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Original poster

to feel left out and worried ?

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 15:53

Just dropped dd off for a party. I felt like a lemon as other mums are all dressed up and look like they have been invited to stay for a drink!

These mums who don't have much time for me at school!

My dd is great friends with the party girl, but doesn't get on that well with the others girls very much!

No I am worried about her. Sh*t!

Its a sleep over. Double Sh*t!

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:32

Well she doesn't plan that far ahead. But right now she is at Glastonbury, and after that she is not sure!

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TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:31

That's terribly impressive

What does she plan on doing now?

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:28

That would be nice 2shoes and TnOgu could paint us a picture as we gave her ice cool drinks!

TnOgu my SD got a 2/1 at St Martins!

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TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:25

could I come? please

2shoes · 23/06/2007 16:24

Wotznotreallyhere if you lived near me I would invite you for drinks

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:23

Yes indeed I do.

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TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:21

and there ends the thread

TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:19

Children are not their parents

If you see what I mean

TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:17

I agree with Pointy

She'll let you know if she's unhappy

pointydog · 23/06/2007 16:16

personally, I'd leave her to call you.

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:15

thanks, you have cheered me up and I can call her and I am sure she is having a great time.

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sparklesandwine · 23/06/2007 16:14

yes do call and say good night it will make you and her feel better

high heels and fancy tops on a saturday slatterns

pointydog · 23/06/2007 16:13

Don't worry, if your dd was looking forward to it she'll prob be fine.

Expect her to enjoy it and in the event she doesn't, you'll be there to chat to her. Don't worry yourself silly all night.

Desiderata · 23/06/2007 16:12

High heels? Now I'm really chortling.

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:12

I am typing slooooooowllllllllllylylylylylylyllllll

TTTTTtnnnoogggguuuuuu

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:11

Thanks TnOgu - I may well spend soem time on MC to take my mind off it all....

Put you all have to put your flip flops on!

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TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:11

oh that's right just ignore me

Like you always do

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:09

Exactly Desiderata, they had make up on and everything, even fancy tops. I have plain T and 3/4 cut off tous and flip flops. They even had high heels FGS! Saturday afternoon....shame.

lol

sparkles she is 10 so nearly a year younger than all others as she is late Aug birthday. No mobile, but I may ring their house later to say goodnight.

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TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:09
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sparklesandwine · 23/06/2007 16:08

fuck um wotz

pushy mums really piss me off

TnOgu · 23/06/2007 16:07

I don't get into the gossipy school mum thing either wotz, it's tedious and bad for the soul.

I'm sure your daughter will have a fab time

sparklesandwine · 23/06/2007 16:06

how old is your DD wotz? is she of mobile phone age so you can call/text to make sure she is ok?

Desiderata · 23/06/2007 16:06

Ah, well walking distance is good. If there's a problem, you can go and get her.

Pushy mums? Seems like you're not being left out, but that you've chosen to leave yourself out ... and good for you!

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:05

I have tried.

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Wotznotreallyhere · 23/06/2007 16:04

They are very pushy and I don't like to contribute to their whining about the school which they always do.

I hope dd is OK, I am within walking distance.

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