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AIBU?

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Original poster

to not want to adopt my DH's son?

55 replies

JenniferAldridge · 01/05/2007 13:05

My DH had a torrid secret affair several years ago - now the OW claims to be dying from cancer and wants me to adopt their son! AIBU to say no?

OP posts:
OrmIrian · 01/05/2007 13:07

You mean old cow! Stop being so horrid to poor ickle Roaeuiieeeoioirghirrryyeeyy

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 01/05/2007 13:07

do you have a relationship with the son? how involved is your dh in his life? was the affair during your relationship?

MamaG · 01/05/2007 13:07

are you a namechanger?

controlfreaky2 · 01/05/2007 13:06

no yanbu..... but your dh may leave you..... and leave the farm to the true biological seed of his loins.... and you pfb adam may have to reinvent himself as the reincarnation of a colourful antiques dealer......

Aloha · 01/05/2007 13:06

How old are you Jennifer? Do you have any other children? Do they know about the affair. >