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to be fed up with the amount of pink!

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Sunshine78 · 12/03/2007 12:55

I am a mum to a dd and a ds. I just wanted to know why some people now who have dd have to have everything in bright pink as if to say look at me I've got a girl. Am I the only one who feels the pink explotion in shops is a bit sexist towards boys? Anything you can buy also comes in pink. There also seems to be more girls clothes/toys in the shops than boys. Sorry if this offends some but I would like to know why people want everything to be pink?

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yellowrose · 13/03/2007 17:37

Yellow and Green are fab on any child - thumbs up to that !

BizzyDint · 13/03/2007 17:31

i went to mothercare to buy dd a travel cot the other day and the choice (in my price range) was grey or pink. we chose grey.

i then looked in early learning for a push along trike. the choice was green and blue or pink. we chose green and blue.

she does have a few pink things. a pink coat for example. most of her other stuff is along the lines of pumpkin patch. i quite like all the yellow and green stuff next have at the moment, and their red white and blue 'french' looking stuff.

yellowrose · 13/03/2007 17:28

Unfortunatley the shops collude with society to tell us that boys wear blue and girls wear pink. It is up to us to rebel

ipanemagirl · 13/03/2007 17:22

but why does my sis think it matters if I give her dd a present in blue paper?
Does she think it will damage her own gender identity??? !!
I mean why would anyone want to reinforce that whole pink thing any more than the whole of society already does??

MadameSleepsLessAndLess · 13/03/2007 17:05

I have one dd, dress her in pink, blue or red. I really don't care that much about the colour of her outfit, she appears to suit blue much better anyway, she has big blue eyes. I think I would be slightly worried about me if I was getting this upset/offended by a particular colour. Surely there a bigger things worth getting upset about, sorry it offends you too.

yellowrose · 13/03/2007 16:59

I know expat. My nieces all went through the damned pink phase, wear less of it now as teenagers, thank goodness !

yellowrose · 13/03/2007 16:58

DonnyLass - let's, they will have beautiful babies

DonnyLass · 13/03/2007 16:52

yellowose ... let's betroth them ...!

expatinscotland · 13/03/2007 16:48

My daughter loves pink. I know not why. I do not argue because I know there are many ways in which her tastes will differ from mine.

It's just a colour.

yellowrose · 13/03/2007 16:47

DonnyLass, my ds is so pretty he gets mistaken for a girl all the time

yellowrose · 13/03/2007 16:46

I absolutley hate pink and think that it is sexist to colour code any child. I would never wear pink myself, so wouldn't put it on my kids either. I only buy ds very neutral colours that both sexes can wear, beige, brown, white, green, etc.

I do like a bit of pink and purple mixed into his clothes though as they mix well, i.e. a nice pastel pink and brown or khaki is a lovely combination. But very rare when looking for boys clothes. I bought him a purple cardigan recently, it was in the girls section, but I don't care as it looks beautiful on him.

DonnyLass · 13/03/2007 16:44

tis blummin annoying

and that sickly pink is really irritating

DH insisted (tis a rare thing for him so I let him stamp his foot )that when we bought our dd a spare chuck-arounf buggy t'other day we got the blue one rather than the nasty pink one that m/care currently selling

... and then smugly declared

'she's so pretty that noone will mistake her for a boy anyway'

he's correct of course!

Pumpkin Patch is good for boys and girls stuff in cheerful not-gender-stereotyped colours ...

hippipotami · 13/03/2007 16:35

The lack of other colours for clothes is frustrating. I also detest anything with sparkles and sequins.

I find this whole pink pram/buggy thing a bit dare I say it chavvy??

scoobydoo99 · 13/03/2007 16:11

I'm a bit fed up by the lack of other colour options when buying clothes for my dd -I'm not a big fan of pink. However, she's been given a lot of pink stuff and when a baby often went out dressed from head to foot in it - what always surprised me was how many people still asked "is it a boy or a girl?"

bizzi · 13/03/2007 15:09

dd1 (9)refuses to wear pink, finding her girly unpink clothes is not easy, she tends to live in boys clothes. I see the frustration (and don't really like pink myself) but have learnt to live with boys fashion instead

ipanemagirl · 13/03/2007 09:29

my sister is a total pink maniac
I was about to wrap her dd's present in generic blue happy birthday paper and she ran in saying "I've got pink! I've got pink!"
who cares?

margoandjerry · 13/03/2007 09:22

I think it is a UK thing - never noticed this when I lived in Switzerland. And it's a reasonably recent thing too. When I was looking through photos of me and my sisters as babies I noticed that we didn't have a single pink item. Shame about the mustard yellow combo my mum put me in though!

LunarSea · 13/03/2007 08:24

Is this a particularly British thing? One of my favourite sites for kids clothes is the Germans Jako-o , and there's noticably a lot more variety colour wise - for both boys and girls - than there seems to be in the UK.

sockmonkey · 13/03/2007 07:48

It's not so much the pink that bothers me. It's the fact that shops sell 3 times as many clothes for girls as they do for boys. Honestly sometimes I really stuggle to find something nice for my DSs. It seems to be the same in every shop, three racks of pink to every one rack of blue.

CristinaTheAstonishing · 13/03/2007 07:36

I think it depends how much effort you want to put into buying clothes. For DS I could find red, yellow, orange, green (Gymboree used to be very good for colourful stuff). I had the time.

For DD I rely mostly on what we receive from others and when I need to get her something myself I tend to just get what I find quickly. If it's a 3-pack of T-shirts one is bound to be pink. Anyway, there's enough beige and brown in the world. I don't wear them myself, why would I dress DD in them?

Catbabymummy · 13/03/2007 06:50

What's wrong with pink? If I have a boy I'll dress it in ALL pink

kks · 12/03/2007 23:12

Its always old ladies, bless em!

Twinklemegan · 12/03/2007 23:10

I'm really grateful I've got a boy. We got so many blue clothes when he was born that I'm fed up with them, but if I'd had a similar quantity of pink it would have done my head in I think.

LOL kks!

hester · 12/03/2007 23:10

that happens to me all the time, kks. My dd is a bit androgynous, I guess - like a wild-haired little troll doll (remember them?). She can be decked in pink from head to toe and people still call her a boy.

I like pink, but you can definitely have too much of a good thing and I think pink's growing monopoly status needs challenging before there's no choice left.

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