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Names with strange spellings

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Dolcelatte · 01/08/2012 21:52

I sent a birthday card to the friend of a daughter today then felt bad because I realised that I had addressed her as Sarah Jane instead of Sarah Jayne. I also know of an Allison and a Michele etc.

AIBU to wonder if you think this is an attempt at individuality or just a bit weird?

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VoldemortsOlympicNippleRings · 01/08/2012 23:04

Some names have different spellings depending on its origin though, and the parents may have personal reasons for choosing an unusual spelling.

I would have loved to give my dcs traditional gaelic names with gaelic spellings as a connection to their Irish roots but most English people have enough trouble pronouncing them never mind spelling them.

Made up spellings though, just make my teeth itch. I actually know a Thomas spelt Tomasz!

kingbeat23 · 01/08/2012 23:05

Marc (with a c) is the french way of how it is spelt, and where the name originates from.

MrsKeithRichards · 01/08/2012 23:05

Siobhan. I went to school with a chevonne and went through the next 15 years without coming across another. I read the Rebus books where his partner is Siobhan and pronounced it as it read. Si-o-ban. It wasn't until I seem Rebus on tv I realised that was the proper way to spell it and I was a Dick.

whathasthecatdonenow · 01/08/2012 23:05

I've taught a Sharn - mum couldn't spell Sian and didn't bother looking it up. Personal favourite was Demi-Adidas, closely followed by Arry.

Jayne is a normal way of spelling that name.

SPsFanjoSponsorsTheOlympics · 01/08/2012 23:06

usual you don't even know how to pronounce your sons name?! Appalling Grin

kingbeat23 · 01/08/2012 23:07

phew

LindyHemming · 01/08/2012 23:08

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usualsuspect · 01/08/2012 23:08

I know, I wish I was on MN when I named him to see the error of my ways, SP

irishchic · 01/08/2012 23:08

MargeryKemp - Conor is the correct spelling.. Confused

usualsuspect · 01/08/2012 23:09

My DDs middle name is leigh, double MN disapproval Grin

CherryCheesecake · 01/08/2012 23:09

Not bothered about outing myself tbh.

My names siobhan, I bloody hate it! It's so annoying to have to spell it out all the time. Even more annoying as I have an even more odd last name.

CherryCheesecake · 01/08/2012 23:10

Usual - my dds middle name is leigh too.

BlackholesAndRevelations · 01/08/2012 23:12

Isn't tomasz polish or something?!

LindyHemming · 01/08/2012 23:13

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OutragedAtThePriceOfFreddos · 01/08/2012 23:13

YANBU, but not when it comes to Irish names. They confused me for years. Still do sometimes.

SPsFanjoSponsorsTheOlympics · 01/08/2012 23:14

My sons middles names are boring but his first name is not. Wonder if his middle names are spelt right. Grin

BlackholesAndRevelations · 01/08/2012 23:14

Ps- made up names are utterly pathetic- like people consider their dc as cute little toys they can mess about with and not actual people who have to get lives and jobs.

LurkingAndLearningLovesCats · 01/08/2012 23:14

YANBU

You used the normal spelling, if someone makes up spelling for their kid's name they should be prepared for the fact people will constantly misspell it.

cheesesarnie · 01/08/2012 23:14

i love the name siobhan!!

a friend of mine is called emma, her dd is amme to mirror her mother Hmm

LurkingAndLearningLovesCats · 01/08/2012 23:15

I know a Jessycaugh and a Ysabella.

Ysabella doesn't even make sense! You wouldn't pronounce it the same way.

Floggingmolly · 01/08/2012 23:16

Why would you worry about it, op? If people choose to deviate from the more usual way of spelling a name, they can hardly expect you to be divinely inspired, can they?

PomBearWithAnOFRS · 01/08/2012 23:16

If I posted the spelling of my original birth name I would immediately out myself as I am the only person I have ever heard of with that spelling, and google seems to agree with me Confused

usualsuspect · 01/08/2012 23:16

No more ridiculous than calling your child Percy really.

Floggingmolly · 01/08/2012 23:17

Why would you call your daughter FeeBee? I wouldn't call a cat FeeBee (and I hate cats)

fiverabbits · 01/08/2012 23:18

My DD has a very commom name but people still spell it several different ways. My friend called her DS Jon I always why not the common way given that she was a teacher.

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