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Are some people just unlikeable

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Wanttobehappy123 · 03/04/2021 22:40

Just reflecting on my life and I’ve came to the conclusion that
Generally people don’t like me and I am an extremely unlikeable person.
I am recovering from cancer and I never get texts from The few friend’s I have or work colleagues asking how I am. My in-laws would actively avoid me, they never visit our home and would practically hide behind a lamppost to avoid having to
Chat. If they have our kids they put the coats on them when they see me coming up The path to speed up the leaving process, I don’t blame them.
I met 2 of my child’s teachers this week Out and about and both of them turned away
To Avoid speaking to me. I don’t have a history of Annoying them asking them questions about my child outside of school and in fact I never have had any issue to raise with them Ever in school, all I expected was a head nod as we passed. It hurt my feelings.
I feel sad when I see a
Group
Of mothers from my child’s class socialising and having fun together. I wish it could be me.
People find me boring and Uninteresting to speak to I’m sure of it and I have always been this way. I feel sorry for
My husband I’m really dragging him down socially. Pity party over

OP posts:
NC4UmpteenthTime · 03/04/2021 22:48

Do you smile when you see people, maybe you look angry and cross so they don't want to annoy you?

Amberleaf12 · 03/04/2021 22:47

Sorry to hear you have had cancer but glad to know you are recovering.

How are you? How has your day been OP?

What are your plans for Easter Sunday? Have you got yourself and the kids some chocolates?

Flowers
LolaSmiles · 03/04/2021 22:46

Some people are naturally more sociable than others, but I think there's a difference between having a smaller social circle and being unlikeable.

Why would all those people dislike you?

RedHelenB · 03/04/2021 22:43

I think some folk are easier to get on with than others. Are you sure you're not imagining some of the attempts to avoid talking to you though?

UrsulaBee · 03/04/2021 22:42

What reason would any of them have for not liking you?