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Come reassure me, just found a lump

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Notimeforaname · 08/02/2021 22:54

In my right armpit.
Its very sore to touch/press lightly.

I suddenly noticed the pain about an hour ago and there's a visible red mark where the lump is. Its definitely not an ingrown hair as it doesn't hurt if I drag my finger across the hair follicles if you get me,its definitely in my armpit/a lymph node possibly?

But I've had some other issues over the last few weeks which are really concerning me now.

About 6 weeks ago I started getting pain in that right shoulder,like it was the rotator cuff or something was trapped if I I tried using my full range of motion. I just got on with things. It didn't go away.
For the last two weeks I've had more severe shooting pains in that shoulder and arm.
My neck has been stiff and painful on and off and some small stabbing pains in different parts of my chest and shoulders (sometimes both sides). On and off through the day.
I have lost about 8lbs in the last 3 weeks..I have lost my appetite a little... But I still eat.

Now this coming up in my armpit is freaking me out and I have stabbing pains in my arm/shoulder/armpit area as I write.
The pains are quite strong now. And if I raise my hand above my head...it feels like I'm tugging on the lump kind of..like the lump wont allow me to get my arm up all the way. If that makes sense.

My whole upper arm feels heavy and sore as well as the stabbing pains.

I'm going to call my doctor in the morning and beg to be seen.

My partner was here when I found it. He tried his best to calm me down. I had a shower and got myself together.
He's asleep now and I'm starting to let my mind wander and I really don't want to start crying and panic again so if any of you nice people have any advice,words of encouragement or perhaps a similar story to mine that might help me out do please leave it here.

Thank you so much, I can attach a lovely picture of my pit if it helpsConfused but it just shows up as a small red patch on the photo so not very helpful.

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Baconking · 15/02/2021 18:53

Good luck OP Flowers

RaininSummer · 15/02/2021 18:42

Still reading. Good luck with the appointment x

WaterBottle123 · 15/02/2021 16:48

Best of luck OP

Dreamscomingtrue · 15/02/2021 15:17

Good Luck 💐 please update the thread when you get some good news.
It’s only natural to worry but statistically it’s probably something minor or easily treatable x

Notimeforaname · 15/02/2021 14:06

I have recieved my appointment for the private hospital.
It will be in 3 weeks.
Funnily enough I will be seeing the consultant who diagnosed my best friend 2 years ago in the public hospital. Such a small country 🙄

Anyway I know this thread isnt very active but perhaps me leaving my experience here can help someone else along the way. Also I have been repeatedly reading all the post left here ,any time I've been feeling worried and they have been brilliant for my mind 💕Smile

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Notimeforaname · 12/02/2021 15:18

Oh thanks a million to everyone who replied..it means a lot to me.

Hearing your stories helps settle my mind as I'm feeling confident it will be ok but still having the odd wobble every now and again. And I can see some people close to me looking on the verge of tears so I really dont want to worry them as much as they don't want to worry me. It's a weird one.

Yes it's a disgrace how we're treated based on age..my friends relative (gp) that I spoke with yesterday on the phone said if she had seen me ,she would have had me seen urgently because of the pain and anxiety. But hey ho..I could even be waiting up to two weeks for the private hospital to contact me.

Its called the Beacon..has any Irish mumsnetters been to the breast clinic there?

I've also read its highly unlikely I will be given a mammogram as they rarely do this on women under 35. I am 33. So expecting just an ultrasound and maybe biopsy.

I know what to expect in that regard as I supported my best friend 2 years ago through her breast cancer treatment and went to every appointment with her so I dont feel as worried about the screening/testing process...just the possible outcome.

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RaininSummer · 11/02/2021 23:28

Not an expert of any kind but just wanted to say that I think often these lumps are cysts but if not I understand that treatment is really good. I know you are young. My sister had breast cancer of an aggressive kind at 32 years old. She's now 55. Try not to worry (too much) x

Mischance · 11/02/2021 22:49

I was seen within 2 weeks after seeing GP and that was just with breast pain and no lumps. It is part of the protocol for any breast symptom here.

I am so sorry that you cannot get the same service without going private. I hope you get an appointment soon and that all goes well.

MaLarkinn · 11/02/2021 22:39

Hi op, greetings from Dublin. How are you feeling? Hopefully my experience will help you feel a bit better. Couple of years ago I had an inverted nipple, lumps galore and I mean galore, felt like bubble wrap under my skin. Wasn't overly worried about the lumps as that's just how my boobs are. Had some discharge in nipple also. Went to my Dr, had an examination and his exact words to me were, I'm not the kind of Dr to beat around the bush, I think we have something to worry about here. He said he would refer me to the Mater Hospital, gave me a copy of referral letter also. On this I could see the little pic with dots on the body diagram of areas he was concerned about, it honestly looked like a dot to dot picture! He also said I had a huge lump, I broke down at this point as hadn't realised I had a huge lump, just thought I had bubble wrap.

Anyway, I contacted the Mater and the wait was quite long, Dr told me he wasn't happy about the wait so I contacted Beaumont and they rang me back and offered me an appointment 2 days later, I was so relieved. Went to appointment, Dr had a feel around then I went down for ultrasound and mammogram. Dr was very thorough, ran ultrasound all over my neck too.

After all that, there was nothing there, absolutely nothing to worry about. The inverted nipple was due to a milk duct or something, I can't really remember.

So there is my story, hope it makes you feel a bit better.

If I were you, I'd ask for a copy of referral letter and contact several hospitals yourself.

Isn't it a disgrace that you had to pay for a breast check appointment.

CatAndHisKit · 11/02/2021 21:08

RiojaRose could you tell me how the infectioon was diagnosed? I have smth similar around my neck, I think only CT san can show what's wrong?
Also what kind of abtibios did you take - as it a penicillin group or something stonger/specific?

Kerzel · 11/02/2021 18:28

Also, I think your right to go private. Age shouldn’t come into it; I was age 30 when diagnosed and know plenty other women diagnosed young.

Kerzel · 11/02/2021 18:23

Just wanted to clear up a misconception that breast cancer isn’t painful. I hate that GPS peddle that shite; it was my no 1 symptom, way before a lump.

OP, when I did have a cancerous lymph node in my armpit, it was not painful at all. I think yours sounds more like a cyst.

Notimeforaname · 11/02/2021 18:10

sarahC40 hello fellow lumpy lady! Grin yes my boobs are quite small , imagine I'm all lumps and skin Grin thank you! XSmile

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sarahC40 · 11/02/2021 18:05

If you have booby cysts then please try to stay calm - me too and it’s led to plenty of boob squeezing and poking over the years (none of it pleasant), but one consultant said if he took them all out I’d have nothing left and that I was more cyst than breast (nice guy, meant kindly). Hope that you get a swift appointment.

Notimeforaname · 11/02/2021 17:41

Or are flowers only for sad affairs on mumsnet??? 🤣

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Notimeforaname · 11/02/2021 17:40

Thanks for all the reassurance everyone.

I do have very lumpy boobs in general. I just didn't recognize this particular one when the doctor pointed it out to me.

I started to get very upset last night after trying to ignore it.
But today, my lovely friend's family member who's a GP, rang me for over an hour to answer any questions I had and reassure me. She made me feel like a brand new woman again. Smile so I'm just going to carry on with the ibuprofen and get active again (weight loss could be part muscle loss from sitting around feeling sick and sore) so advice was to get active whilst waiting for the private clinic to contact me. So that's what I will do.
Thanks again to you lovely posters for taking the time to answer me and be so kind and helpful.

I will update as and when things happen Smile Have some flowers all of you FlowersGrin

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Thingsthatgo · 10/02/2021 14:42

My boobs always get lumps just before my period. You might find they disappear over the next few days.

ConeHat · 10/02/2021 13:59

I'm sorry it wasnt just "hey it's a I growing hair, let me fix it".

Maybe it's a infected node due to cyst in your boob?

It would great to go private if you can. I think we are still doing the two week pathway in England?

I guess it's good news in that you have had the start of s good MOT? Stay positive. I can hold some of your worries if you want? Pop them in virtual box and pass them.this way if need it

Notimeforaname · 10/02/2021 12:56

Thanks lads, I'm trying not to let my mind go too far. I haven't gotten upset or anything yet.
I got home and suddenly realised I can just go private and pay. I've called the doctors back to ask them for a private referral instead and I have just to call back in 2 hours to see what the story is with it. Then I can get the ball rolling. The pain is something else..i cant fucking believe i just paid and walked out like a moronHmm Without any advice on pain relief or some strong painkillers.
I've just been using ibuprofen though it doesn't do much. I got my period last night too so it's all 'go' over here today 🙄😅

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Holly60 · 10/02/2021 12:20

Could be a gland?? Would make sense if you are aching elsewhere as could be a virus. Obviously get it checked but I’ve had lumps under my arm over the years and always been a gland. Could be red where you’ve been poking it Grin

Another0THER · 10/02/2021 11:45

Op, I had a nurse who works in a breast clinic tell me that of every 10 women who are referred by GPs for scans, 8 out of that 10 will walk out on following the mammogram and / ultrasound, as the lump will be a fluid-filled cyst or fibroid. Of the other two women, they will have biopsies and, even then, in one case, it will be benign. In other worlds, 9 out of 10 breast lumps are benign. I have been in your position and it turned out to be a fluid-filled cyst. They are very common and many women don’t even know they have them. I only felt mine as it was near the surface.

Can you feel the lump/s yourself at all?

LOLeater · 10/02/2021 11:21

Hi OP,
Your mind must be racing after your appointment. Try to be gentle with yourself I think. Going for that appointment was the best thing you could do and I’m keeping fingers crossed that you will be seen sooner by a specialist. Is it worth ringing regularly and asking about appointments left available after cancellations?
No experience here but I am thinking of you and sending positive vibes.

Lolalovesmarmite · 10/02/2021 11:13

I had a cyst on my side that got infected. You could barely see anything on the surface until it was really bad but the whole area was incredibly painful. The armpit is quite a sensitive area anyway and I think cysts are quite common there. Try not to worry until you have to, lots of lumps and bumps have relatively harmless (if sometimes pretty painful) causes.

Notimeforaname · 10/02/2021 11:01

I should have said ,I'm in Ireland. Not the uk.
In case anyone is confused with the medical system.

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Notimeforaname · 10/02/2021 11:00

Hi lovely people well it wasnt the best news. It was a nurse who saw me ,not a doctor.
She found a lump possibly two ,in my right breast that I had not noticed Blush .
She seemed uninterested in the painful armpit lupp saying it could be an infection or something. She was more concerned with my weight loss and lump(s) she found.

So ive been referred to the breast clinic to start investigating. As I am under 35 I am 'bottom of the heap' for these things..in normal times would take 6-8 weeks for appointment. So with covid it could be longer. But I do have family members in the hospital that can bump me up once an appointment arrives. I could be two weeks waiting for that though.
I wasn't even given a prescription for pain killers or anything. I just paid like an idiot..and walked out 😅

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