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To find the days in between Xmas and new year depressing?

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manboywomengirl · 27/12/2021 12:40

I don't mind Boxing Day but today I feel very blah and down in the dumps like I don't know what to do with myself. My daughter is at her dads till tomorrow so I'm going to the shop to get a few bits I need then home for a shower and some wine and dinner later on. However, I just feel like I should be doing something else. I feel antsy and unsure of what I am meant to be doing.

What is everyone else up to?

OP posts:
Awrite · 27/12/2021 13:24

I was feeling low yesterday. Totally knackered by the whole Christmas effort after a stressful few months at work.

Today though - I've been for a long walk and am now rewatching Luther. It's pretty thrilling.

duvetdayforeveryone · 27/12/2021 13:24

Death to 2021 is out on Netflix :)

IamEarthymama · 27/12/2021 13:23

Oh I look forward to these days so so much.
We are seeing family today which is a real joy and I am so grateful that we are all well.

Tomorrow I will do nothing much, look at my presents, try out different things like my set of pencils as I am keen to improve my drawing. I have an embroidery kit too and books.

Wednesday I have a hospital appointment, DW and I will go for lunch to a restaurant with our niece. Then as she is staying over, home to watch some TV and reminisce and make some plans for 2022.

In the following days I need to catch up on some work but will do it at a slow rate.

I really need and value this pause in a fairly busy life.

OP I hope you find something enjoyable to do.

gettingolderandgrumpy · 27/12/2021 13:20

Oh I love them gone is the constant shopping / what to buy such and such / wrapping / I’ve this to do etc. I’ve seen my family and now I can find the time to exercise / read / catch up with tv / eat leftovers and just relax and not have to Christmas stuff .

Sugarcube84 · 27/12/2021 13:20

House is chaos after a morning playing with new toys with the 2 year old we are both still in pjs, dh having a much needed lie in. 2 year old is now fast asleep on the couch and I’m catching up on call the midwife with a plate of crackers and pate and a cheeky Buck’s Fizz. I love these days as it gives me an excuse to relax and enjoy the kids (and my new book/bath bubbles and booze )

KatherineofGaunt · 27/12/2021 13:20

I don't mind them. I feel relaxed but also purposeful; we went for a rainy woodland walk today and tomorrow I shall do some clearing out. I shall eat too much chocolate but also book in some exercise classes for next week. It's all good!

FabriqueBelgique · 27/12/2021 13:18

This is my favourite bit of the year! For me it’s a time of reflection- how did this year go, how can I do better next year, what do I want to experience next..?

Plus my kids are all under one roof, there’s a lot of good food to munch on and we have new games and books.

beenthereboughtthetshirt · 27/12/2021 13:18

It's wonderful: silly films, fairy lights on the tree, just been for a walk, chocolate, coffee, hot water bottles, naps, stuff on the radio, i don't have to be anywhere.

Enjoy the peace, life at your pace and unwind far from the madding crowd..Xmas Wink

NalPolishRemover · 27/12/2021 13:16

I have time off work & I LOVE these days! All the pressure of Christmas is over. I can go for a walk, lie around reading my new books, eat my chocolates, light my candles, just BE!

icedcoffees · 27/12/2021 13:14

I hated them when I had to work them, but now they're some of my favourite days of the year.

No alarms, no early mornings, no rushing around, no pressure - it's so nice to have some time to just "be".

Today, I had a lie-in, took the dog for a walk and now we're finishing watching the Harry Potter films. Tomorrow we're meeting up with friends for a beagle meet on the beach for a couple of hours, then back home for a shower and hot chocolate.

The rest of the week is much of the same - catching up on sleep, taking the dog out for some long walks, cosying up at home, eating, watching TV, reading some of the huge pile of books by my bed...

Neither DH or I are back at work until the 4th so it's really nice to just have some together with no rushing about.

maya71 · 27/12/2021 13:14

The week between Christmas and New Year is my favourite of the year. We go for walks/runs then chill in the living room reading or watching TV & eating cheese and chocolate.

2reefsin30knots · 27/12/2021 13:14

I love them! Days when you can just completely do your own thing (if you are off work).

There is a novel called The Book of Dead Days suggesting they are "a strange, a quiet interlude, somehow outside the rest of the year, outside time itself."

Bagamoyo1 · 27/12/2021 13:13

I know what you mean OP. And the weather isn’t helping because it’s just constant rain.

Pegasussnail · 27/12/2021 13:11

We are going away for a night so I will pack for that later.
Today I'm clearing leaves and I repotted plants. Will take ds to argos to get a game with his Christmas money. Fajitas (turkey Xmas Wink ) for dinner

Tooboo · 27/12/2021 13:10

DH has got Covid so is glued to the sofa by his own sweat.

So I’m doing some art work in my woman cave and then plan to get pissed by myself. Oh what a life

wallypopz · 27/12/2021 13:09

I can read, sleep, veg out, and it recharges my batteries for January.

yep

wallypopz · 27/12/2021 13:08

Today I'm clearing some stuff out for the charity shop

Minniem2020 · 27/12/2021 13:08

I find them really miserable. All the excitement leading up to Xmas then it's all over. I'm also back at work which hasn't helped.

wallypopz · 27/12/2021 13:07

This are my favourite days, just pure relaxation & few demands. Have some things booked eg theatre, cinema.

PollyIndia · 27/12/2021 13:01

This is my favourite week of the year. Nothing to do. I do a bit of yoga, long dog walks, watch films with my son. Currently eating a whole baked camembert for lunch. What's not to love. Empty days are bliss.

Oblomov21 · 27/12/2021 13:00

These are my favourite. A bit of pottering around, a couple of bits, very little.

galacticpixels · 27/12/2021 12:56

I have the week off work and I love these days. I use them to quickly "reset'' myself after Christmas, get back to eating healthy and getting lots of walks in. I also tend to read a lot this week and just enjoy having nowhere I actually have to be.

Moonflower12345 · 27/12/2021 12:54

Yes, I find it really dull. We always used to go away between Christmas and New Year. Even if it was just one night in a nice hotel with a nice meal. Decided against it this year but regretting that now.

StrangerThanSpring · 27/12/2021 12:53

I love them!

I just love lounging around, eating chocolate and not feeling guilty about not doing stuff.

thegcatsmother · 27/12/2021 12:53

Those days now seem to have been labelled Twixmas. They are my favourite days of the year. I don't cook; we might see friends, but there is no pressure to go anywhere or do anything. I can read, sleep, veg out, and it recharges my batteries for January.

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