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AIBU to be pissed off with OH

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 12:47

I'll try to cut a long story short

Me and OH are both big football fans & agreed we would go to the first home game of season . When speaking about it before tickets came on sale (weeks ago) we agreed we would until they go general sale so we both could go. OH is a member so could of got his ticket before the general sale. OH basically ignored what we'd agreed and went ahead and got his ticket in the members sale and then lied to me and said he didn't get any in the general sale as they had sold out.
This morning when ask OH what he's doing he informs me he's going to football.

AIBU to have a go at him and be pissed off?

AIBU

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fuzzpig · 18/08/2012 16:57

Yes. Screenshot. But don't tell him.

Doesn't look good.

What's your relationship like other than this?

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 16:57

Already screenshot it!! I know her through Facebook but that is it. OH has known her years

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Rollersara · 18/08/2012 16:54

I'd get a screenshot of that if I were you (in case it 'disappears'). Do you know the woman?

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 16:47

After a lot bit of looking at what he has commented on on fbook I've found he commented on a status from a woman whos gone to the game.
The status said 'person's name .... Is.......'
My OH commented on it saying 'mineWink'
What should I read that as??

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 15:04

I know I know, he'd be wise to avoid me for at least 24hours!! AngryAngryAngry

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TurncoatEwok · 18/08/2012 15:03

(him I mean not you!)

TurncoatEwok · 18/08/2012 15:03

What the actual fuck?!?

Git.

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 14:57

Just had a message from OH, text said
'great atmosphere, shame it's sold out so you can't be here'
Grrrrrr my response was
'fuck off'

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 14:03

Meant to say
Accidentally loose his membership card to my purse!!!

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 14:03

Also going to accidentally loose his membership card and buy myself a ticket without getting him one!!

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TurncoatEwok · 18/08/2012 13:56

Damn right he should get a bollocking. What a mean thing to do. :(

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 13:55

Yeah thats all I'm looking forward to. OH will get a good bollocking when he returns home

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Thumbwitch · 18/08/2012 13:53

Oh good, at least you'll get to see the friend, that's the important thing :)

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 13:52

Already arranged to meet my friend in the pub by the ground so I'll be going there, I really don't care whether he comes or not as im that pissed off

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Thumbwitch · 18/08/2012 13:50

Oh Nanny - the lying and the going back on his word are bad, but if I were you I'd really want to know just why he's obviously stopping you from joining him for the match - that's just so much bigger, IMO.

And how will you know where to meet up with him and the friends - will he answer his phone to let you know where they are?

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 13:26

This is the 1st time he's lied and I've found out.
I feel awful as was meeting a really close friend who I've known years and hardly see as he moved abroad and rarely gets back for games. This was planned before the fixture were released. So now I have to travel on my own to meet them all after the game when they'll be full of it

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 13:07

I can't really trust him now, from now on I'm in charge of tickets!!

I really can't believe he didn't think that I would eventually find out

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ChaoticismyLife · 18/08/2012 13:06

YANBU He's gone behind your back and then lied about it Hmm

Does he make a habit of lying to you?

BlackholesAndRevelations · 18/08/2012 13:03

YANBU. what a horrible thing to do, especially the lying. I'd be livid. How are you meant to trust him now?

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 13:03

I've been known to be loud at the games & have too many pints and get loud with the away team fans!! Never any fights though!!

I also tend to meet a lot of mates who are 99% male at the ground. I was brought up around them as my dad is a huge fan too

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frootshoots · 18/08/2012 12:59

Do you out sing him and get into brawls with the away team? Grin

WildWorld2004 · 18/08/2012 12:57

It sounds like he might not want you to go to the football with him.

I would say YANBU to be pissed off if you made an agreement and he didnt stick to it & then lied about it.

Thumbwitch · 18/08/2012 12:56

Sounds worse and worse! Why doesn't he want you to go with? Is he meeting other people there?

frootshoots · 18/08/2012 12:55

Is there a reason he doesn't want you to go with him? Seems to be doing everything he can to make it difficult for you.

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 12:53

Both had membership last season which worked well, he renewed his when he got paid but didn't do mine although agreed he would as I can't afford it At the moment

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