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Children playing out in the street

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dunfightin · 07/09/2017 21:27

At the start of the summer holidays, all the kids on our street began playing out together. Different ages, but mostly primary with a couple of early secondary kids but lovely mix of ages and a couple of different schools - from year 2 upwards.
As parents we have kept an eye on them collectively but at a distance. It's a quiet side street in suburban very family orientated area. We think it's lovely that they get chance to work out how to play collectively and work out rules between themselves.
A couple of the neighbours object, including oddly one of whom has a toddler.
Kids are playing, laughing and occasionally shouting but all normal volume but neighbours want to come home to peace and quiet.
So are we being unreasonable to say it's ok that kids play out after school? As one of the DCs said it's my human right to play on the street it's my childhood.
Should agree times or ask them to be in when the childless come in from work around 6pm?
As another parent said it'll soon stop as nights draw in and weather gets worse.
Apparently someone on the street also contacted the police - Confused.
Um not anti-social behaviour or excessive noise. Am now drinking

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Shoxfordian · 07/09/2017 21:40

Its not a human right to play on the street Hmm

I can actually see your neighbours perspective. How late are they out? If there's a lot of them then they probably are making a racket.

Also I don't love the sound of children doing anything so I would hate to live there. May as well admit it.

I think you could be a bit more considerate really.

Seniorcitizen1 · 07/09/2017 21:39

Ignore them - children need to play out

indulgentberries · 07/09/2017 21:37

YANBU, the neighbours need to accept normal childhood playing out sounds as long as it's not late at night - I'd expect them to be quiet by 8pm if they would be disturbing a toddler trying to sleep.

glenthebattleostrich · 07/09/2017 21:36

We have the same sort of Street and it's wonderful. On a weekend we are all out chatting and drinking tea wine and kids age 2+ play. 1 set of neighbours complain but we point out that their yappy dogs are far louder than the kids.

And no, it's not the kids setting the dogs off, they are worse through the week when kids are at school. I work from home and hear them all bloody day.

WorraLiberty · 07/09/2017 21:35

I think you know the answer to this OP.

Just ignore them.

The clocks go back next month anyway, so it'll be pitch dark at 5pm.

nocake · 07/09/2017 21:31

Firstly, the police won't be interested unless the kids are damaging stuff.

I think your neighbours need to learn to enjoy the sound of kids playing outside. It certainly isn't reasonable for them to expect the kids to not be outside playing in the evening.

Moanyoldcow · 07/09/2017 21:30

There are some really miserable people in the world, aren't there? Provided the kids aren't screaming continually, playing knock-down ginger etc I can't see anything wrong with them playing outside. I love hearing kids play.

WineAndTiramisu · 07/09/2017 21:30

I would say ignore the grumpy neighbors, as long as they're not making noise late in the evening, what's the problem?!

dunfightin · 07/09/2017 21:28

oops Wine to stop fuming. So what's reasonable?

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