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Ricky Gervais' 'After Life' on Netflix is truly awful

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Lottapianos · 18/04/2022 17:15

I'm halfway through series 3 - you can't say I haven't done my research ☺️ I'm hypnotised by the awfulness. I think it's the most overrated load of claptrap since Gavin and Stacey. There's the odd very funny line and some great performances but dear god 🤦🏻

Main problems with it:

  • obviously just a vehicle for Ricky Gervais' misanthropic worldview
  • trite and sentimental
  • doesn't go anywhere, same scenes repeated endlessly (sitting on couch getting pissed, lying in bed watching old clips on laptop)
  • non stop misogyny - endless c-words and some truly vile lines from one character about how badly women stink and graphic sexual stuff
  • he and his wife (seen in flashback) are bloody annoying, always honking with laughter at his tedious antics. Nothing like any couple I have ever come across ever
  • lots of pointless characters seemingly there just to create a short role for Gervais' mates

I could go on! And yes of course I could just switch the damn thing off, but indulge me. Anyone else just not get it?

OP posts:
EarringsandLipstick · 18/04/2022 20:23

Diane Morgan scene crying at yoga was fantastic.

Yes. Brilliant. Really heartbreaking.

Loopytiles · 18/04/2022 20:21

There were both good and bad things about it, for me.

Got a bit same-y after a while.

Diane Morgan scene crying at yoga was fantastic.

PonyPatter44 · 18/04/2022 20:17

I thought After Life was ok...just ok. I've never been a huge fan of RG, but I quite enjoyed series 1 - not enough to bother with series 2 or 3 though.

Gavin & Stacey is just fucking DIRE though. I hate the whole lot of them, except Gavin's moron friend who learns Welsh for the stag do. That was the only funny bit in all three series. And while we're on the subject of unfunny Welsh comedies involving Ruth 'Hilarious' Jones ,bloody, bloody Stella is just the worst ever.

My DD loves both these series, hence why I have sat through all of them.

HikingforScenery · 18/04/2022 20:08

I agree. Absolute rubbish. I only lasted, maybe the first episode? Maybe two.

EarringsandLipstick · 18/04/2022 20:04

I also make, without comment, the observation that everyone I know who loved After Life is a bit thick not as deep-thinking as they could be.

How utterly patronising & insulting. 😡

EarringsandLipstick · 18/04/2022 20:03

I am not a massive RG fan but I do think he caught something about grief that just about every TV show & film has failed to capture. How it is grim, unrelenting, it doesn’t go away as life goes on and people move on and it can make you behave like a twat. It is not heroic or picturesque or solved by finding new love.

That's excellently put HeadNorth. I agree & that's what came through to me from Afterlife too, despite some challenges I had with the plot / characterisation.

HeadNorth · 18/04/2022 19:51

@BurnDownTheDiscoHangTheDJ

Gervais on his own leans heavily towards sentimental in my opinion. It was Merchant who gave him a bit of edge. Neither have made projects apart that are as good as their projects together.

I also make, without comment, the observation that everyone I know who loved After Life is a bit thick not as deep-thinking as they could be.

Well don’t you sound lovely.

I am not a massive RG fan but I do think he caught something about grief that just about every TV show & film has failed to capture. How it is grim, unrelenting, it doesn’t go away as life goes on and people move on and it can make you behave like a twat. It is not heroic or picturesque or solved by finding new love.

But then, I’m obviously a bit thick.

pigsDOfly · 18/04/2022 19:49

lets not forget the main star....Brandy the dog!!

Oh my god yes, Brandy. What a gorgeous creature. Completely fell in love with her.

WalkingAcrossAFord · 18/04/2022 19:39
Hmm
Jazzyjeffery · 18/04/2022 19:37

I loved it. Then again I liked gavin and Stacey too. It's just not your thing OP. I can't believe you've got to series 3 when you don't like it.. why not just switch it off? I start countless series and stop - so many choices, why keep suffering through?

BurnDownTheDiscoHangTheDJ · 18/04/2022 19:36

Gervais on his own leans heavily towards sentimental in my opinion. It was Merchant who gave him a bit of edge. Neither have made projects apart that are as good as their projects together.

I also make, without comment, the observation that everyone I know who loved After Life is a bit thick not as deep-thinking as they could be.

bringincrazyback · 18/04/2022 19:34

At least it's not as bad as Derek. Now that really was dire.

EarringsandLipstick · 18/04/2022 19:32

let's not forget the main star....Brandy the dog!!

Oh yes!

EarringsandLipstick · 18/04/2022 19:31

Reading with interest.

On the face of it, I should hate After Life.

  • I really don't like RG (person or actor)
  • I don't like this style of humour
  • Generally dislike use of c-word
  • Not mad about The Office

Many of the scenes & plot lines, as described, don't appeal to me at all. Like, yes, I found the endless pranks on his wife incredibly annoying.

BUT

I somehow loved it. Loath as I am to admit it, I think if captured the essence of grief brilliantly; RG character was incredibly moving & I laughed & cried.

I could logically point out a million flaws with it, like other posters have said. But emotionally, I loved it.

(And especially Roisin Conaty's character & Julian's storyline)

MrsPnut · 18/04/2022 19:26

I related to a lot of what Lisa said in her videos, I have cancer and I have worried about how my family would cope if I died. Not that I am all that but I am definitely the glue that holds us together.

I thought it showed well that grief is not linear and people are complex. The easy way would have been a happy ever after but life is rarely like that.

Runmybathforme · 18/04/2022 19:18

Absolutely loved it, the best portrayal of grief I've ever seen.

HeckinMiffed · 18/04/2022 19:14

Same too. Not a massive fan of RG but I found it honest and touching.
I watched all 3 series and cried and laughed. It dealt with life after death very openly I thought.
And let's not forget the main star....Brandy the dog!! 🙂
For those of us who have been saved by dogs, it was relatable.

ReadtheReviews · 18/04/2022 19:09

Yabu

Pootle40 · 18/04/2022 19:05

@Spidey66

I loved it. I found it both funny and touching.
Same
Suzi888 · 18/04/2022 19:03

“Ricky is also a hero to me regarding his work he does with saving dogs from the vile Chinese meat industry!”
Me too.

Gavin and Stacey, Benidorm…. Never seen them, but remind me to be along the same lines.
I loved the opening scene of After Life and the
ending. It was much of a muchness though.

KezzabellaB · 18/04/2022 18:58

I love it, so YABU!

WeBurnedSoBrightWeBurnedOut · 18/04/2022 18:57

I enjoyed it as something to watch in the evenings without having to pay much attention, but i reeaally didn't get the wife, found her annoying and far too forced at being the happy, goofy ball of fun

PeachesToday · 18/04/2022 18:54

I loved it and sobbed… often!

The third season felt unnecessary though. Lots of repetition.

Salome61 · 18/04/2022 18:52

As a widow, I liked it. Considering he isn't a widow, he got a lot of it right. I was pleased to see the 'bench' initiative.

Rhondapearlman · 18/04/2022 18:51

I loved it. I’ve always hated Gervais but this has made me see him differently. I found it incredibly moving and cried every episode 😫

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