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No Comprehension skills 18 months?

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Landladymews · 16/10/2020 21:11

Hi

I’m feeling quite concerned about my 18 month old who shows limited signs of comprehension when we are talking to him, doesn’t point/wave and probably as a result has no words. He won’t for example stack blocks despite my showing him how (he just likes re arranging them). I ask him if he wants milk or yum yum and he looks at me blankly. He won’t imitate words that I say. I ask him to bring me a particular toy and he ignores me.

He is sociable in the sense that he loves meeting people and babbling away (has a lot to say in his own language), makes eye contact, smiles, has lots of funny expressions etc. He will hand me toys of his own volition so I think this is an example of what’s called ‘joint attention’. He loves peekaboo. He has clapped a couple of times when asked but now refuses to do that too.

My husband thinks he’s too young for investigations and that we should wait another 2-3 months before seeing the GP.

Has anyone else had a child who didn’t seem to be developing comprehension skills at this stage? Is there anything I can do to help his comprehension? Should I push my husband to have him seen now?

OP posts:
nimbuscloud · 16/10/2020 21:23

I’d start the process of having this looked at. Hopefully by the time you get an appointment he will have progressed

Hercwasonaroll · 16/10/2020 21:22

I'd phone the HVs and ask for advice. My 10mo is starting to understand commands like clap or book (he crawls to get a book).

They do develop differently and it might be nothing, but worth getting obvious causes like hearing ruled out.

doadeer · 16/10/2020 21:19

My son is like this at 21 months. I'm organising a hearing test just to rule that out. I know on paper he is delayed and I have chatted with him and spent so much focused time since the day he was born.

I keep trying to tell myself they all develop differently and the milestone development are just guidelines. If your son is happy and content try not to worry (tell myself that too)

Goosefoot · 16/10/2020 21:16

Kids vary a lot at that age, but I might have his hearing looked at. If there is a problem it's worth addressing now.

FloreanFortescue · 16/10/2020 21:13

This is the reason there isn't a check up for another 12 months. I wouldn't be worried Smile

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