... and wander the streets with her until I get off the train after work???
My MIL use to look after DD full time and it got too much for her so we had to put DD in nursery - MIL gave us a week's notice to find a suitable nursery. After a few months DD is finally settled in nursery (she 16 months) and now MIL thinks that the day is too long for DD and wants to go and pick her up at 4.30pm twice a week and wait for me to get off train. The nursery is about a 15 min drive from our house so MIL can't take her back to the house as she doesn't drive so she has to walk round local parks and shops etc. Do you think I'm being unreasonable in not wanting this? I have tried talking to MIL saying that it has taken a few months for DD to settle and now is sleeping through the night again etc etc and think that the change of routine would unsettle her again. At the moment I have to work full time but MIL is making me feel guilty and I feel like she is questioning my parenting skills with regard to the care that I have chosen.