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To ask my children's pre-school not to let them play outside

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AitchDee · 01/12/2012 12:44

My twins attend a local preschool for three mornings a week. Since they started I have had issues with them arriving home at lunch time with soaking wet sleeves and trousers where they have done outside water play, and hands that are red raw from being cold and wet.

On Thursday upon dropping them off, we were told not to take coats/hats/gloves off as they were going o play in the school field next door. I raised my eyebrows at the time as it really was a very cold, frosty morning.

A hour later I got a phone call to say my twins needed collecting as one was very poorly and falling asleep/eyes rolling in his head, and the other 'had come out in sympathy' and was crying hysterically.

I collected them and brought them home, but I think they we're just utterly freezing. They were absolutely fine the rest of the day. All the other children were playing happily back in the warm so it was only mine.

I'm not sure if I am just being precious. They do love playing outside, even in freezing cold water and wet sand, no matter the weather, but I think their bodies use find it a bit much. They were born very early, and only weighed 1lb 3oz at birth but to look at them now they have caught up.

Would I look a twat asking preschool to keep them indoors until spring? Maybe my twins just need a bit of toughening up? They will be three in January if that makes a difference.

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mellowcat · 01/12/2012 12:55

The trouble is that if your two are kept inside both they and the others may miss out as often staffing can be everyone in or everyone out. I think it would be reasonable to ask that they are able to come in as soon as they want to and for them to be dressed warmly in the clothes that you provide.

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 01/12/2012 12:53

Its not the outdoor play that is the problem- they need plenty of fresh air each day imo. But I wouldnt be happy about the water play. Not when its so cold out and most children would chuck water over themselves and get cold. Theres loads of other stuff they could do outside without soaking themselves.

Bluestocking · 01/12/2012 12:53

Tricky one! Fresh air is good, and clearly the other children are enjoying it. Could you dress them differently? Would the preschool be willing to put them into all-over waterproofs for outdoor play? Channelling my dear departed gran, I'd also advise that you check that they're wearing enough layers and that there isn't a chilly gap round their waists - a vest and a pair of tights under trousers or dungarees is really helpful in keeping active children warm.

DudeIAmSoFuckingRock · 01/12/2012 12:53

Grin@ procrastinator

BarbaraBar · 01/12/2012 12:53

Waterproofs, wellies, warm coats. You need to make sure they are dressed appropriately. Children should play outside in all weathers - they just need appropriate clothes.

HeadfirstForAMistletoeKiss · 01/12/2012 12:52

www.teachingexpertise.com/e-bulletins/early-years-outdoor-play-autumn-and-winter-7472

I was looking for the EYFS guideline on outdoor winter play and found this, it may be interesting for you to read?

YuleBritannia · 01/12/2012 12:52

Get a grip! Let the pre-school do things the way they want to and your PDCs will have a lovely time.

DudeIAmSoFuckingRock · 01/12/2012 12:51

send waterproofs and spare clothes. tell nursery staff to change them as necessary.

children love being outside and it's pretty important tbh.

you're being precious.

procrastinor · 01/12/2012 12:51

Wellies. They need wellies.

givemeaclue · 01/12/2012 12:51

Perhaps invest in thermal gloves and ski year type stuff? Keeping them indoors till spring is not really an option.

procrastinor · 01/12/2012 12:50

Yabu sorry! If you get them proper over trouser waterproofs and willies they'll be fine. You can also get those hand warmers that you snap and heat up.

HeadfirstForAMistletoeKiss · 01/12/2012 12:49

The only issue I would have is with the outdoor water play while it's so cold. Other than that I would make sure they have their hat/scarf/gloves/jumpers and a warm coat to hand and let them get on with it!

diddl · 01/12/2012 12:48

Yes I think you would tbh.

Don´t they have waterproofs at all??

We had to supply trousers/jacket & wellies which stayed at kindergarten when ours were there.

RedHelenB · 01/12/2012 12:47

YABU - kids need fresh air even in winter!

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