cos i am one and love my DDIL to bits. I'm also a DIL and although we dont see my IL's very often (live 500 miles away) we get on great to, especially as she is only 10 years older than me! I married her son who is 10 years younger than me, I was already a Grandmother so made DH a grandfather at 27, and her a GGrandmother at 47, and could never her give DH his own child so she has no grandchildren from us, and she never whinged once!