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Half term didn't used to exist did it?

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EthicalNonMahogany · 09/04/2022 09:51

I feel gaslit by the world! The number of people who are saying to me "oh, at school we always used to call the Easter, Christmas and summer break half term". No you didn't! You used to call it the Easter holidays. It was the holiday that happens at the end of term.

"Half term" used to happen three times a year and was the week off, half way through each term.

I know there have been threads on this before - I'm not disputing that many people now call all the holidays half term. It seems to be the thing now. (Stupid and inaccurate as it may be, but I shall endeavour to cope and life will go on Grin)

My AIBU is this - people are saying it was always that way. AIBU to say no it bloody wasn't!!

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LittleBearPad · 09/04/2022 11:18

Thank god. I’ve noticed this on MN recently and it’s asinine.

It’s the Easter holidays. There are three half terms a year, that’s it.

Snoozer11 · 09/04/2022 11:18

I used to have people incorrectly calling it half term in real life.

lightisnotwhite · 09/04/2022 11:16

Yes! I’ve noticed this too. I work with someone with primary kids who calls Easter “half term”. She’s young. It’s annoying since we are in education.

Ohmnomnom · 09/04/2022 11:14

I don't care about about the correct terminology for school holidays but I think there are far too many of them! I've only just recovered (mentally, not financially) from this round of kid juggling and the childminder has just sent out another text telling us to book in for the May half term 😭 It takes military-style planning to get 2 kids of different ages and interests booked into the correct holiday clubs, camps, childminder sessions, and activities. I then need to rearrange all my clients to fit in with the new schedule. Then the pain of handing over several hundred pounds to ensure my offspring are kept alive and well while I go scrub toilets. Single parent so no one to help out with it all.

Sorry that turned into a bit of a rant!

Benjispruce4 · 09/04/2022 11:14

Half term is October, February and May. Halfway through each whole term.

SquirrelFan · 09/04/2022 11:13

I think it's come from a reluctance to assume people are celebrating Easter. Same with Christmas break - I've found myself just saying "the holidays". Half term just trips off the tongue-doesn't make it accurate, though!

Fedupsotired · 09/04/2022 11:13

Half term is half way through the term, Christmas, Easter and summer are at the end!

FarmGirl78 · 09/04/2022 11:13

@tigger1001 I was referring to your 'Tattie holiday' post. Stupid MN inability to edit posts!

airrrrAIRRRRiELLLL · 09/04/2022 11:12

In the 60s I remember half-term in Feb or Oct and it was only Monday and Tuesday. Then we had Whitsun in May which was a whole week.

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 09/04/2022 11:11

Sorry that’s probably unnecessarily aggressive, I’m in a foul mood this morning.

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 09/04/2022 11:11

My husband calls every single school holiday half term and it fucking annoys me no end.

‘Half term’, so called because it’s a holiday HALF WAY THROUGH THE TERM. Christmas, Easter and summer hols are end of term, two of them just happen to be called after the religious holiday.

I could not disagree more with people that use it as short hand. Just say school holiday or break if you think there might be confusion. Which there absolutely wouldn’t be

FarmGirl78 · 09/04/2022 11:11

Oooh You may have just answered my question......Tattie week might be my Nan's "potato picking week". I'm so chuffed I've found in a likely answer!! Your post has made my day! Smile

Gwenhwyfar · 09/04/2022 11:10

How can anyone call the summer holiday half term??

FarmGirl78 · 09/04/2022 11:08

While we're on the subject, my recently departed Nan (94) used to call one of the half terms "potato picking week". Any idea which one this would have been? I just can't remember but I'd love to know.

Hadjab · 09/04/2022 11:08

@AlphaJura

I feel like it's the other way round! Half term is the week off in between the terms of the 'main' holidays. So, there used to be 3 terms divided by a half term each. But now, schools seem to say there are 6 terms!
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EthicalNonMahogany · 09/04/2022 11:07

@ChekhovsMum and @TokyoSushi, you are my people. I knew I wasn't going mad.

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HunterHearstHelmsley · 09/04/2022 11:07

I just use it as short hand. Not the summer holidays obviously.

The Easter holidays here started yesterday. For most people I work with, it stated last week. It's easier to say "half term" to specify I mean when the kids are off, rather than to say "Easter holiday", then I might mean the Good Friday - Easter Monday period.

Doggirl · 09/04/2022 11:04

The only person I know who does this is my family keyworker (arranging appointments etc). Despite having a school age child herself. I don't say anything as she's generally pretty helpful.

HeDidWhattt · 09/04/2022 11:04

All school holidays are called half term, thought that was common knowledge!!

Obviously it isn’t an actual half term but it’s quicker to say when being polite and enquiring if little Jonny is enjoying half term rather than his Easter holidays.

It’s slang yo init

spudjulia · 09/04/2022 11:02

I've just started noticing this this week. Never come across it before.

There are 3 terms in a school year: autumn, spring and summer. There is a school holiday at the end of each term, so Christmas, Easter and summer. They have typically been 2 weeks/2W/6W respectively. And approx half way through each term is a 'half term' holiday, which was typically a week. October HT, February HT and May/June HT (also know as may/spring bank holiday week).

Now schools and authorities can mess about with the school calendar, we've got a range of holidays. My October half term week is now 2 weeks. I'm currently half way through Easter holidays. But I'm still in an end of term holiday, bot halfway through a term!

Libertaire · 09/04/2022 11:02

YANBU.

Half term refers to the single weeks of holiday which occur halfway through the school terms in February, May & October. The clue is in the actual fucking name : Half term.

The Easter & Christmas/New Year holidays are not, and have never been, half term. The happen at the end of terms, not halfway through them. Why is that difficult for people to understand?

Thinkingblonde · 09/04/2022 11:02

We called the half term in October Tattie picking week, (potato picking week).
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ilovesushi · 09/04/2022 11:01

I remember three half term holidays a year when I was at school exactly the same as my DC have now. The half term in the summer term - mid way between Easter holidays and summer holidays was referred to as Spring Bank holiday.

Bluebluemoon · 09/04/2022 11:01

I've only ever called it Easter break. Half term are the weeks off in feb, may and October.

ChekhovsMum · 09/04/2022 11:00

I’m a teacher and I’ve heard it multiple times in the past few days, including from other teachers. It derives from the same laziness and ignorance as ‘3am in the morning’, ‘This oven self-cleans itself’ and ‘I could care less about [unimportant thing]’.

You can talk to me all you like about how different people communicate differently and how I shouldn’t judge, but the fact remains - if society was made up of people who used words and phrases accurately, far fewer major mistakes and misunderstandings would happen and things would be smoother and happier. If everyone was the sort of person who calls the three holidays which divide the school year into three whole terms ‘half term’, when there are three other holidays which each divide those whole terms in half, then nobody would understand anybody and society would collapse around our ears.

And no, it didn’t used to be called this a couple of decades ago. It was Christmas, Easter and Summer holidays, with half term holidays in between. YANBU.