Beesimo, that's rubbish!
The pure mental fucking strain of being the only person doing what you do - everyone does it differently and being faced with opposition at every fucking angle - do you have any idea what it does to people?
We have all been told all of our lives - get educated, you can do what you want, fulfill your potential.
Except what is that? Work like buggery trying to be the best we can be until, tick-tock, tick-tock - yep there it is, biology!
So children now - be the best mother, stay home, weave fucking lentils and make booties, you are so lucky, so lucky lucky lucky and don't you for one second forget it! No whining, no complaining! You are lucky! The people who can't have kids, the people who can't afford it, the people who don't have this/that...no whining!
It's only 3 years - oh wait you want a sibling for your progeny - best treat them the same - be the best mother - stimulate them, do paint, playdough, art, nature walks - get out to museums, teach them mandarin from the age of 2, french, come on, you owe it to them!
so that's what? 6 years down the line now - but did you remember to educate yourself? Socialise? Tie yourself in fucking knots? No? Well, you are boring! And shit and don't deserve to be a mother! How dare you! 
You've lost yourself, you are unsure who you are when you look in the mirror - by god you've done your best and are bloody lucky to still be standing, let alone still going by the end of the day. And all you can do is stare into the weeks, months, years ahead! That is you doing your best, and you are making a sacrifice. And yeah it has some great times, of course it does. But it changes you. And not in a good way - your confidence is sapped, you spend all day with your kids, so you are the 'mother type'. And those converstaions about 'how's work etc' where all your friends compare their careers, where are you? Hiding in the fucking cforner in case someone asks you what you think you might do - because you have no idea. Because you are torn. You want to be at home with your kids and get them grown in the best way, but you would kill to be joining in and talking about how great you are. And then you get the 'when are you going back to work' crack - ha! Gets me every tim,e! Because I don't do anything, do I?
So much competition! Dare I get on a bus with my buggy? Fruit shoots? 'Cheating' because I made pizza? My children scream in the supermarket - we inconvenience others in cafe's...be suitably embarrassed, don't go out if you can't control them...
Making friends with people - it's so stressful - a friendship is borne out of years of perseverance and common goals - when you meet people at toddler groups etc, they aren't always the kind of friends you can run to when utterly depressed and scraping yourself off the ceiling - they are the ones you save your game face for, unless you are very lucky.
It's tough - so bloody hard and should not be belittled in anyway, and there is precious little actual support for women who do it. Because we are all doing our best, whatever that might be. And if all that is is having a shower in the morning just to sit in all day and try to make it through another 10 hours, then so be it.
It is a psychological strain. For a lot of women. We are under more pressure than we ever have been as a sex.
Here Beesimo, take my very first 
Because that comment you made just underlines what is wrong with women when it comes to supporting each other through any kind of situation.