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To Chuck weedkiller over fence ?

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incognitodorrito · 06/09/2021 11:17

I recently paid £7 K to fence in my garden. Both neighbours very tight and I wanted a safe garden so I've paid the lot. I won't ever be able to afford to finance this again. The neighbour on one side is allowing her garden to go to pot and I've got thorns and weeds and branches growing over and pushing against my new lovely fence. She did not allow my fencer to cut anything back on her side which ok fine, but now it's pushing against my fence. Her garden is so absolute mess but she doesn't seem to want to do anything about it any I don't want the fence damaged. AIBU to cut back what comes on my side and Chuck weed killer over the side ...?

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PissedOffNeighbour22 · 06/09/2021 12:29

I did this a few years ago but it did nothing!
The brambles and ivy continued to grow and started pushing my fence apart. All I could do was trim what came over or through. It was in a part of their garden they couldn't see from the house or access easily so they didn't care whether I cut back or chucked weed killer over etc.

Might be best if you have a word with the neighbour. If you're prepared to help her clear it that might be acceptable to her. If she's unreasonable then tell her you'll be billing her for any damage caused to your fence unless she sorts it.

Hoppinggreen · 06/09/2021 12:28

@Coogee

she has no way at all to prove that you killed her weeds.

Sending a soil sample to a lab would help.

That’s incredibly unlikely to ever happen and if it did it might prove that weed killer killed the plants but that’s all
EvenRosesHaveThorns · 06/09/2021 12:21

A 7k fence will not be destroyed by weeds, stop being melodramatic. You've clearly never used weedkiller and understand it's dangers and the hugely obvious, instant yellow dieback that it creates. Although in this case, chucking a bit over the top will do nothing apart from create a human and wildlife health hazard. Grow up.

Horehound · 06/09/2021 12:20

Isn't there a thing If you pour salt down it gets absorbed into the soil and kills weeds and stuff.
And that's kind of invisible after it gets wet.

Hopefully stuff stops growing so fast over winter and during that time I'd build up the salt content of the soil ready for spring and hopefully everything to Die but it won't be as obvious as weed killer ;)

EvenRosesHaveThorns · 06/09/2021 12:18

Absolutely not, would you think someone chucking harmful chemicals, linked to cancer, into your garden, without your knowledge, was acceptable? You're off your rocker. Just prune back what comes over your side, don't sneakily apply chemicals. If their garden is overgrown, it's likely home to lots of wildlife, which the chemicals could have crippling effects on.

Coogee · 06/09/2021 12:14

she has no way at all to prove that you killed her weeds.

Sending a soil sample to a lab would help.

romdowa · 06/09/2021 12:05

I'd do it at night. I'd live to see her call the police to report me for criminal damage to her weeds 🤣🤣🤣 she has no way at all to prove that you killed her weeds.

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EmbarrassingMama · 06/09/2021 11:55

Brambles and weeds aren't going to push your fence over. Just prune anything that comes over the top.

godmum56 · 06/09/2021 11:52

@HarrietsChariot

You need to be very careful with the weedkiller. As others have suggested you can kill the stuff that grows onto your property but it's legally dubious spraying it over the fence. Definitely do it after dark, preferably when the occupants are away.

Could you did your garden out so you can get under the fence? That way you'd be able to tunnel under and put weedkiller under the roots. Then fill the hole in and nobody will be any the wiser.

its not legally dubious its actually criminal damage, although of a minor kind...it could also be covered under harassment law.
Berkeys · 06/09/2021 11:52

OP is BU that is! Weedkiller needs to be banned

Berkeys · 06/09/2021 11:51

@LaundryForever

Weed killer has a massive environmental impact on plants and wildlife (birds, insects, hedgehogs, etc) so no you should definitely not chuck weed killer over. Think of the wider impact.
YABVU. Cut it back and get over it.
Hoppinggreen · 06/09/2021 11:49

No, don’t do that!
You need to sneak in under the fence not over so it gets to the roots

godmum56 · 06/09/2021 11:47

oh PS, the alternative mentioned in that article seems to be a blanket of boiling hot foam which cooks the weeds...I doubt it would work on established shrubby plants and seems not to be suitable for private gardens www.weedingtech.com

HarrietsChariot · 06/09/2021 11:45

You need to be very careful with the weedkiller. As others have suggested you can kill the stuff that grows onto your property but it's legally dubious spraying it over the fence. Definitely do it after dark, preferably when the occupants are away.

Could you did your garden out so you can get under the fence? That way you'd be able to tunnel under and put weedkiller under the roots. Then fill the hole in and nobody will be any the wiser.

godmum56 · 06/09/2021 11:44

@steppemum

Our neighbours put up a really good solid wood fence.

Before it was done I cleared the whole line of bindweed and brambles, a good 1 m into their garden too.

the bindweed and brambles are already trying to squeeze through the fence. This time I am weed killing them.

I am 99% chemical free in my garden, but round up only kills the plant it touches, and doesn't leave a residue. So I am happy it is safe enough.

the jury is out on Round Up (glyphosate) I use it but sparingly. If I don't, I would either have a garden full of ivy, brambles and nettles...and I mean full, not just odd corners, or I would have to go scorched earth and clear and pave most of it which wouldn't be any good for the environment either...yes I use it on my boundaries on MY side of the fence as a courtesy to my neighbours. www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-55215291
MadameMonk · 06/09/2021 11:44

A few pots worth of boiling water late one night would likely solve the weed issue without dooming your neighbourhood to months/years of environmental degradation and carcinogens.

If you’re determined to act.

1moreglassplease · 06/09/2021 11:41

Are you living on the other side of my NDN? I also paid for a fence because she said she wanted her kids to be able to play safely in the garden. The garden is now so full of brambles and weeds that she cant even get to her washing line and they haven't set foot outside for over 10 years.

The other side actually built a wall and the weeds are already over that and regularly pop through the fence on mine. I now have no problem in dousing them with weedkiller and also cutting off any bits that come over the top and throwing them in her garden. I despair but she won't do anything and her landlord is useless.

Don't get me started on the bindweed that's infesting everything and is also all over my front garden.

incognitodorrito · 06/09/2021 11:40

@SirVixofVixHall

Surely a decent fence is strong enough for this ? After all many people grow plants up against fencing. It doesn’t sound very sturdy for seven thousand pounds !! Weedkiller is highly toxic, you could poison your neighbour, a pet, local wildlife etc, why on earth would you do that ? You are allowed to trim anything growing through on your side, and so you could ask your neighbour if you can prune branches that are pushing against the fence, but as it was only recently put in then branches can’t have grown enough to damage it.
It is sturdy, but if I let nature take it's natural course her overgrown garden and weeds will destroy it. She won't allow me to access her garden and prune), my sturdy fence will be damaged.
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SirVixofVixHall · 06/09/2021 11:38

Surely a decent fence is strong enough for this ? After all many people grow plants up against fencing. It doesn’t sound very sturdy for seven thousand pounds !!
Weedkiller is highly toxic, you could poison your neighbour, a pet, local wildlife etc, why on earth would you do that ?
You are allowed to trim anything growing through on your side, and so you could ask your neighbour if you can prune branches that are pushing against the fence, but as it was only recently put in then branches can’t have grown enough to damage it.

Boobieboobieboobie · 06/09/2021 11:36

Of course YABU. It must be annoying but its her garden.

incognitodorrito · 06/09/2021 11:35

@steppemum

Our neighbours put up a really good solid wood fence.

Before it was done I cleared the whole line of bindweed and brambles, a good 1 m into their garden too.

the bindweed and brambles are already trying to squeeze through the fence. This time I am weed killing them.

I am 99% chemical free in my garden, but round up only kills the plant it touches, and doesn't leave a residue. So I am happy it is safe enough.

May I ask for a link to the weed killer you used please ?!
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steppemum · 06/09/2021 11:34

Our neighbours put up a really good solid wood fence.

Before it was done I cleared the whole line of bindweed and brambles, a good 1 m into their garden too.

the bindweed and brambles are already trying to squeeze through the fence. This time I am weed killing them.

I am 99% chemical free in my garden, but round up only kills the plant it touches, and doesn't leave a residue. So I am happy it is safe enough.

BeenHereForAges · 06/09/2021 11:31

I'd do it.

But I'd do it covertly.

MistyFrequencies · 06/09/2021 11:29

If it was me I'd definitely go on a midnight spraying mission over her fence . But it's probably illegal so best thing is likely to not throw it over, get one that will absorb to the root and liberally lather it on any bit of plant that encroaches on your side.