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To think my mother is a nasty selfish bitch

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DontDeserveIt · 15/07/2017 14:41

She's been really been particularly kind or nice to me but recently has Neville even nastier.
Didn't get a congratulations with my last pregnancy and this time the same. Nothing. Just a cats bum face when I told her.

The only time there was a flicker of anything was when I if an episode of bleeding she could t contain her smirking.
Luckily all was ok.

Yesterday was my 12week scan. I'd arranged would she collect ds from school as it was same time she barked at me "well what time will you be back????"
No good luck, nothing just a horrible attitude.
We got back and she left the room. Did t ask how it went didn't ask to see the photo just took herself off. Tried to say goodbye when we left she wouldn't speak.
I text her later to thank her for having ds. No reply but could see the text had been read.

Text her this morning just hello how are you today and got back 'I'm ill'
She does this all the time. It's not about her so she goes all weird. She has horrible with my last pregnancy too. I've never met somebody so unkind and uncaring wtf is wrong with her.
The only time she seemed happy was when I was bleeding 😔

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GreenTulips · 15/07/2017 14:45

I'd love bomb!

Oh dear! Well alls well with the baby and the scan went well - were so excited and can't wait for you to meet him/her

BabsGanoush · 15/07/2017 14:44

Is she concerned with you having more children - do you have any money worries and she thinks another child will cause more problems? Or is she worried she will be asked to do more babysitting or childcare - if you work?

mummymeister · 15/07/2017 14:44

if she is so nasty why are you relying on her for any sort of child care? you have two choices either you confront her and tell her exactly how you feel or you go NC.

she isn't going to just wake up one day and change. is she menopausal? it can make you behave very oddly - it did me any way.

NellieFiveBellies · 15/07/2017 14:44

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endelessworries · 15/07/2017 14:44

Sounds like my MIL

DontDeserveIt · 15/07/2017 14:42

*never been nastier

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