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To be utterly disgusted and depressed that women think its ok to make small penis gags?

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deffonamechange · 22/04/2017 18:16

Just been reading a thread further down where yes some scumbag bloke had been horrible to someone. Lots of outrage and tell him he has a small dick, tell him he has a micro penis basically mock the size of his genitals.

Can you imagine if a woman upset a bloke and all his mates said tell her she has awful labia, tell her her fanny is horrible, tell her she doesnt look normal down there
Its horrific!!

Do you know how many lovely men with smaller penises get inundated with this? Do you know how many teenage boys worry themselves to death because of comments like these?

Its depressing/sexist/cruel and plain nasty. You should be ashamed of yourselves!

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mrsmuddlepies · 23/04/2017 13:05

Worra, you are one of my favourite posters. You are wise, honest and often very funny. You have often made me think twice about an issue. Long may you post Smile

itsmine · 23/04/2017 12:58

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BertrandRussell · 23/04/2017 12:53

Fair enough, itsmine.""It just confirms your woefully small minded, blinkered thinking really."

Oh, and please don't misrepresent what I said about the word "handmaiden". It's very tedious if you.

itsmine · 23/04/2017 12:49

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LassWiTheDelicateAir · 23/04/2017 12:46

This thread has become about the (single) use of 'handmaidens', rather than the frequency of men being called microdicks compared to women being body judged and shamed. That's misogyny in play. Not the joking use of 'dear'.

As is frequently said on MN it is possible to think of 2 things at the same time.

Oh and it was a joke - right- that makes all the difference. Isn't that exactly the sort of defence sexist and misogynistic men make?

I'll be sure to look out for you and Lass the next time some sexist bullshit comes up on AIBU. Now, I wonder which side you'll be loudly defending! Looking forward to it

I suggest you actually bother doing a search before you post. Oh I agree I really cannot be bothered with the effort some feminists put into finding sexism everywhere and will say so, but if you do stop patting yourself on the back about how you cannot possibly be misogynstic I think you might find I have posted at length on abortion, rape, the sex industry in a way which would put me firmly in the rad fem camp (should I want entry to it)


Arealhumanbeing · 23/04/2017 12:41

I remember "speaking" to Anyfucker on a thread, yes. I can't remember what it was about now but I think she just responded and then moved on with her life.

You searched my name and have advised me, twice now to take a step back.

I'm ok thanks Smile

BertrandRussell · 23/04/2017 12:38

Oh, it was sometime early this morning. Can't be arsed to look for it. It don't report stuff lik that. It just amused me that you were suddenly so thin skinned!

DuckDonald · 23/04/2017 12:34

I agree OP. I think you're probably talking about the thread where a boyfriend had texted the OP to say she was rubbish in bed. I think that's why the responses were pretty cruel, though you're right - title for tat doesn't solve anything.

itsmine · 23/04/2017 12:32

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itsmine · 23/04/2017 12:30

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BertrandRussell · 23/04/2017 12:30

Itsmine- I'm sorry. I thought your rather insulting posts to me meant it was open season. But apparently you can dish it out but you can't take it Grin

WorraLiberty · 23/04/2017 12:26

Areal all I know about doing an AS on your name is that you appeared on a thread to have a personal pop at Anyfucker

I do think you should probably take a step back when you find yourself getting personal with internet randoms.

Anyway this thread isn't about you or your feelings towards other regular posters, and as I do feel it's dead in the water there's no point in addressing any more personal nonsense towards me.

itsmine · 23/04/2017 12:24

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WorraLiberty · 23/04/2017 12:23

I honestly don't know how I allowed myself to be drawn back into a thread that I consider 'dead in the water' Grin

That'll teach me!

Arealhumanbeing · 23/04/2017 12:22

Worra

Never name changed but not been on here very long.

And yes we established last night that your attitude worries/upsets me. It's not personal as I don't know anything else about you. You just stand out on these threads as very obviously anti feminist.

I once saw you tell a male poster you hoped he had smacked a woman on the nose for being rude.

So that was nice.

itsmine · 23/04/2017 12:21

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MerchantofVenice · 23/04/2017 12:19

I'll be sure to look out for you and Lass the next time some sexist bullshit comes up on AIBU. Now, I wonder which side you'll be loudly defending! Looking forward to it Grin

BertrandRussell · 23/04/2017 12:17

"I think it's in bad taste though."

Honestly? If she was looking for personal support it's too late for her to get it on this thread. Unless she is reassured by the fact that everyone-bar none- has said that body shaming of or by either gender is wrong. Which is what her original post was asking for.

MercyMyJewels · 23/04/2017 12:16

This thread has become about the (single) use of 'handmaidens', rather than the frequency of men being called microdicks compared to women being body judged and shamed. That's misogyny in play. Not the joking use of 'dear'.

MerchantofVenice · 23/04/2017 12:16

Well, I can remember various toxic views you've posted Worra I may even have done a little research... I was just giving you a clear invitation to prove me wrong, but if you don't fancy it, it's no skin off my nose', is it?!

usernumbernine · 23/04/2017 12:14

bertrand she clarified Confused but if you'd rather carry on, well that's up to you. I think it's in bad taste though. But that's my personal opinion.

WorraLiberty · 23/04/2017 12:13

Arealhumanbeing I've never even seen you posting before you came on last night to have a little pop at me.

I can only assume I've upset you in some way, under one of your name changes perhaps?

Either way, you haven't added anything to the broader discussion, so there's little point engaging with you as it seems to be 'personal' for you?

WorraLiberty · 23/04/2017 12:11

I'm so sorry, Worra Could you link some instances where you've been all 'guns blazing' for the women?

Bingo! It's normally Bertrand who does this ^^

Then I'd go off, find links, come back, post them only to read "Yes but"

So no. I've been here 6 years without name changing.

Feel free to do your own link hunting.

Arealhumanbeing · 23/04/2017 12:10

Worra

You do seem to get excited though! I know you occasionally defend women (in a poor attempt at balance maybe) but that willful blind spot I talked about last night is just so clear to see.

It does come across as gleeful and you do seem to be tripping over yourself sometimes. I've seen you make some ridiculous statements on here.