To wonder if anyone has used a male prositute

If someone makes a 'genuine choice' to be a drug pusher, is it then a 'legitimate job'?

No. Because that causes harm to other people. A legitimate source of drug pushing, such as being a chemist is fine.

I saw a programme about them once. Ages ago. It would be really embarrassing if they arrived and you thought oh no I just couldn't.

I wouldn't but then it wasn't exactly difficult to get offers for free when I was single (turned them down) - just not my thing, I like sex to actually mean something

If someone makes a 'genuine choice' to be a drug pusher, is it then a 'legitimate job'?

Quite.

Well you can exercise a ‘genuine choice’ to be a burglar - it doesn’t qualify as a ‘legitimate‘ job.

Legitimate literally means lawful. Prostitution is not itself illegal but activities around it are - soliciting, running a brothel, pimping etc.

It’s not something you can put on your CV either.

There are zero protections offered to those who 'choose' prostitution. Nor could it ever be consistent with health and safety regulations. And I see you haven't replied to my previous two questions about this 'legitimate' profession.

asked if the only reason you wouldn’t recommend it to your kids was because of the risk.

Yes. I would not want them to do it because it's high risk. That is the only reason.

You described it as a 'legitimate job' a few posts back.

Yes. If a genuine choice is exercised to do it then it is a legitimate job.

I asked if the only reason you wouldn’t recommend it to your kids was because of the risk.

Could you list all the other 'legitimate jobs' which have a "potentially high risk of std, emotional harm and violence"?

There are many jobs that carry high risk. Not so much STDs, but the army for one carries a high risk of emotional and physical harm. My DC wants to join the army. I don't want that for them either.

I use to live in an area with many prostitutes, I would go talk to some of them, many where quite friendly but had had tragic lives - I can almost garantee than non where 'experts' in sex though.

Most where alcoholic and drug users, many where also very young (some even underage runaways) while others where much older (grandma aged) that needed money for their habits (and many had legitimate reasons for their vices it was quite sad).

I suppose if you are paying a lot of money for an agency 'escort' type prostitute it might be better but who knows... I imagine you just spend a lot of money and still end up disappointed.

There isn't a huge market for straight male prostitution so many are willing to give it away for free. Sign up to online dating be specific no strings, it'll give you a chance to choose the partner.
Always tell a friend when going to seek a stranger.

Could you list all the other 'legitimate jobs' which have a "potentially high risk of std, emotional harm and violence"?

Yeah because the only reason you’d not recommend it to your kids is because it’s ‘high risk’.
In fact, some escorts say it’s not particularly risky in the right circumstances

Yes I do think it's high risk. I think it's potentially high risk of std, emotional harm and violence. It doesn't mean I would seek to ban others, who have actively chosen to do it themselves, without pressure from other people. I did it myself for a short while when I was younger. My choice. My rates. It was not without risk. I'd prefer my kids to study for a better job with lower risk.

(and obviously if he becomes a regular, it won't feel like habing sex with a stranger).

nothing beats a man who is so into you and you fancy him too and there is amazing chemistry. You can't buy that.

Of course, but OP haven't found that option! takes years sometines to meet someone single and have a passionate chemisrty on both sides.

OP I think there really aer professionals who are talented and like what they do - but they aer usualy not cheap (more like very good full body massage men therapists, where some of them blur the lines). I think it works much better for women as it's not wham bam but if they've got a good touch and get yo going first, it's easy to feel some chemistry.
I was once in a posh European hotel with an alternative health centre - they had an amazingly talented masseur (actually older than me) and I tell you you'd be half way there just after the treatment but he was a bit flirty in the end - I bet he accepts request for more. I didnt as wasnt single / bit nervous, but it's a thing.
So if you do go on these sites, maybe look for someone on these lines rather than just a muscle bound 'I can go forever' type!

Sex trafficking is driven by men. It's no secret many enjoy exploitation and harming others.

In fact, some escorts say it’s not particularly risky in the right circumstances.

Why don’t you save yourself the leg work and put a wanted poster up ?
You can be really specific on the details that way, and have a few in reserve.

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Hell no. I have more self respect than to pay a random man for sex.

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