I have 2 sons, DS1 is 2 and DS2 is just 4 weeks. The IL's in particular say how much they look like my DH. I have said that certain people have pointed out similarities to me but they dismiss it outright. Any time I comment on something good one of them may have done, they say DH was like that. Sometimes I just wish they would say, well done to me, but it seems my children have nothing to do with me at all and it really hacks me off! I know I should not worry about things like this but it grates me