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So is this bum sex malarky any good?

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GagaOlala · 12/07/2010 22:32

Saw a previous headline and I want to know? Does it hurt like the first time and is it any good? Can a woman get an orgasm from it alone, or is it only good for the guys? And then there is the question of stools and I don't mean the three-legged kind.

Educate me please!

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scanty · 12/07/2010 23:16

not with my piles and bum problems, no didley way!

funnysinthegarden · 12/07/2010 22:56

s'alright. Tried it once or twice. You have to be VERY relaxed for it not to hurt. Tis all a bit urrrrggggghhhh though and gives ones DH thrush generally speaking.

Have to say though can be more stimulating than ordinary shagging...........

Poshwellies · 12/07/2010 22:52

Wouldn't say it's one thing you have to try in life.

Feels like taking a shit backwards,hardly orgasmic.

Think it's the lack of prostrate that hinders the enjoyment.

HTH.

PurpleLostPrincess · 12/07/2010 22:47

My xh (for a good reason!) talked me into trying it when we were on honeymoon in Paris, many many years ago. It was absolutely awful, I didn't enjoy it AT ALL and will never try it again. Thankfully, I've remarried and my DH isn't in the least bit interested in it, and even if he was, he would never put me under any pressure.

There must be people out there who enjoy it, and I've got the impression it's certainly more for the guys than the girls. I wouldn't recommend it though

Marjee · 12/07/2010 22:43

I don't think you are weird, I've been married 2 years, living together 8 years and have never taken it up the arse! If you don't want to do it then don't

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GagaOlala · 12/07/2010 22:38

No I have kids and ave always been very precious about keeping that area of my life well sealed iykwim but am intrigued. Do most couples do it, are we weird that we don't?

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TitsalinaBumSquash · 12/07/2010 22:37

Have i missed a few days??

bibbitybobbityhat · 12/07/2010 22:36

Are you 12?

TastesLikePanda · 12/07/2010 22:35

-lurking innocently-

TastesLikePanda · 12/07/2010 22:35

But - it's Monday?!