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To be a wee bit narked with charidee shop lady?

30 replies

Iklboo · 27/03/2007 10:36

We had a clear out at weekend of DS's old clothes & toys. Filled a bin bag with toys & 4 carrier bags of clothes - loads never worn, all washed & in immaculate condition etc.
Took it to the charity shop yesterday. As soon as we walked in the door the woman looked up from talking to her friend and said "put them in the stairs".
"OK - it's some baby clothes & toys" said DH
"Yeah - I told you put them on the stairs" she replied and tutted, rolling her eyes at her friend.

NOW - I wasn't exactly expecting her to prostrate herself at our feet and proclaim us as gods, but I think a "thank you" would have been nice

Especially since today my mate at work has just come back from a volunteer stint in Mombassa and told us how stuff sent from Oxfam etc is bought en bloc by people in Africa and then SOLD at a profit to the people it's supposed to be being donated to!

I feel now I should have held onto the stuff and got work to post it all out to the specific orphanage she was at

Still....doing that would deprive the British Heart Foundation, who need all the money they get.

Sigh

OP posts:
singingmum · 27/03/2007 10:41

We had a charity shop with same prob.We now give stuff to another shop where volunteers are polite and friendly.Complain.
I know it sounds harsh but people have about our local one and the person involved has been told to buck up her ideas.Ater all if people don't donate how can they raise money?
There is never an excuse for rudness no matter what is happening.

Miaou · 27/03/2007 10:38

oH gRRRR !!

I HATE it when people are so rude like that. A lot of charity shops are desperate for stuff, as they lose a lot to ebay and the like. THey can't afford to be rude. My local charity shops fall over themselves with gratitude when I take stuff in - especially when I say "it's all washed and ironed" - but that's the Highlands for you - everyone is lovely here.

cupcakes · 27/03/2007 10:38

She probably thinks she's doing you a favour by taking it off your hands.
Even if it wasn't for charity a few manners couldn't have hurt.

GameGirly · 27/03/2007 10:38

You did the right thing and someone will benefit. What would you have done with it otherwise. I can't believe that woman was so rude and ungrateful. But I suppose she's doing it for nothing and perhaps she was having a Very Bad Day?!

GreenandBlackOtter · 27/03/2007 10:37

iklboo - please do get hold of that orphanage address ....we could send stuff!

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