Bare bum in dressing room , AIBU.

@pinkboa GIVE IT UP....you are embarrassing yourself!! You sound like a fucking weirdo to be honest!!

That dad and his son are always in there... as I have also said. His son and mine do the same class. But it's still empty...

The dad and son are always in there but it’s still empty.
Are they ghosts? Pictures on the wall? In your imagination?

You’re batshit and self entitled thinking you can use the men’s because you want to. Hope he reported you to the school.

pinkboa Wed 27-Nov-19 21:39:27
He wasn't drying... that makes even more odd!

pinkboa Tue 26-Nov-19 22:57:46
And it wasn't less than a minute because he was drying himself as well 🤢...

It’s a shame the other mumsnet user posing as the man (who’s bare hairy arse is the one the OP is complaining about) had their thread taken down ...it was far more amusing.

@pinkboa I’m not projecting anything. You criticised his bum for being hairy. You put a f***g vomiting emoji next to the comment. You can’t pretend it was anything other than a complaint about the appearance of a mans bum.

I can’t believe you’re still trying to defend yourself. 26 pages and counting of people app agreeing that you a barking mad for complaining about a man getting changed in a men’s changing room where there were no cubicles. 26 pages of you being told how inappropriate it was for you to go into the men’s changing room. Yet here you are still trying to convince us that we’re all wrong.

You saw a naked man in a space designated for naked men and you are STILL appalled by it.

Well I have had a jolly old day checking in on this thread. Loving the new addition that the OP would also happily use the gents loo if there's a queue at the ladies. I have visions of you climbing up onto the urinals if the cubicles are taken when you get in there in your batshit determination not to queue! 😂 😂 😂

Op do you care that you probably made the man getting changed feel v uncomfortable?

I'm going to go out on a limb and say no she couldn't give a fig. OP was warm and dry and comfortable and that's what matters right?

Op do you care that you probably made the man getting changed feel v uncomfortable? Why did you not leave the changing room at the point it was obvious he was going to undress?

@pinkboa

We may not agree and I think you’re bonkers but I think I like you. You’re hilarious. what a thread!

Unfortunately my asthma is improved by humidity. How do I get to see a bare hairy arse?

Iv just came back and I’m very surprised the Op is still here 😂

OP I've read the entire thread & I've finally reported you. I did assume it was made up, and your 'facts' make no sense whatsoever (eg swimming lessons for 2 year old where parents aren't in the water but there's a 1:2 ratio. Rubbish)

But either way your replies, IMO, are pure goady & pretty nasty & hence my report

I am confused. I asked if you were Australian and you said "I am indeed" and then asked why I was scathing. I certainly wasn't scathing in my comment about you being Australian.

Then answering someone else you said you didn't grow up in Australia but had been to the beach in Perth.

There is no way you could of spent anytime here and not known what changeroom or Toilet you used. We are not some bac kwood country.

It doesn't matter if it was a school or leisure centre .
YOU WERE IN THE MENS !
The poor sod probably went home and told his dp that there was a fucking woman in the men's changing area. Just sitting there.
If I was the do I would have been straight on the phone asking them to out up a notice telling people to stick to their allocated changing areas.
YABVVFU

So will you be using the mens changing room again op? Or do you still feel entitled to use it?

Did you read all of? Did I criticise his bottom or did I just say it was hairy..

With a sick emoji! I'd say that was criticism.

I used the men's because it is empty... plain and simple. I do not care what other mothers do... I do what is convenient for me and like I said I thought you went with the sex of the child. Regardless of that... a lot of women are prudish and in truth would never go into a men's changing room even if it was a class specifically for toddlers and it was empty I.DO.NOT.CARE😐 don't know how many times I need to reiterate that...

So you do it because it's empty (but it wasn't ) you do it because you're not prudish (but you are]) you don't care what other mothers do, but come on mumsnet are argue with loads of other mothers about what t they do, so you do care,

You are batshit crazy!

Did you criticise his bum?

You said in your op it was unattractive and put sick emoji!

But @pinkboa he needed his towel to dry his hairy arse with! And the rest of him, how can he use the towel to both dry himself and protect his modesty? Must he carry more than one towel on the off chance a woman will be lurking in his changing room?

Do you carry more than one towel for this purpose? Do you often encounter men lurking in the ladies?

If you did care to read you would have also noted I was not the only parent in the room, there was another father and his son getting dressed for the class.

We did note that, you pointed out that they were in in the men's changing room which you were only using because it is always empty

Except it's not always empty is it? Today there were at least four people in there: a man and his daughters who were entitled to and an apparently voyeuristic busybody who shouldn't have been because they are female, possibly with other parts of their body being hairy, though judging by the many posts it clearly doesn't cause you a problem when typing.

When someone reports you, which they will if u carry on, you will care.

If you go into the male changing room I think you have to accept you may see a male bare bum!