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To be annoyed with Ocado?

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LorelaiVictoriaGilmore · 11/03/2016 18:23

Ocado have sent me a driver with a prosthetic leg. Just to be clear, I have nothing against the driver having a prosthetic leg. But I had an email from Ocado saying that the driver was not able to manage the 40 steps at my property and could come back later at 7pm. The driver has asked me to meet him at the top of the steps and to carry the shopping down myself. I have a 7 mo baby who I should be putting to bed at 7pm, but instead I'll be carrying the baby and the shopping up and down the steps. Hmm

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Katemax82 · 30/03/2025 21:11

Trumpisaliar · 12/02/2025 02:13

First world problems. What about the poor sod with one leg? Bet you didn't think about him for one second. Nope. Self-centred middle class want want want no empathy. Just shut the whinging. It's not a good look. Some poor single mothers have to drag their kids to Iceland on the bus. Get a bleeding grip

Not very nice!

ScruffGin · 30/03/2025 20:44

Trumpisaliar · 12/02/2025 02:13

First world problems. What about the poor sod with one leg? Bet you didn't think about him for one second. Nope. Self-centred middle class want want want no empathy. Just shut the whinging. It's not a good look. Some poor single mothers have to drag their kids to Iceland on the bus. Get a bleeding grip

Any reason you wanted to berete this lady today? Given the post is 9 years old...?

purplefizz26 · 30/03/2025 20:23

ocado should use the information the customer has provided and ensure their driver is able to fulfill the delivery.
however, it really isn’t a big deal as a one off to put the baby somewhere safe and go and bring your shopping in.
i wouldn’t be using a baby carrier and pissing about making it harder, they will be fine in their cot on in a baby seat infront of the tv.
like someone else said, some parents have to do the food shop by foot/on the bus with kids dragging their heels all the way.

Trumpisaliar · 12/02/2025 02:13

First world problems. What about the poor sod with one leg? Bet you didn't think about him for one second. Nope. Self-centred middle class want want want no empathy. Just shut the whinging. It's not a good look. Some poor single mothers have to drag their kids to Iceland on the bus. Get a bleeding grip

OnlyLovers · 28/03/2016 14:31

I take your point about the promise, but I think YABU on this occasion. You just need to leave the baby for a few minutes, that's all.

Wiifitmama · 28/03/2016 14:30

We never get the same driver twice, and I often get two deliveries a week! But I live in central London and I think it is a busy area for Ocado. We are ground floor and just ask them to leave it at the door so carrying is not an issue, but I pay a lot for my monthly pass and would certainly expect them to deliver it where I needed it as part of that service.

gasman · 28/03/2016 14:22

I've just moved.

On my first delivery the driver said "oh you must have just moved in as we've not met before and this is my route and I see you use Ocado regularly"

So I think there is some continuity with drivers.

VelvetCushion · 28/03/2016 14:19

Why are you worrying about the babies sleep.

GlitteryFluff · 28/03/2016 13:51

Did you get your shopping in the end OP?

I think I'm in the boat of don't send drivers to jobs they can't complete. So yes great that they employ people with prosthetic legs. But don't send them to a job they can't complete. I pay to have my shopping delivered from Tesco. Used to be third floor flat now first floor. I dh sometimes offer to help if it's a big shop but mostly don't because that's why we pay for it to be delivered.

AnchorDownDeepBreath · 28/03/2016 12:00

I always have the same ocado driver. I have for all of the last year, other than his annual leave.

I'd be in trouble if he suddenly couldn't do the stairs - I get my heavy items delivered because I can't manage them either. I don't know what we'd do... Make some kind of winch?!

Glad you got it sorted though OP, nice work on getting baby to sleep just in time!

Damselindestress · 28/03/2016 11:57

What if you had been disabled yourself and unable to carry the shopping to the door? It's part of the service they are supposed to provide. It's good that they employ disabled people but they should employ them in roles they can do, not put the driver and the customer in a difficult position. I would go along with it this once but point out to the company why it doesn't really work.

purplefizz26 · 28/03/2016 11:51

I don't understand why you can't leave the baby in their cot for a few minutes? Even if they cry a bit, it's not the end of the world Confused

But ocado shouldn't send drivers on deliveries they can't manage and put paying customers out.

Aridane · 28/03/2016 07:16

Only just seen this thread and glad I did.

Five years ago, I wasn't mobile / couldn't lift items due to major surgery - and online grocery delivery who would bring grocery shopping inside and place on kitchen work tops.

Phoned Sainsburys and Tescos - normal supermarkets for me - and they said it was down to driver's discretion. I couldn't rely on driver's discretion - so phoned Ocado and had the reassuring purr from their customer service centre of 'but, madam, that's what you're paying for when you use Ocado'. So note went on my file that I was in post surgery recovery - and driver not just brought shopping in but was asking where freezer and fridge were so he could put away the items for me.

Five years on, more surgery, more convalescence. Have placed Ocado order - hadn't going to put any special instructions on delivery or phone customer service this time - but, after seeing this thread, think I had better just check driver is able to bring groceries inside and place on kitchen workspace.

So, OP, thank you for posting! (but kudos to Ocado at the same time)

LorelaiVictoriaGilmore · 11/03/2016 19:27

Ok! Baby asleep though sheer will power as he's never gone to sleep that fast before ever Phew. I guess if the driver is at the top of the steps at 7:30pm as promised, I won't be so annoyed...

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ThatAnneGirl · 11/03/2016 19:23

It is a pain I agree and I would cancel as you will get a different driver next time. But you really need the stuff. Perhaps he can hold the baby while you carry the shopping. Not that I think you should have to carry it as obviously that's why you do it online in the first place.

LorelaiVictoriaGilmore · 11/03/2016 19:05

Ocado know about the 40 steps and they promise to bring your shopping in! That's the whole point of using them! If I was going to carry the bags myself I would just go to the supermarket.

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LorelaiVictoriaGilmore · 11/03/2016 19:04

It's quite a lot of shopping and a lot of steps and I have a bad back myself so I'll only be able to manage two bags at a time. I guess I'll out the babe in the sling - it's going to take quite a few goes up and down!

Agree that he should be employed but Ocado should make adjustments.

They've just now called me to say it will be 7:30pm not 7pm. Angry

But I might just be able to get the baby to sleep....

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kippersyllabub · 11/03/2016 18:59

Yabu a bit. 40 steps is an awful lot. Ocado should have noted that your property was hard to access and sent a driver who could get down them but you could also take the shopping in yourself.

RidersOnTheStorm · 11/03/2016 18:55

YANBU. Ocado promise that it will be brought into your home and they should do just that.

mashpot · 11/03/2016 18:51

I think YABU. You have a baby, not a disability. You can carry a few bags of shopping down some stairs. Be glad you don't have a prosthetic limb to contend with on a daily basis.

Gizlotsmum · 11/03/2016 18:51

It's tricky, I think I would accept it this time, write a polite but detailed complaint, as a company I would assume that people that had multiple steps to access a property wouldn't have accessibility problems themselves, the clashing with bedtime is unfortunate, I would push them to try and be either later or earlier if at all possible. Could you ask a neighbour to help, so quicken the time away from your son?

chantico · 11/03/2016 18:50

Actually, as one of the Ocado service promises is that they will bring your shopping in to the place you request in your home, I think you should get on to their customer services by phone or email, pointing out that because of the steps and your tiny baby this was an aspect of the promised service to which you attach importance.

Add that you hope they can find DriverX a suitable selection of routes which will not involve (near as dammit) housebound customers with flights of stairs.

They should as a minimum refund the delivery charge (or a sum in lieu of that if you're on a Pass).

EachandEveryone · 11/03/2016 18:49

I would also put the baby in the cot. I have lots of stairs too and always pop down to help the driver I generally order 12 two litre bottles of water though!

Buckinbronco · 11/03/2016 18:49

I'm with tatty just leave him in his cot and pick up the stuff, it will only take a minute. I think it's great that this man hasn't been forced into q life of unemployment by This happening to him

We had a Sainsbury delivery once and I couldn't understand the man at all. I keep asking him to repeat what he was saying and getting confused. He eventually explained that he'd had a stroke. Did I ever feel crap Blush

TattyDevine · 11/03/2016 18:48

Totally. (Sorry keep crossed-posting with you OP).

It's a tricky one, but almost definitely a one-off.

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