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Original poster

Is it bad that I go to nightclubs just with the intention of pulling?

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rnuk · Yesterday 18:05

How likely is this to happen
i have only been successful once and that was in Vietnam
i am decent looking and can hold a good conversation

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rnuk · Today 03:08

Minasama · Yesterday 22:25

Honestly, the people I’ve known (both male and female) who did this consistently and had one night stands were pretty unhappy people.

Why?

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rnuk · Today 03:00

LadyBrendaLast · Yesterday 22:34

No-one looks twice at me since I hit the menopause!

Has it worked?

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LadyBrendaLast · Yesterday 22:34

No-one looks twice at me since I hit the menopause!

BIWI · Yesterday 22:25

Incel.

Minasama · Yesterday 22:25

Honestly, the people I’ve known (both male and female) who did this consistently and had one night stands were pretty unhappy people.

EmailsaysOOO · Yesterday 22:22

It's not bad. Not all women go for the same reason so you may or you may not get lucky.

ShetlandishMum · Yesterday 22:16

You do you but no I am not impressed.

Coconutter24 · Yesterday 22:15

FionnulaTheCooler · Yesterday 22:05

Having just seen the OP's other thread on this subject it's pretty much confirmed my suspicion that this is just another entitled man who thinks he's owed female attention.

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Hmm yes I’ve just seen the other thread. I would say anyone that goes clubbing with the intention of just being there to pull usually comes off as desperate because they’re usually trying to force a connection. After reading the other thread I think that’s definitely the case here!

FionnulaTheCooler · Yesterday 22:05

Coconutter24 · Yesterday 21:23

Would that change your answer?

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Having just seen the OP's other thread on this subject it's pretty much confirmed my suspicion that this is just another entitled man who thinks he's owed female attention.

DaysIllRememberAllMyLife · Yesterday 21:31

Shloopie · Yesterday 21:25

how many threads are you going to start on this pulling at the club subject?

I bet you're too nervy in real life to approach anyone

Or too creepy

Shloopie · Yesterday 21:25

how many threads are you going to start on this pulling at the club subject?

I bet you're too nervy in real life to approach anyone

Coconutter24 · Yesterday 21:23

FionnulaTheCooler · Yesterday 21:14

Are you male or female?

Would that change your answer?

FionnulaTheCooler · Yesterday 21:14

Are you male or female?

StrawberryMatchaLatte · Yesterday 21:11

As an adult, you're in control of your own life. Do what you want.

Ketley67 · Yesterday 19:10

That’s what they’re for isn’t it?

IdaGlossop · Yesterday 18:07

Q1 No. You are a free agent.
Q2 Too many variables to give a definitive answer