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To be angry that parents won't allow their children to go on school visit to local mosque?

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ptangyangkipperbang · 04/07/2007 14:06

DS2 is going on a school trip to the local mosque. However, the school nearly cancelled it because so many parents have refused to let their children go. I have only spoken to one parent who won't allow her child to go but she said "I'm not racist but...why should they visit a mosque when we daren't get a plane or go to a shopping centre because of that lot". Not racist .

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MorocconOil · 04/07/2007 16:28

MrsRecycle, I wouldn't be surprised if in the current political climate members of the Mosque are afraid the mosque could be attacked by a counter group or racists.

It wouldn't stop me letting my children visit a mosque as part of their religious education.

grouchyoscar · 04/07/2007 16:28

When I was a child my barking mad a quite racist mother (as I know now) prevented me from going on a trip to the sikh temple as I would have to wear a head scarf (or so she said)

Narrow minded bigot she is.

I would love to let DS go to a mosque. My Islamic friends say I do not need a designated trip, I could ask one of the Elders attend a session. Which I may do, there are more active mosques than churches round here TBH

speedymama · 04/07/2007 16:26

I don't suppose it is Frindsbury Mosque by any chance?

MrsRecycle · 04/07/2007 16:22

Boycott it surprisingly - they are horrified at the amount of fanatatists(sp) that visit it and don't want their kids exposed to it.

speedymama · 04/07/2007 16:20

That's interesting MrsRecycle. Would your BIL and BF go there or do they boycott it too?

MrsRecycle · 04/07/2007 16:18

the metal detectors are there because their religion dictates that they can carry them - I researched the reason for them after the knife incident.

MorocconOil · 04/07/2007 16:15

That place looks really interesting Chopster.

MrsRecycle · 04/07/2007 16:15

Yes but not KNIVES - my dds go to church every Sunday and there are no metal detectors when we go and we have never witnessed people pulling out knives on each other.

chopster · 04/07/2007 16:14

mrs recycle, I think the metal detectors are to stop terrorists sneaking in weapons, not because muslims randomly attack each other. I think that is a bit of an overeaction tbh. If you saw a knife attack at a bus stop, would you avoid all bus stops in future?

chopster · 04/07/2007 16:13

here is about the cows.

speedymama · 04/07/2007 16:12

MrsReccyle, as a child I went to Sunday School (CoE) and I remember the teachers having to break up the fight between two boys dressed in their Sunday best. Has not stop me from sending my 3yo DTS to Sunday School.

chopster · 04/07/2007 16:12

it's jsut outside watford, they have a website here

at starrynight!

MorocconOil · 04/07/2007 16:09

Starrynight

MrsRecycle · 04/07/2007 16:09

We are NOT racist (my bil is from Pakistan and my best-friend is Muslim) but none of my kids are ever going to a Mosque again. dd1 (9) went on a school trip to one at the beginning of the year and witnesed someone pulling a knife out on someone - very scary for her. A random incident, I hear you all say - okay and I would agree - but, if that's the case, why do they have metal detectors all around the mosque??

MorocconOil · 04/07/2007 16:07

I like the sound of the cow sanctuary.

StarryStarryNight · 04/07/2007 16:07

you can place an ad:
"Muslim family wanted for fun days out at the mosque, bbqs and trips to the park"

lol

sorry if this was in bad taste, but I have a warped sense of humour

funkimummy · 04/07/2007 16:06

A H.K temple? Sounds cool. Whereabouts is it exactly? I'd like to take my two.

chopster · 04/07/2007 16:04

mimizam, thats a lovely idea, but unfortunately there aren't many muslims where I live now. I really should have done that while I was still living in Croydon!

My next plan is to take the kids to a hari krisna temple in watford. It looks beautiful there, and they have a cow sanctuary type thing too.

funkimummy · 04/07/2007 16:01

I think they should go. It's exactly comments like that that cause the rift between anyone who is Asian and therefore a 'suspect terrorist' and us.

I have some fantastic friends who just happen to be Muslim. I've joined in with some of their most precious religious ceremonies, and so have my children. Truly a beautiful thing to watch.

MorocconOil · 04/07/2007 15:58

Chopster, If you want to go to a mosque, try and make friends with a Muslim family, then you can all go along together

CaptainUnderpants · 04/07/2007 15:58

It could be argued with those parents that we should also stop taking our children to the Doctors and hosiptals as some of those involved in recent events were doctors , try that one on them see what they say !

speedymama · 04/07/2007 15:56

Chopster, yes. The Mosque I visited was in Turkey and the Sikh temple in Birmingham.

MorocconOil · 04/07/2007 15:54

On that subject Starry it really perplexes me how parents who are not Catholic, can send their child to a Catholic school because of it's academic reputation, and then not be concerned when their child is terrified about being sent to hell.

CaptainUnderpants · 04/07/2007 15:52

Shame that parents are like this. I think it would have been interesting for the children and I would have quite like to go along if it was my school .

meandmyflyingmachine · 04/07/2007 15:49

See this is it. I have been to mosques. And synagogues. As a sightseer. I don't think I got any real insight from visiting them TBH.

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