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How late is too late to play the piano in the evening?

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Laureline · 21/11/2015 21:47

I went to see my neighbours a couple of times when they were playing (or rather practicing) the piano at 9:30PM (once was 11PM).

We live in a row of old terraced houses, the piano is against the shared wall of our living rooms, so we hear everything when it is being played. I can't watch a film or work, it's too distracting, and you hear it on the first floor etc.

I don't enjoy the piano particulalry anyway, but tolerate it during the day as I understand children need to practice to get better.

But I really do mind after 9:30PM. During the week I work late, so hearing "the Sugar Plum Fairy" being practiced at 9:45PM isn't my idea of relaxation.

The father thinks it's a perfectly ok time, and since his kid is out all Saturday, then he has to practice at 9:30PM. I think it's their issue if they don't organise practice time at reasonnable hours for their children, not mine.

Am I being unreasonnable? Seriously, the father seems really offended that I ask they not play after 9:30Pm.
I'm resenting having to go over to their place at night and passing (in their eyes) for a sort of crazed-mean-to-kids person. The boys seem lovely people, but I just want to enjoy some peace and quiet in the evening. We are quiet ourselves and don't play loud music or TV.

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KissingFish · 21/11/2015 22:15

Our neighbour (also terraced house) plays the piano really late too. She plays it well and I do love a bit of piano music but not after 9pm

WheresMyBurrito · 21/11/2015 22:11

Is it a proper piano and not a keyboard? If so your neighbour is being unreasonable to play it at all in a terraced house, they're so loud.

SweetAdeline · 21/11/2015 22:08

The children next door practice the violin late in the evening - latest was 11-11.30. There are three of them. One is good.
Recently they have also acquired a piano.

We never hear any other noise than the instruments. I think the the noise travels through the chimneys somehow because it is loud in our living room and bedroom which share a chimney breast.
I've never said anything because we have two toddlers so are in no position to complain about noise but YANBU.

RB68 · 21/11/2015 22:02

Invite him round for coffee whilst they practice - people just do not realise the noise transfer is WORSE when next door as opposed to in the same house.

Also ask them to pull it away from the wall so there is space at the back as this can help a little - as could putting sound absorbing foam in there.