To think all men are basically pervs?

Of course any man will look at young girls with their bits on show!
Of course they will have a sneaky peek.It doesn't neccessarily make them perverts.
It doesn't mean they are immediately going to start grooming one of them.

I perve at fit builders all the time. And I am surprised the local rugby club hasn't taken out a restraining order on me, the number of times I walk past for an ogle when they are practising, all muddy and sweaty.

Woah!
Think this thread is slightly crazy.

Of course its ok for men and women to look at attractive members of the opposite sex. Ogle, leer and flirt. Yes, we all do it to varios, harmless degrees.

The OP is talking about middle aged men letching after. Teenage girls. That is gross.I cannot believe for one second that any woman would be laughing and cracking jokes if her dh was behaving like this over a girl who was 16 or 17. I would be appalled. All the biology stuff is bollocks!
And thecOok, you talk shite too. Making out all married men need(or want)to see a hooker. Like we haven't heard this crap before!
Some of us have men who prefer to have sex with a woman who genuinely fancies them. And some of us women actually enjoy sex yer know and have adventurous sex lives. Just because you may see clients who tell you their wives are frigid.

However, I have to agree, there is a lot of naivety here. Some women are sometimes completely oblivious to what their husbands are like or really up to!

True Morlath and do not forget that some prostitutes clients are lawyers and Dr.s and Judges so that makes prostitutes choice of profession not in one bit self harming. Also some women who sleep with their date after he/she has bought dinner are whoring themselves too. Yawn.

thecook even assuming that all men who use prostitutes are married (and that is obviously not the case) it doesn't necessarily follow that all married men use prostitutes.

Like mal and HD it always amuses me on these threads when someone gets all excited and desperate and announces that ALL men are pervs/use porn/visit prostitutes and that those of us who actually know our husbands, are deluded and should take the word of some internet random over the man we have lived with and known for a very long time.

It is like some bizarre attempt to normalise their experience.

Checks out, looks up and down whatmeworry i'm straight female

and what constitutes being a 'perv' anyway?

Man I fancy checking me out = Not Perv
Man I fancy checking other women out = Perv
Man I don't fancy checking me out = Perv
Man I don't fancy checking other women out (how dare he = what's wrong with ME) = Bastard Perv

Sorted.

not only married men with families use whores either.

They could be telling lies to the whore.

not every single individual* man in the world has used a prostitute.

the cook not every single man in the world has used a prostitute. You haven't met every single, living man in the world in your career, it is impossible. So you are chatting BOLLOX!

Or would you like me to say that ALL sex workers are victims of sex abuse in their childhoods, in response.

and what constitutes being a 'perv' anyway?

Labelling ALL men as perverts is extreme. Some men can be, yes, as some Women are too.

Also same applies for workmen fit young sexy ones with decent bodies are allowed to whistle and shout, old blokes with skin like leather look like they are constantly smoking rollies and never wear suncream with a beer belly - perv. There the rules I dont make them just enforce them think there should be some kind of book on what is allowed

Its the rules when I was out clubbing at 16 if you are sexy and attractive then you can check me and my friends out as much as you like and we love it. If you are old, overweight, bald, have excess amounts of facial hair or have any other characteristics we dont like you are just a perv.

Discreet

Sorry but crap. Working tonight with a thai lady (41) A posh American man in his fifties paid her for one hour. Confessed he had a family in the states. This is the norm. She told him she was 27. I see these men week in, week out. They are all married.

It's like all these porn apologists with their "oh, it's normal" mentality. Have you actually been on the internet and seen the girls that are used in porn? They are young girls. Teenagers. When I caught my DH looking at porn, I went through the history and some of these girls had not even grown boobs yet. And these came up using "normal" search criteria.

Well I work in the sex industry as a maid for working girls
. It makes me laugh when all these mum
netters declare their DH would not use a prostitute. Fuck men do!!!!! So yes most men are pervs. So many men on business in London. £200 per hour in the hotel!!

Honeydragon, I just totally salute you.

sorry SQ, not being rude, just yes groups of men do ogle young girls but that wasn't the axis of how the thread was moving.

He couldn't spell it

and he did apologise when I walked past later, his mate had googled it on his phone.

They weren't noticeably gay perhaps they waited till the youth club opened?

and could he?? Thrashing around on his i-pad to google "missoj.."...you're too cruel.

Oh he was probably gay, HD
Don't think anything of it.

That sounds quite rude. What do you mean?