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Come reassure me, just found a lump

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Notimeforaname · 08/02/2021 22:54

In my right armpit.
Its very sore to touch/press lightly.

I suddenly noticed the pain about an hour ago and there's a visible red mark where the lump is. Its definitely not an ingrown hair as it doesn't hurt if I drag my finger across the hair follicles if you get me,its definitely in my armpit/a lymph node possibly?

But I've had some other issues over the last few weeks which are really concerning me now.

About 6 weeks ago I started getting pain in that right shoulder,like it was the rotator cuff or something was trapped if I I tried using my full range of motion. I just got on with things. It didn't go away.
For the last two weeks I've had more severe shooting pains in that shoulder and arm.
My neck has been stiff and painful on and off and some small stabbing pains in different parts of my chest and shoulders (sometimes both sides). On and off through the day.
I have lost about 8lbs in the last 3 weeks..I have lost my appetite a little... But I still eat.

Now this coming up in my armpit is freaking me out and I have stabbing pains in my arm/shoulder/armpit area as I write.
The pains are quite strong now. And if I raise my hand above my head...it feels like I'm tugging on the lump kind of..like the lump wont allow me to get my arm up all the way. If that makes sense.

My whole upper arm feels heavy and sore as well as the stabbing pains.

I'm going to call my doctor in the morning and beg to be seen.

My partner was here when I found it. He tried his best to calm me down. I had a shower and got myself together.
He's asleep now and I'm starting to let my mind wander and I really don't want to start crying and panic again so if any of you nice people have any advice,words of encouragement or perhaps a similar story to mine that might help me out do please leave it here.

Thank you so much, I can attach a lovely picture of my pit if it helpsConfused but it just shows up as a small red patch on the photo so not very helpful.

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Dreamscomingtrue · 10/03/2021 01:07

That’s good news, hope you get your tests done soon. Keep us updated 💐 x

Druidlookingidiot · 09/03/2021 08:21

I know about the waiting @Notimeforaname, I’m a cancer survivor 🎉 seven years on now. The waiting is the worst part. 🌷

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 09/03/2021 08:07

I hope that the call comes soon for you and the testing can get underway and leads to a clear diagnosis and treatment pathway.

I'll be thinking of you.

2018SoFarSoGreat · 09/03/2021 04:20

Glad to read your update. Moving this along at a good speed will help tremendously. It is all the waiting that does you in.

Get some rest. We are all here with you through whatever comes next.

ZaraW · 09/03/2021 04:15

Waiting is the worst part, it's awful. Your Dr sounds great.

BitOfFun · 09/03/2021 04:05

That sounds quite positive? I hope you get a better night's sleep tonight!

Notimeforaname · 09/03/2021 02:08

Hi all sorry I'm so late to update.

Consultant said my lump feels very smooth so he's leaning more towards a benign lump at the moment, he was concerned with my swollen lymph nodes and pain in torso so wants me to have blood tests and chest xray first.

He was really very kind and said he didn't want me to pay for anything other than his consultantation fee so said he would refer me back into the public system(he works half the week in the public hospital) he said he would see where I am on the public list for my ultrasound and try to move that up with a biopsy to follow if needed.

In the meantime I've to wait for a call either in the morning or the next day to tell me to go in for bloods and xray asap.
I have family who work in the hospital so I think together..theyll have me seen soonish and hopefully get to the bottom of this.
I'm still losing weight but not as rapidly as before (I'm guessing stress?) hopefully this will all just be some sort of infection thats gone untreated for quite a while and can get it sorted.

I shall be up and dressed in 5 hours time so I can be ready to leave if I get a call.

I feel really lucky to have all of you lovely people checking in on me. You've made me feel so good.
I'm grateful for all of the honest advice.

You're a great bunch Smile💕

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ExtraordinaryQuince · 09/03/2021 01:01

I hope it went OK.Flowers

joystir59 · 08/03/2021 23:06

Sending you Flowers OP and hoping for the very best outcome for you

Druidlookingidiot · 08/03/2021 22:44

We’ve not heard anything from @Notimeforaname. I really hope this doesn’t mean bad news. 🤞

Gin4thewin4 · 08/03/2021 21:26

Hope all went well today Wine

Msmcc1212 · 08/03/2021 21:25

Sorry. Posted without noticing how old thread was and that you were in clinic today OP. Hope you are ok.

Msmcc1212 · 08/03/2021 21:18

I had a lump recently and learned that pain is usually a sign it’s not breast cancer.

Sorry to hear that some people have had bad experiences of breast clinics. Mine was great. Seen within a week and all done within an a hour. It was just a cyst. I asked how I should tell next time if it’s a cyst or something more worrying and consultant said always get it checked out regardless.

Speak to your GP in the morning and try and get a rest tonight. Flowers

Princessdebthe1st · 08/03/2021 21:00

Hey OP,
I do hope everything has gone ok today and you have been reassured.

five67Eight makes a very good point re breast pain. The consultant I saw at a well womens clinic said that breast cancer is not painful which I think is a reassuring point. Good luck OP

It is important to know that whilst MOST breast cancer does not result in pain that is not always the case. Certain types of breast cancer (like inflammatory breast cancer) are more likely to cause pain and the only reason I went to the doctors was because of pain in my breast. I was diagnosed with breast cancer (not inflammatory breast cancer) two weeks later. Please everyone, whilst pain is not a common symptom please don’t assume it can’t be breast cancer because you have pain. Bottom line, if something about your breasts is different see your GP.

Dobbyismyfavourite · 08/03/2021 18:52

@five67Eight makes a very good point re breast pain. The consultant I saw at a well womens clinic said that breast cancer is not painful which I think is a reassuring point. Good luck OP.

Pusheenparent · 08/03/2021 18:43

Thinking of you OP Flowers

Babamamananarama · 08/03/2021 18:25

Thinking of you OP and hoping you have got some answers.

ScabbyHorse · 08/03/2021 18:25

Thinking of you Thanks

Cleaningjusttocleanagain · 08/03/2021 18:06

Thinking of you lovely xx

BitOfFun · 08/03/2021 18:00

Actually, I've just put The Chase on ITV+1, so you can pretend to know all the answers.

BitOfFun · 08/03/2021 17:59

I am virtually sitting next to you in the waiting room. Probably ruining your crossword clues.

TedMullins · 08/03/2021 15:26

Wishing you the best OP, you’re doing really well staying so positive

Positivelysober · 08/03/2021 15:10

Thinking of youFlowers

HollowTalk · 08/03/2021 15:10

Wishing you the very best of luck. Flowers

Notimeforaname · 08/03/2021 14:49

I also keep putting my hand up over my mask to cough🤣

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