i've a very close friend but she has a bit of a tendency to cancel arrangements for what seem very plausible reasons - sick baby, sick her, etc. At least once before I've subsequently found out through others that she was fibbing to me. Anyway, she cancelled a long-standing evening arrangement the other day due to illness but I've since seen (on the dreaded fb, someone else's profile) that she was in fact out.
She is one of my closest friends but I've seen her fib very easily in other circumstances and she clearly has no problem fibbing to me as well.....I feel a bit sickened at the idea of saying it to her, we chat or see each other once or twice a week, she always includes me/my family in important events, and generally acts very close to me and my family..aibu not to say anything? I don't think it necessarily means she is trying to get out of the friendship, but just maybe she has a bit of a fibbing habit!