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Daily Project Round 10

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/05/2026 16:12

We are a kind and welcoming group supporting each other in our daily tasks to organize and declutter and stay on top of all that needs doing. We share our accomplishments and brain dump our to-do lists in a friendly chat over coffee manner. 😊☕️

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 05/07/2026 09:45

Winter, very sensible suggestion. My mail adversion is so off the chart... I'm still awake. Why? Because I thoroughly vacuumed, moved furniture and vacuumed under it, then washed floors. Towels into dryer. It's very clean here. And the mail hasn't been touched.
I will try again tomorrow. And I also thought about just pulling out a few pieces a day. It's just so ... ugh. 😵‍💫😩

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SingleThreadJoiner2 · 05/07/2026 09:44

That's right @WinterFrogs excellent memory! She's 7 at the end of this month 😳 a maze sounds about right!

It's funny, it's perfectly mainstream to have kippers or smoked salmon for breakfast so why does tuna feel more odd? You're right though, sugar crash ahoy for the coco pops...

WinterFrogs · 05/07/2026 08:29

D is 6/7 am I right @SingleThreadJoiner2? That trench is more like a maze in my experience 😆 If it's any consolation my lot are better cooks than I am now!

I just had left over tuna/salad mix for breakfast. DH thinks I'm very odd and is eating coco pops 🙈 But I know who's going to have a blood sugar crash mid morning and it ain't gonna be me!

Can you create a step by step for the paper mail @Mumtobabyhavoc ? I have a similar problem with some family admin. I can make myself feel very busy and productive while I am procrastinating about that, but it's all still lurking malevolently in my little office. It just needs is to be filed, and a couple of phone calls made, and yet it feels so hard!

I'm just off out into the garden to do a bit of jungle clearance weeding while it is still cool. And must get something out of the freezer for dinner tomorrow. Spicy plants again tonight. Something smug and spicy, to use what's in the fridge before it wilts and needs turning into soup.

Best get to it. Happy Sunday 😊

Mumtobabyhavoc · 05/07/2026 07:08

White towels/wash cloths washing on a hot bleach wash. ✅
Cleaned bath tub and tiles (!) and wiped bathroom floor. ✅
Kitchen garbage tied up and gathered some recycling. Will take out tomorrow. ✅

But, paper mail is still waiting. 😵‍💫
I'm going to turn the dishwasher on before I forget.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 05/07/2026 00:45

I've now folded and put put the clean clothes away. Woot. Woot. 🙄

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 05/07/2026 00:18

Peridot, that salad does sound good, but I agree a lot of prep. I'm a bit boring in that I tend to make the same basic salad of a bell pepper, 2 mini cukes or 1/2 a large, 2 tomatoes or 12 grape tomatoes and goat feta, for my lunch or dinner probably 4x a week. I add spinach/kale/rotisserie chicken/baked salmon/prawns if on hand and just dress it with evoo, vinegar and a bit of salt. Oh, and I like to peel a Mandarin orange and add it or a handful of grapes.
I've just had naan with hummus and have moved on to peas in their pods from the garden to scoop up the hummus. France just win against Paraguay. I've done SPA today apart from making pancakes for brunch and wiping the kids mess off the floor.

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SingleThreadJoiner2 · 04/07/2026 20:27

Enjoying all the cooking chat. In theory I love to cook and try new recipes but in practice it will never happen during the week, and D isn't interested anyway. At least H also enjoys both the cooking and the eating. Occasionally we manage something interesting at the weekend but less often than we'd like. Ah well, something about eventually we'll be out of the trenches, right?! Right..?!

Peridot1 · 04/07/2026 17:06

That makes a lot of sense @WinterFrogs. I really have to be in the mood to do much other than simple. And plant based and spicy sounds great to me. I could definitely live like that most of the time. DH does the majority of the cooking here. He gradually took over once he retired and I let him.

WinterFrogs · 04/07/2026 16:34

Hehe @Peridot1 🤣 My DH is the 'you' in that scenario! He points out recipes in books and news articles and I say something like 'ooh that looks tasty' and suggest he cracks on. He doesn't though.... I mean he does cook, and actually perfectly well, but I think the things he points out are just food porn really. He likes watching cooking programmes too. I just want everyone fed really, the simpler the better. But wholesome. I like the idea of cooking lovely meals but I just feel like I have better things to do. Hence my new interest in more plant based, spicy cooking. It just looks easy and healthy. God I make myself sound like such a bore with my simple living blarney 🙈 It's just cos I have so much going on that I don't write about on here that my brain would explode if home life was complicated as well 🙃

Peridot1 · 04/07/2026 16:09

@WinterFrogs - we both like trying new foods and both like cooking. Well I like cookbooks. He likes cooking…😄. I liked the idea of main meal salads rather than just a salad as an accompaniment to a meal. We are both on Mounjaro and I’m trying to make sure we eat enough protein and fibre while on it. DH is pretty traditional with foods in some ways though. Very much a meat and potatoes man. Although as we lived in Asia he does great Asian food too.

WinterFrogs · 04/07/2026 15:34

Ah @Peridot1 that sounds like something i would probably choose at a restaurant but I'm way too lazy to cook and put it together myself. Salad here is just normal salad stuff plus baby spinach, beetroot ( not pickled) and chopped/sliced raw veg. I try to have it at least once a day and ( still on the lazy theme) tinned fish ( occasionally pan fried salmon) or eggs or cold chicken. DH not quite so enthusiastic as I am but will eat a small salad. He's more of a meat and potatoes/pizza and chips kind of guy left to his own devices.

A chickpea curry went down surprisingly well the other day.

I hope you are doing ok with all that's on your plate @Mumtobabyhavoc! Your food sounds very tasty too 😋

I've done a bit of washing today and it's drying beautifully. And after writing about how I try to be minimalist on another thread, I have taken my own advice and cleared some clutter from the bedroom. I'd be way more minimalist if I lived alone. But I do my best and fortunately DH is not too much of a clutterbug.

Hope everyone is have a nice day 😊

Peridot1 · 04/07/2026 11:55

@Mumtobabyhavoc - it was Crispy Spiced Lamb, Augergine and Freekeh with pickled onions. Had to pre pickle the onions. Make a separate dressing. Roast the aubergine separately. Cook the bulgur wheat I used instead of the freekeh. And as DH wasn’t convinced it was a full meal I had to do some potatoes for him as well. 🤔
I suppose it wasn’t that complicated really but lots of different steps. Was very tasty though. Wouldn’t bother with the aubergine next time. Or eggplant to you I suppose! I have leftovers for lunch for a few days and the dressing and onions keeps for a week.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 04/07/2026 00:36

And speaking of salads... I made one with:
peas and lettuce from the garden
tomatoes
cucumbers
a bit of cooked penne
a bit of leftover salmon
feta

And smug pasta for everyone else:
simmered cream
added left over salmon, roasted potatoes, and peas
then cooked penne
seasoned with black pepper

Washed a large load of towels and got Havoc out for a haircut after speaking to the hospital and insisting arranging to cancel home care nurse, book my mum for outpatient IV and advise we want to do the IV at home now.
Damn these peas are good. 😋

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 03/07/2026 19:09

Which salad did you make Peridot? What made it so complicated?

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Peridot1 · 03/07/2026 10:46

Morning all.

Woken up early with some really strange noises from outside. I think it was birds in the guttering above my bedroom windows. Might be a sign that the gutters need clearing out.

Have unloaded and reloaded the dishwasher - cooked a complicated salad dish from the book I mentioned last week. Very nice but would do it differently next time. And DH cooked for DS so almost every pot in the house was used.

Have washed a bed throw and hung that outside. Now washing fleeces that were hung in utility room so I can clear that a bit.

Did a charity shop run yesterday and they took everying except a rug. Will put that up on Freecycle.

Still fiddling with interiors. But walked into the sitting area this morning and thought “yes - happy with that”. Have ordered one final cushion to balance other sofa and that’s done. Need to buy a rug for under the dining table but will take my time.

About to go to PT session and then have a guy coming over with samples of solar film for the windows to try to keep the house cooler.

Have a good day all.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 03/07/2026 08:46

Thanks for the love everyone. 🙂🩷
Frustrating day and evening here dominated by calls to coordinate home nursing. Left hand doesn't seem to know what the right is doing. 🙄

I managed to wash and hang up most of the clothes from the laundry basket. Will strip a bed tomorrow and wash sheets; likely wash towels; and plan, yet again, to get to the nagging stack of paper mail. 🤦‍♀️

Made a yummy dinner of pesto and feta salmon that I put into toasted garlic brioche burger buns; roasted potatoes; and streamed cauliflower. The kids loooooved the cauliflower. 😂😂😂🤷‍♀️
They got Oreos and strawberry froyo after.
😇😇
I've put September's school schedule into my calendar. 🤓 ... I noticed it was sent to me last week, though 😵‍💫 Must check other email address more often. 🤨

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FourSeasonsLobelia · 03/07/2026 06:51

Hope your mum is better very soon @Mumtobabyhavoc x such a worry and a stress for you. Thinking of you. ❤️

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/07/2026 23:44

I noticed this at the top of the page. Bringing it forward as we've discussed it in our chats.

petition.parliament.uk/petitions/764079#main-content

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/07/2026 23:41

Thanks everyone. 🩷
Fingers crossed a nurse will come in daily and awaiting word on that. Otherwise hoping we can do it at home which means hosp appt for first two session days to learn how.
It's just me keeping the ship afloat. ⛵️

Katie, ear infections are awful. Kids are often prone to them having smaller canals, lots of earwax and the usual childhood viruses. And, diagnosis is challenging and complex. Do not think you are at fault in any way. 💐💐💐

Have got Paw Patrol on in French for Havoc. Must be more diligent with daily French to prepare for school in September. 🤨
Have just put a large load on laundry on.
I am determined to get some mail sorted before I go to bed. 😵‍💫😩
Need to run out to meet a parent to collect $ for an event I've arranged for a Havoc and a bunch of kids.
Baby juuuuust fell asleep for late nap.

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Peridot1 · 02/07/2026 22:58

Sorry to her that about your Mum @Mumtobabyhavoc. Sounds like it will be a huge juggling act for you. Do you have any other family support or help? Hope so.

@RunningKatie - hope ear issues get sorted. What is it about DH’s helpful comments at times.

Good luck wth the food/cooking plans @WinterFrogs!

WinterFrogs · 02/07/2026 20:41

@RunningKatie I hope you are able to get the the bottom of the ear infection. Good that you have a referral to ENT. I hope the appointment comes round soon. Wishing you all, all the best 💐

WinterFrogs · 02/07/2026 20:37

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/07/2026 19:45

Feeling a bit overwhelmed. Just spoke with one of my mum's specialists. My mum has a very resistant strain of e-coli causing a liver abscess and will need daily in hosp iv antibiotic treatment for 2-4 weeks starting next week. The logistics... means packing us all up daily for the trip, rearranging or clearing calendar dates ... 😵‍💫

I am so sorry to hear this 💐

RunningKatie · 02/07/2026 20:26

Oh @Mumtobabyhavoc - so sorry to hear this, your poor mum. It sounds a logistical nightmare, I wish we were all closer to chip in with support.
Dc2 is now being referred to ENT for the possible ear infection etc., dh came home with a great scare story for me to make me feel like the worst parent in the world. Helpful not.
I found my notebook and lists, I'd been clearing up the spare bed and scooped up throws and blankets which it had hidden in.
2 weeks to the school holidays, whilst it can't come soon enough I am concerned about levels of screen time and how to keep them under control. I need a plan and slightly more sociable teens!

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/07/2026 19:45

Feeling a bit overwhelmed. Just spoke with one of my mum's specialists. My mum has a very resistant strain of e-coli causing a liver abscess and will need daily in hosp iv antibiotic treatment for 2-4 weeks starting next week. The logistics... means packing us all up daily for the trip, rearranging or clearing calendar dates ... 😵‍💫

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WinterFrogs · 02/07/2026 15:59

Oh my, Havoc! What a character! 💕 Glad all ok, even if you did have to leave in a hurry!

I love the sound of your evening @Peridot1 😊

I have been extremely busy at work all morning. But tomorrow I definitely get a day off 😁 She says, hopefully! There is always something to do!

I have gone off piste with my cooking, to DH's surprise and hopefully delight. Having said that, we are having leftover bean chilli with baked potatoes tonight. But I have started looking at my spice rack and decided that there are a lot of simple recipes out there that I can start doing. Get a bit fed up with those long winded ones on line where they do an explanation of how they came about the recipes and who they were with and what everyone was wearing at the time.
Just give me the damn recipe and stop wittering! Bbc good food is quite useful, and more concise. I am writing a list of things I need to use up all the bits and bobs in the freezer. I aspire to be one of those people who uses a freezer usefully and doesn't lose things or let them get freezer burn. Blasted DH will insist on filling it up with oven chips and ice lollies. I'm going to have to stage an intervention!

I have just downloaded an app that's supposed to train your brain. It's called Elevate. So I have that and the flylady app to keep me on track. Thanks to another thread asking the question, I have also discovered I can do two press ups ( proper ones) It's taken several months of a daily short strength training routine which includes planks and wall press ups. I'm all out to try to use it all before I lose it!

No wonder the washing up sometimes doesn't get done 😂

I hope you are all having a lovely Thurday 🫂