Bare bum in dressing room , AIBU.

If a man brought his DD in to the womens' changing rooms, he'd be thrown out on his ear. Like you should have been. Men are entitled to their privacy & dignity in single sex spaces, just like we are

Agreed.

You knew which changing room to go into, or you wouldn't have mentioned that you went to the men's because the women's were too full. YABU.

"Men should not strip off and expose their genitals to children who are not their own."

Men and women are entitled to strip off in their own single sex spaces
(if allowed within the rules of the establishment)

I certainly don't cover up in the gym changing room or shower on the very rare occasion there are children present
neither does anyone else

ItsGoingTibiaK

A bare arse you say? Blimey, I’d have had a stroke.

Easy on there! We’ll not have that kind of behaviour!

Please stop troll hunting just because you don't understand an OP's thought process.

Tbf, I don’t think the OP understands the OP’s thought process. 🤷‍♀️

"I don't believe it's my duty to enlighten other people's children about the varying forms of the human body"

They aren't doing this

They are just using the changing rooms or showers in a single sex space as intended, not changing their habits just because children have been brought into the room

In a unisex space, it would be very unreasonable
In a single sex space it is reasonable

I must be very tired. I did read your OP, "pinkboa*, I promise. Then I had a little nap and when I woke up I'd totally forgotten about all the small children around in your account.

In that case I totally revise my opinion. Men should not strip off and expose their genitals to children who are not their own. I know some parents practice nudity at home and that's their business. It shouldn't be engaged in in public.

One of the difficulties with male nakedness is the habit of a sizeable minority of men of using their dicks as weapons. The other is that male genitals are far less discreet than females ones. One can only describe a cock and balls as downright ostentatious.

"What part of it sounded undignified for him? "

You - an adult woman - being in a single sex space for men

@T0tallyFuckedUpFamily You've reported OP because she misunderstood British culture? She's already said she's not from the UK. Please stop troll hunting just because you don't understand an OP's thought process.

So if a man took his daughter swimming and chose to use the female changing room, that wouldn't bother you OP?

Then the man went and sat in the women's changing rooms whilst his daughter had a lesson - THAT wouldn't bother you?

If either bother you then you're a hypocrite

This thread made me laugh so much. My favorite drip feed ever!

It would be interesting to see if the mothers who go into the pool with their kids also go starkers in a room full of people and their children. I highly doubt it

Many will. It's totally normal. Most people have no issue with their child seeing an adult naked in the context of a swimming pool changing room, and rightly so.

I'm interested in where you're from, cos it seems to be an even more prudish culture than the British! Quite a feat!

A bare arse you say? Blimey, I’d have had a stroke.

Can’t decide if you’re really obtuse or have reeled everyone in like an expert angler, OP.

"His bum was also hairy and unattractive"

Would it make a difference otherwise?

I object vigorously to men in the women's changing room but it seems VVU for a woman in the men's changing room to object to the sight of a naked men. She shouldn't be there and he shouldn't feel self concious.

One of the reasons I oppose mixed sex changing is that if I feel comfortable I have been known to take all my clothes off and shower naked, particularly if it's a hot day.

Where did I say he was a perv?

That is EXACTLY what you're implying, and you know it.

Good night but no, I do not have work tomorrow but thank you for suggesting I go to bed. :)

^woman not women, hopefully there was only one of you!

He’s probably posting on dadsnet about some weird women who sat, fully clothed in a changing room and looked at his arse.