As much as I wish I could, I don't think I want to go into my 40s childless, which of course isn't a judgement on those who do :) it's more how I see things.
I am researching my options and I'm not sure really - what do others think?
The main ones seem to be IUI a or IVF with donated sperm or adoption. I am fairly sure I would like to have as young a child as possible if I were to adopt which might pose difficulties and there are other considerations with regard to my lifestyle which might be a problem for adoption agencies.
I know it's probably really selfish 
but I just can't imagine not being a Mum.