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AIBU to be pissed off with OH

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 12:47

I'll try to cut a long story short

Me and OH are both big football fans & agreed we would go to the first home game of season . When speaking about it before tickets came on sale (weeks ago) we agreed we would until they go general sale so we both could go. OH is a member so could of got his ticket before the general sale. OH basically ignored what we'd agreed and went ahead and got his ticket in the members sale and then lied to me and said he didn't get any in the general sale as they had sold out.
This morning when ask OH what he's doing he informs me he's going to football.

AIBU to have a go at him and be pissed off?

AIBU

OP posts:
frootshoots · 18/08/2012 12:53

YANBU. You both agreed to wait, he didn't wait, did it anyway, lied about it so you couldn't go. Quite a nasty thing to do imo.

Why are you not a member too?

eosmum · 18/08/2012 12:53

How did he think you wouldn't find out? And when you did what did he think would happen?

Thumbwitch · 18/08/2012 12:52

YANBU on any count. what a shit thing to do. And lying about it just compounds it. Angry

babybythesea · 18/08/2012 12:50

My first reaction is 'Depends on the team!'

Nope, not at all U. You don't agree to something, do something different and then lie about it.

Just out of interest though, why are you not both members if you are both big fans?

ZillionChocolate · 18/08/2012 12:48

No, YANBU to pissed off at him backing out of an agreement and then lying about it.