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Do you remember Heather Mills?

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LucilleBluth · 28/11/2021 18:52

I have been watching the Beatles documentary and got to thinking about her.

She was in the papers constantly in the 2000s, I remember her being painted as an absolute con artist witch. I googled a few articles about her from the time of the divorce. They are brutal in the misogynistic tone, she’s labelled as a slag, a goer, ex prostitute, you name it.

I don’t think papers write about women in such hash terms anymore. Maybe she was a bit of a twat, whoever married Saint Paul would have suffered at that time I think.

I suppose by AIBU is are the press less misogynistic.

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TheElvishQueen · 01/12/2021 17:28

Planned by whom? Himself? Why would he plan his own death?

EYProvider · 01/12/2021 17:26

@LoveMySituation

You know that John told Jack Douglas the night it happened that he wouldn’t be seeing him again?

He knew. It was planned. And it came off exactly as he’d hoped.

TheElvishQueen · 01/12/2021 17:15

Totally confused by that post. Who couldn’t record together? John and Yoko? How do you know he continued to sleep with May?
Please send me a PM with a link to the interview!

LoveMySituation · 01/12/2021 17:04

@TheElvishQueen John and Yoko may have stayed together, but he continued to see and sleep with May until 1980. The producer of Double fantasy Jack Douglas wouldn't let them record in the same room together, as they were too competitive. There is a very interesting interview(which I'm too nervous to post on here, but is easily found) that is very enlightening. Although he did end up suing Yoko for unpaid royalties..

Sparklingbrook · 01/12/2021 17:01

No offence taken @EYProvider I am not trying to close anything down, or think discussing the Beatles is beneath me, nor do I work for any 'Estate'. Lol. The laughing face was because a new person had joined the thread and said they were going to read it so it was a tongue in cheek warning it's not about Heather at all in parts.

Anyway I didn't realise we were back to Paul McCartney I thought it was John Lennon, it's been a strange old thread.

I have no opinion re JL and was probably first aware of PM in the Wings days or the Frog Chorus or whatever. Then more recently with James Corden doing Carpool Karaoke.

EYProvider · 01/12/2021 16:51

No offence, @Sparklingbrook, but you seem to want to give off an impression that the entire subject is just a bit beneath you. Why did you insert a laughing face next to your comment about John’s will? I don’t mind being criticised - I’m too old to take offence at other people’s comments - but I don’t think I’ve posted anything that warrants being sneered at. Or perhaps you’re just trying to close down the debate? Do YOU work for the Estate? Lol.

Fair enough if you don’t have an opinion on Paul McCartney. I find that most people on MN are very vocal about how much they hate him.

Sparklingbrook · 01/12/2021 16:41

Everyone on MN (the biggest website in the UK) hates him

There must be a whole section of posters on MN like myself who never give him a second thought and have no strong feelings about him either way too?

TheElvishQueen · 01/12/2021 16:40

I love him. I loved them all. I also remember clearly hearing he had been shot. It is a day I will never forget. However the average age on MN is probably a reason why most people may not remember or care. The Beatles aren’t important to most people now sadly.

EYProvider · 01/12/2021 16:37

He’s not ‘beloved’ though, LondonWolf, is he? Everyone on MN (the biggest website in the UK) hates him. Except me - I love him, I think he’s great.

The media is a bit kinder to Paul these days, but God, they were unbelievably cruel to him for years. They treated him much, much worse than they ever did Heather Mills, especially after John was killed. More than one journalist wrote that the wrong Beatle was shot, that it should have been Paul. Linda even had to write to one of them and got an apology because it was affecting Paul so badly.

TheElvishQueen · 01/12/2021 16:35

@DottyHarmer

HM was an old-fashioned gold digger. Male or female, makes no difference, it was getting someone newly bereaved. I think women are generally a bit more sensible, and don’t take any “flannel” as mil used to say. PM’s dcs really disliked her, which says something, but they seem to like the next wife.

People who have had happy marriages are, by all accounts, more likely to hastily remarry than those who had their ups and downs.

As for John and Yoko, I’ve read several contemporary views, and they were all just bemused at the pairing. I think John’s brain was a bit addled and he would have gone off with anyone if they had been persistent enough.

They stayed together though, despite the couple of years when John was living with May .
Sparklingbrook · 01/12/2021 16:33

@LondonWolf

Haven’t read the whole thread but I will. However, I couldn’t stand her at the time but I remember reading a very carefully worded article about how when they split PM turned on her completely eg he allegedly changed all the locks on joint properties without warning her so when she arrived to collect their child she was left on the street being harangued by paps. She couldn’t ever fight back against the full weight of public opinion or beloved “Macca” could she? I felt a bit sorry for her after that and tried to read between the lines whenever I read anything about her.
You must read the whole thread. Especially John Lennon's will apparently. Grin
DottyHarmer · 01/12/2021 16:30

HM was an old-fashioned gold digger. Male or female, makes no difference, it was getting someone newly bereaved. I think women are generally a bit more sensible, and don’t take any “flannel” as mil used to say. PM’s dcs really disliked her, which says something, but they seem to like the next wife.

People who have had happy marriages are, by all accounts, more likely to hastily remarry than those who had their ups and downs.

As for John and Yoko, I’ve read several contemporary views, and they were all just bemused at the pairing. I think John’s brain was a bit addled and he would have gone off with anyone if they had been persistent enough.

TheElvishQueen · 01/12/2021 16:28

@LondonWolf

Haven’t read the whole thread but I will. However, I couldn’t stand her at the time but I remember reading a very carefully worded article about how when they split PM turned on her completely eg he allegedly changed all the locks on joint properties without warning her so when she arrived to collect their child she was left on the street being harangued by paps. She couldn’t ever fight back against the full weight of public opinion or beloved “Macca” could she? I felt a bit sorry for her after that and tried to read between the lines whenever I read anything about her.
Why wouldn’t he change the locks? He clearly didn’t trust her. With good reason, no doubt.
Coronawireless · 01/12/2021 16:26

@EightWheelGirl

I'm not sure she has a leg to stand on with ridiculous claims like not knowing who he was. Clearly bullshit IMO.
Not a leg to stand on eh
LondonWolf · 01/12/2021 16:26

Haven’t read the whole thread but I will. However, I couldn’t stand her at the time but I remember reading a very carefully worded article about how when they split PM turned on her completely eg he allegedly changed all the locks on joint properties without warning her so when she arrived to collect their child she was left on the street being harangued by paps. She couldn’t ever fight back against the full weight of public opinion or beloved “Macca” could she? I felt a bit sorry for her after that and tried to read between the lines whenever I read anything about her.

ArblemarchTFruitbat · 01/12/2021 16:16

I'd be interested in a thread. I don't have a strong opinion about either John or Yoko, but I've read a few Beatles' biographies, including John's and I find their whole relationship quite frankly fascinating.

TheElvishQueen · 01/12/2021 15:55

I think you should start a thread @ EYProvider

EYProvider · 01/12/2021 15:02

I’ve had a quick read of that threat, @Sparklingbrook, and I think you’re right. MN is not the place.

People’s views are too entrenched and they can’t get past WIFE BEATER JOHN and FEMINIST ICON YOKO.

One thing I will say about Ono - I don’t think much of her art, but she is an absolute genius at understanding how to construct an image and use it to distort history. A trailblazer in fact.

Sparklingbrook · 01/12/2021 14:27

@EYProvider

Will they close that thread if I start posting links, *@Sparklingbrook*?
Only if someone reports the links and/or the thread and they deem them against guidelines presumably.
EYProvider · 01/12/2021 14:24

Will they close that thread if I start posting links, @Sparklingbrook?

Sparklingbrook · 01/12/2021 14:18

Somebody has bumped it so now the thread title is factually incorrect. Brilliant.

EYProvider · 01/12/2021 13:49

Oh, well, there you go. Sam Green has been mentioned before.

Sparklingbrook · 01/12/2021 12:59

Here's last year's. Thought the Bono comment was quite funny.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/4100146-John-Lennon-died-forty-years-ago-tomorrow?msgid=102413689

Sparklingbrook · 01/12/2021 12:55

@EYProvider

I would start a thread, but I don’t have the energy to deal with all the John Lennon was a wife beater and Yoko is a hero shit. I just can’t be bothered with all that irrelevance.
Well you'll never know how it would have turned out in that case.
ArblemarchTFruitbat · 01/12/2021 12:54

@EYProvider

Which bit am I overthinking?
Well, I think you are placing too much significance on the 'he knew he was going to be assassinated' part. It's a threat that comes with the territory when you are very famous. Princess Diana 'knew' she was going to be assassinated - there are published letters to that effect. That doesn't mean her death was anything but an accident.

I don't remember learning of JL's death but I was only 7 at the time so it wouldn't have meant a lot to me.

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