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AIBU to be pissed off with OH

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Nannyto2 · 18/08/2012 12:47

I'll try to cut a long story short

Me and OH are both big football fans & agreed we would go to the first home game of season . When speaking about it before tickets came on sale (weeks ago) we agreed we would until they go general sale so we both could go. OH is a member so could of got his ticket before the general sale. OH basically ignored what we'd agreed and went ahead and got his ticket in the members sale and then lied to me and said he didn't get any in the general sale as they had sold out.
This morning when ask OH what he's doing he informs me he's going to football.

AIBU to have a go at him and be pissed off?

AIBU

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CakeBump · 20/08/2012 17:58

Well done Nanny!!

Glad it went ok - the next bit isn't going to be easy, I'm sure you'll feel sad and miss him.... but you're worth 10 of him (and his mother!)

Thumbwitch · 20/08/2012 00:21

Yay Nanny! You so did the right thing, well done.
Stay strong - he's lied about pretty much everything else, why would you believe him about not shagging her? If he contacts you again tomorrow (and you haven't already asked) ask him who he went to the football match with and see if he lies again.

You don't want to stay with a liar, you'd never trust him again - so even though it hurts now, just think of it as having a gangrenous bit chopped off - sore, but necessary for long-term health.

And as for his mum, well, words fail me.

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 22:41

Yes saw my friend, had a good catch up over two one bottle of wine.

Friend had seen ex with the girl during the game

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IvanaNap · 19/08/2012 22:39

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 22:33

Would have hot membership if could afford it but other things were priority

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mummydarkling · 19/08/2012 22:32

YANBU

but take control join as a member and go with your own people. I am a football fan too, different team to hubby maybe for the best?

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 22:31

He never shagged her lol but bloody wanted to, clearly stated on fbook

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Tempernillo · 19/08/2012 22:27

Of the explanation is "I never shagged her", that hardly changes things anyway does it?! It was all there in black and white and already ample reason to kick him to the kerb!

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 22:23

I'm strong at the moment! You wait until tomorrow or so when I'm missing him Sad. Could be a different story.

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notmyproblem · 19/08/2012 22:18

Nannyto2 you rock Grin

Stay strong, his mum and he are acting like complete idiots. You're not responsible for their happiness and it's not like they would listen to you anyway. The mummy's boy and the mummy whose boy can do no wrong can lead on each other for support if they need it, and leave you alone! Well done to you.

This thread should be saved in classics for all those women who need some motivation and encouragement in tossing our their useless cheating partners.

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 22:03

According to him its only messages, hes never shagged her - his words not mine.

According to his Mummy I should of ask an explanation before acting the way I did

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MrsTomHardy · 19/08/2012 22:02

Men!!!!!!!!

Cherubim · 19/08/2012 22:01

Fucking upset? He's brought it on himself, the dick.

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 21:59

Oh forgot to add his Mum doesn't want to see her son upset so wanted to have it out with me!!!! He's not 3

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Nannyto2 · 19/08/2012 21:58

Being text constantly now.. Oh well bottle of wine, crap tv and then bed!! Thanks all you've been fab!!

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AllPastYears · 19/08/2012 21:35

So you went from being cross about football tickets to Leaving The Bastard in the space of what, 4 hours? Go Nanny! Grin

IvanaNap · 19/08/2012 21:28

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confusedpixie · 19/08/2012 21:28

Well done :) Douchebag cunting fuck (him obviously!)

MrsTomHardy · 19/08/2012 21:25

At least he's gone now....the knob!!!

ImperialBlether · 19/08/2012 21:19

Can just imagine his phone call.

"Muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuum, Mummyto2 has thrown me out!"

"The bloody nerve!"

"Just because I was having affairs..."

"The little bitch! Who does she think she is? You sit down, son, and have a cuppa. I'll sort her out!"

IvanaNap · 19/08/2012 21:17

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DeckSwabber · 19/08/2012 21:17

Hurray!!!!

WildWorld2004 · 19/08/2012 21:12

Yes nanny you are an unreasonable bitch because he cant keep it in his trousers. What a lovely mother in law you would have had. Good job you dodged that Grin

Woopdiedoo · 19/08/2012 21:11

Grr, staying.

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