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Toddler biting his tongue in his sleep - AIBU to be concerned?

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SinkGirl · 23/10/2018 10:08

Posted a few weeks ago about my DS (2) waking up covered in blood and then discovering a large ulcerated wound on his tongue. Mentioned that earlier in the year he had some smaller incidents of bleeding from his mouth and we thought they were teething related (he doesn’t stick his tongue out much, never has, and I’d never spotted any injuries).

It’s just healed up. Night before last there was a small amount of blood in a drool stain on his sheet. Last night I woke up to him shouting (not crying) to find blood everywhere again. Gave him some painkillers and sat with him until he settled down. This morning I can see a wound / bruising on the other side of his tongue.

Last time I posted people said I should be concerned because it could be nocturnal seizures. We rushed him to an emergency appointment as the wound looked really nasty and the GP clearly thought I was overreacting and said it would heal on its own and to come back if it didn’t. I asked if it was normal for toddlers to bite their tongue so badly and he sort of shrugged and said they can do.

I’m just thinking this can’t be right can it? He’s never done it during the day so if it was down to a big tongue (which I don’t think he has) or teething wouldn’t it also happen while he was awake? And it’s not a little graze, it’s a big wound on the top and underneath just like before.

Last time he suffered for over a week and was clearly in a lot of pain, drooling a lot.

Should I take him back to the GP? Can’t tell if I’m overreacting or not. This was his sheet this morning.

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SinkGirl · 23/10/2018 14:35

Just managed to get a better look at it, and it is really quite bad. This was the last one when it ulcerated although you can’t see the full extent of it as it went further back and was underneath too.

This time it’s on the other side and a bit further forward but surrounded by bruising. I can’t imagine doing that to myself without a lot of tears and swear words.

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SinkGirl · 23/10/2018 14:01

I agree - it seems very severe to me, when just a small bite to your tongue really hurts but doesn’t bleed much.

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Lovethetimeyouhave · 23/10/2018 13:31

Bite

Lovethetimeyouhave · 23/10/2018 13:31

Ok I've bit my tongue in my sleep, I do it once every few months and it HURTS, so I immediately stop and wake... there's no blood. What's concerning is it's such a big note and so much blood!! I'd be going back to the gp

SinkGirl · 23/10/2018 11:25

Thank you - no, it’s never happened to me either, or his twin. I also think I would cry if I bit my tongue that hard (I’ve done it once or twice while eating in the past and it really hurts!).

I’ll make an appointment. Going to get a video monitor that records movement to see if I can spot anything (unfortunately there’s no space in their room and he won’t sleep in our bed!)

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APMom · 23/10/2018 10:53

I would go back to gp. None of my children bit their tongue in their sleep, neither do I. I would ask for a referral and possibly sleep in the same room to keep an eye.

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