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AIBU to be pissed off with OH

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 12:47

I'll try to cut a long story short

Me and OH are both big football fans & agreed we would go to the first home game of season . When speaking about it before tickets came on sale (weeks ago) we agreed we would until they go general sale so we both could go. OH is a member so could of got his ticket before the general sale. OH basically ignored what we'd agreed and went ahead and got his ticket in the members sale and then lied to me and said he didn't get any in the general sale as they had sold out.
This morning when ask OH what he's doing he informs me he's going to football.

AIBU to have a go at him and be pissed off?

AIBU

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Woopdiedoo · 19/08/2012 21:10

Well done for stating so strong nanny! I think that's a classic reaction from him, angry that he has been caught and not with himself.

IME the hardest part is when they come begging and apologising as I always fall soft. We are always here for you if you need support in stating strong. Hugs for you.

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 21:07

His mum came round (oh boy do I hate her) telling me im unreasonable a bitch etcetc, she soon left

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 21:06

UPDATE

he returned tried to open door than rang me.. Told him to look at the window and see what it says... Went quiet then... U fucking bitch for going on my Facebook that's my private messages blah blah blah... I hung up left him to it. Got a text saying sorry I love you need to tAlk.. Replied with yeh ok you love me do you.. If you love me your walk away now and cause me no more hurt!!!!!

He went

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CakeBump · 19/08/2012 20:50

I've just signed in on my phone to see how you're doing OP and of course whether you have updated with his reaction!

Stay strong - you're worth more than this!

Good luck, hope it goes ok x

MrsTomHardy · 19/08/2012 20:43

OP What's the situation now??

cantspel · 19/08/2012 19:54

what team was it?

i cant say if he is an arse or not until i know as i might find an excuse for him if it is a decent team and match

GingerBlondecat · 19/08/2012 19:26

Bugger :( Weather flicking the power.

GL OP, I wish you well

GingerBlondecat · 19/08/2012 19:23

Seriously Though ((( Big HUGS)))) for you.

GingerBlondecat · 19/08/2012 19:22

Good, I'm waiting, and I'm wearing out the f5 button.

((Team Nann))

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 19:20

Ginger I'll tell him to hurry the fuck up!!!!

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GingerBlondecat · 19/08/2012 19:18

f5, f5, f5, come on OP, it's 3.48 am here in Oz. I'm not going to bed till I've seen the update.

Goodonyagirl

Schlock · 19/08/2012 19:15

I once caught some kids from the local school attacking my house using an iPhone propped up on the window sill. Just sayin' Wink

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 19:13

Do know what Oh if you don't think it's happened then keep your comments to yourself. I need support at the moment not your comments!!!!

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OHforDUCKScake · 19/08/2012 19:11

Yes it all makes perfect sense. Funny that. Grin

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 19:06

Also place is in my name as I was here before I met him! Printed stuff so I had evidence if it suddenly disappeared from Facebook.
Called lovely 24/7 locksmith who sorted me out & things in the relationship were patchy so it all makes sense

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 19:04

Oh - is as simple as that, have suspected cheating for a while so the football was the final bit which caused me to act on it. There are no children involved so why not turf him out??

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 18:59

I think I've managed to stay calm because I HATE HATE HATE cheaters!! Deep down I'm angry but I'll deal with that in the gym tomorrow

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Cherubim · 19/08/2012 18:58

I bet the adrenaline is pumping Shock

I'll be thinking of you this evening, keep going!

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 18:58

I think i need to some how set up a camera to capture his return - will make good viewing

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 18:57

Still no sign of him - but had a text saying Will be half hour ... Only 6 mins left of that half hour!!!!

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TheQueenOfDiamonds · 19/08/2012 18:55

Omg the bastard. Would love to see his face upon return!

Cherubim · 19/08/2012 18:50

Blimey Nanny, you're kicking ass Grin Keep going, lady.

I'm nervous for you. Obviously we all know you're going to be busy for the next few hours, but be sure and update us if you can, won't you?

WildWorld2004 · 19/08/2012 18:44

Well done. I dont know how you have managed to stay so calm.

DeckSwabber · 19/08/2012 17:31

Cost a fair bit - the silly idiot left his bank card soo hes paid for it!!

Careful - I can see why you are angry and you have every right to end the relationship but you don't want to squander your advantage with the moral high ground.