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Give up on buying a house?

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Mariagatzs12 · 11/02/2020 07:04

Since July last year we've been trying to buy a house. At first we had a broker who it hunk was only interested in easy cases, the house got over complicated (for him) and he started to make mistakes. That was a lucky escape anyways.
So I found a local one, lovely lady. We found another house. Yes we're pushing how much we can afford but everything looked fine, until yesterday.

My husband was unlucky that he got 3 unpaid leave days (that happened during the year) all being taken from his salary in the same week. Plus another sick day a couple of weeks later. The lender averages the income for the past 8 weeks, so it looks like he's earning 10% less which means we can't afford this house.

The broker is saying she'll appeal but we'll most likely have to find another lender. I'm starting to think she should have foreseen this and now we're completely outpriced of this house. So back to the drawing board and £500 wasted on conveyancers. I'm started to get really down about all of this.

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Mariagatzs12 · 11/02/2020 07:18

I think the reasoning is that with rent they just kick you out, on mortgage is takes more time. I'm just so down about the whole thing

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SquishyLint · 11/02/2020 07:10

It’s not taken into account, which is bloody ridiculous!

Mariagatzs12 · 11/02/2020 07:09

They're lending £15k less. Our mortgage would be at least £200 less than rent. But I don't think that's ever taken into account

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Curiosity101 · 11/02/2020 07:07

How much were they intending to lend you prior to the wage mix-up? I think for joint applications it's normally up to 5x your income?

Are you currently paying rent? What is that like compared to the mortgage?

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