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Friend says I'm being "arsed" aibu to think I'm not?

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geereer · 23/07/2020 09:38

Today me and a friend are going to a near by city for shopping and lunch.
She asks me to book somewhere for lunch last week.
I asked her what type of food she wanted and she said "pub grub"
So I found a place and booked it.
She asked to see the menu
It has bangers n mash/fish and chips/all day breakfast/burgers /mince n dumplings etc
Plus sandwiches /toasties/wraps and salads
Her response "hmm is that the whole menu"
I said yes ..
She said there's not much on ?
I said to her you said you wanted pub grub
She replied "there's no jacket potatoes "
I said "you said pub grub"
She said "yes nice pub grub"
So I said ..ok what meal do you fancy ?
She said "I don't really know,pub grub"
So I said ..ok well why don't you have a look because I've spent all week looking and you can't decide.
She replied
"No need to be arsey,I told you pub grub"
Aibu here to think she's a bit annoying ?

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AliceinBunnyland · 23/07/2020 09:56

I would definitely not spend any time looking.

I wouldn't have even sent her the menu couldn't she look it up herself?

I'd tell her it's booked now, if she wants to find somewhere else then fine but she will have to find it and book it

InsertHilariousUserName · 23/07/2020 09:56

I bet you will get to a place with jacket potatoes, and she'll order fish and chips.

Flynn999 · 23/07/2020 09:55

I didn’t realise the benchmark of pub grub was jacket potato’s. You can go to a sandwich shop and get them 🤷‍♀️.

If I was you op I’d have said the exact same thing. If she wants to be a fussy sod let her pick.

IsMiseMorag · 23/07/2020 09:53

Your friend is looking for a Spud-u-like, not a pub. [gavel[]

Topseyt · 23/07/2020 09:50

Can you really be arsed going to lunch with her? I couldn't.

Cancel it.

NotEverythingIsBlackandWhite · 23/07/2020 09:50

I don't know anywhere accepting walk-ins in my area.

Butchyrestingface · 23/07/2020 09:48

That was an inspired spacing/alignment choice for your OP.
I read it in my head just like a poem.

Anyway, your friend is being tedious.

HugeAckmansWife · 23/07/2020 09:46

why do you need to book anywhere for a pub lunch on a Thursday? Most places are happy to take walk ins now. She's being ridiculous.

ILiveInSalemsLot · 23/07/2020 09:46

She should’ve said she wanted somewhere that does jacket potatoes. Confused

ChangeThePassword · 23/07/2020 09:46

She seems like hard work.

Maybe say something like 'And I found a place that does pub grub. If you aren't happy with it, I'm totally fine with you choosing somewhere that you'd prefer. Let me know if you do, so I can cancel the booking'

geereer · 23/07/2020 09:43

Honestly I've spent all week finding places and her moaning.
She can't be bothered to look herself.

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Nottobesoldseparately · 23/07/2020 09:43

Your friend is a dickhead, if she's that bothered about the menus, she should have done her own research.

nestisflown · 23/07/2020 09:43

Yanbu

Lobelia123 · 23/07/2020 09:42

She sounds very tedious.

Governoress86 · 23/07/2020 09:42

yanbu she is being too picky. If she wanted something specific then she should of said but instead she just said pub grub.

Cant be doing with people that say you pick or you book somewhere and then get arsey because its not what they wanted.

GreyishDays · 23/07/2020 09:40

Depends on tone of voice. Was this in person or text? If by text you need a smiley.

sbhydrogen · 23/07/2020 09:40

Your friend is the arsed one 🤣

geereer · 23/07/2020 09:38

That was arsey not arsed Grin

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