

I would like to start buying luxury items as have not yet but have my eye on a few.

I have a reasonable car (second hand) and DH's is about 10 years old. We wouldn't buy new cars for the reasons you've stated.

Thanks again!

That’s a very detailed childcare plan when you aren’t planning on having kids for a few years!

I’d love to know what ‘luxury items’ you have your eye on - a Faberge egg? Ivory backscratcher?

minipie · 23/05/2022 15:29

Nothappy I think you’re confusing salary vs bonus with taxed vs untaxed. I presume the directors’ earnings outside their monthly salary are also taxed. If not then please report them!

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 15:27

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 15:24

Some of which will be explained by the fact that for very high earners the state is already taking 47% of most of their pay each month for the benefit of the rest of society.

It’s not surprising that many think that that’s enough to be getting on with.

Again pull the other one, it’s absolutely nothing to do with their PAYE salary. The company that I work for at the moment as a stopgap, The directors wouldn’t wipe their arse with what they pick up on a month-to-month basis its everything else they actually fund their lifestyles through.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 15:24

Fulbe · 23/05/2022 15:17

Not much on here about charity giving. Interesting. There is research to show that the more people earn or the higher 'status' they are, the less generous they become.

Some of which will be explained by the fact that for very high earners the state is already taking 47% of most of their pay each month for the benefit of the rest of society.

It’s not surprising that many think that that’s enough to be getting on with.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 15:20

MinnieMountain · 23/05/2022 06:17

It’s £40,000 @SlightlyGeordieJohn . DH puts that much in every March.

Some of the top law firms pay NQ solicitors six figures now.

No, for high earners it’s only £4,000 each per year. If you’ve been putting more on than that then you’re likely to be taxed on it but not be able to reverse the decision to pay it in, so you end up tying it up without any benefit.

Fulbe · 23/05/2022 15:17

Not much on here about charity giving. Interesting. There is research to show that the more people earn or the higher 'status' they are, the less generous they become.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 15:14

orwellwasright · 23/05/2022 15:10

High earners in the UK pay a disproportionate share of tax

This is good. Means it's a progressive tax.

However, that's not the whole story is it? Income is a tiny part of wealth. We need to be taxing assets and capital before we have anything like a fair taxation system.

Not really. The bottom three quintiles of households in the UK contribute nothing at all, net. The second top quintile pause around £4,000 per year, and the top quintile pays everything else.

The UK taxes lower and middle-earners much less than our neighbours do.

I’d prefer that you started paying your fair share before demanding yet more from those already subsidising you so heavily.

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 15:11

orwellwasright · 23/05/2022 15:10

High earners in the UK pay a disproportionate share of tax

This is good. Means it's a progressive tax.

However, that's not the whole story is it? Income is a tiny part of wealth. We need to be taxing assets and capital before we have anything like a fair taxation system.

Precisely my earlier point …. Only fools and horses work

orwellwasright · 23/05/2022 15:10

High earners in the UK pay a disproportionate share of tax

This is good. Means it's a progressive tax.

However, that's not the whole story is it? Income is a tiny part of wealth. We need to be taxing assets and capital before we have anything like a fair taxation system.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 15:10

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 14:52

It was more directed to the, sorry to use the the term but tone deafness, ludicrous statement hopefully everybody will soon be able to avoid paying tax ….. we would all be fucked 🤣
In 2022 most people won’t be able to afford tax avoidance, it’s just for the lucky few.

It really isn’t. Lower earners still get to avoid tax, it’s just that the government does it for you.

There’s the tax-free allowance on income, reduced rates above the allowance, and an automated calculation at-source for pensions allowance.

Making use of these and complaining that higher earners use their allowances too is a bit inconsistent.

BellePeppa · 23/05/2022 15:09

orwellwasright · 23/05/2022 13:50

Aah, lovely. Second home owners and private landlords have completely fucked the UK's housing market and are on to other countries now.

AirBnB has a lot to answer for too! Using properties that could be real homes for holidaymakers seems very unethical to me.

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 14:52

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 14:41

Do you pay more tax than you are required to, or just think that others should?

Getting upset that people invest in pensions or ISAs is quite some level of bitterness.

It was more directed to the, sorry to use the the term but tone deafness, ludicrous statement hopefully everybody will soon be able to avoid paying tax ….. we would all be fucked 🤣
In 2022 most people won’t be able to afford tax avoidance, it’s just for the lucky few.

High earners - how do you spend your salary?
SlightlyGeordieJohn · 23/05/2022 14:41

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 13:40

Then we can all pay less tax together … wonder how society will look in that event 🙄

Do you pay more tax than you are required to, or just think that others should?

Getting upset that people invest in pensions or ISAs is quite some level of bitterness.

notanymore2 · 23/05/2022 14:39

This is amazing 🤣

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 14:34

dillydally24 · 23/05/2022 14:20

High earners in the UK pay a disproportionate share of tax (30% of income tax is paid by the top 1% of earners). Many pay their taxes willingly because they recognise the importance of redistribution. You should not demonise them for trying to maximise the tax efficiency of their savings strategy. It is just sound money management and a perfectly reasonable thing to do. You would do the same in their position.

You have no idea what i would do “in their position”

wolfiemutt · 23/05/2022 14:33

High earners in the UK pay a disproportionate share of tax (30% of income tax is paid by the top 1% of earners).

This much quoted stat only tells part of the picture.

"Most of the revenue from the top one per cent comes from a cohort of high-earning employees, who pay the often-quoted top rate of 45 per cent income tax plus two per cent national insurance contributions, with minimal deductions or reliefs. But a substantial minority pay much lower rates, especially taking into account capital gains, which offer an alternative way of taking rewards, mainly for the richest."

"Using anonymised data from personal tax returns, we show that in 2015-16 the average rate of tax paid by people who received one million pounds in taxable income and gains was just 35 per cent: the same as someone earning £100,000. But one in four of these paid 45 per cent – close to the top rate – whilst another quarter paid less than 30 per cent overall. One in ten paid just 11 per cent—the same as someone earning £15,000. The rich, it seems, are not all in it together."

dillydally24 · 23/05/2022 14:20

Nothappyatwork · 23/05/2022 13:40

Then we can all pay less tax together … wonder how society will look in that event 🙄

High earners in the UK pay a disproportionate share of tax (30% of income tax is paid by the top 1% of earners). Many pay their taxes willingly because they recognise the importance of redistribution. You should not demonise them for trying to maximise the tax efficiency of their savings strategy. It is just sound money management and a perfectly reasonable thing to do. You would do the same in their position.

User48751490 · 23/05/2022 14:15

Mammyloveswine · 23/05/2022 07:39

What an insensitive thread given the cost of living crisis...

And there's currently people in Davos who are millionaires demanding to be taxed more! Some people who are wealthy can see the inequality right now and want the tax system overhauled. Rightly so, as it's not working for the many.