Bare bum in dressing room , AIBU.

I was assuming this would be a unisex changing room and was ready to defend your negative reaction on that basis, but if you were in the men's changing room then a. you had no business being there and b. of course you're going to see bare male bums in a men's changing room!

@MrsFoxPlus4Again you're welcome to come over to mine this has been the highlight of my year I'm not going to sleep anytime soon

@TrixieFranklin if I don’t stop giggling I bet I’m on the sofa tonight 😂

Like I said I'm not British.
but you are from Planet Earth aren't you? You' ve managed to access this forum, so you are a bit familiar with the modern western world?

Just remember there was another child there besides mine that wasn't his

Yes. And you were sat there for 30 mins while children who weren't yours were undressing and dressing.

You are just as bad as him.

I need to go to sleep

Whaaaat? Sorry just caught up. So op would it be fine if my dh took our dds into the ladies? Wow, yabu and a bit bonkers.

@whattodo2019 the OP was out of breath and sat there willy watching

I can't decide if this is just bizarre
a complete piss take
or the most flipping ridiculous and entitled hysterical behaviour I've heard of.

so pinkboa you are happy for my HUSBAND (definitively male) to go into your female changing area if he prefers it to the male one? Seriously?!?

Curious as to why you (as a female) were in the male changing rooms. Usually parents take children into the changing room of the parents gender not the childs...
I'm a bit nervous now talking about gender here.... I'm bound to offend someone!!!

Dh took dtds into the men's changing room at swimming when they were 4 and too young to change without an adult. There were 3 men naked doing competitive press ups tbh man getting changed without a fuss seems much more normal.

Trixie
Girl, My dreams tonight are shattered 🤢

I haven't laughed so much at a thread.
OP, you seriously expect people to believe this?
I think you must need diagrams drawing to be so clueless about such things.
Man changes in men's changing rooms, offends female lurker.
I hope this makes the papers😃

Mistycloud

Backs away from thread - but spies from the sidelines.......

@T0tallyFuckedUpFamily

Be careful you don’t accidentally reverse into naked man’s penis! 🍆

LOL!

So at this school with the swimming pool, there was nowhere for you to wait during the lesson other than one of the changing rooms? No corridor, no communal space of any sort? Okaaaay.

Why were you in there for 30 mins?! This has got to be bullshit.

@pinkboa

He's 2 why would he be using a men's restroom... he's still in nappies. I said equivalent to...

Well just FYI, when your DS does need to use a toilet, you bring him to the toilet that corresponds to the sex of the parent, not the child.

LOL @TrixieFranklin

When my kids swim I usually wait in the café area. The other day a woman there was drinking COFFEE!!

AIBU to find it bizarre???

@TrixieFranklin make a wanted poster

But it's not the equivalent to is it?

Because you don't, as a female, accompany a 5 year old boy (for example) into the MALE toilets.

My DAD never took me into the LADIES toilets when I was 3...because that would be WRONG of him.

As a grown woman you don't have any right to be in a male space and vice versa. Child or no child.

I googled to find a trolls hairy bum but this was all I could find

OP do you take your son into the men's loos instead of the female loos as well?!
I (and clearly everyone else) just find it utterly bizarre that you chose to sit in the men's changing room for half an hour , never mind then coming on here and complaining about a naked arse.
Have you never seen signs that tell you that you need to go into the correct-sex changing room after the age of 8 - not 38!!!!!

My husbands really not amused at my giggling