I have been with my DP for 9 months so only been seeing each other a while last Christmas. I have 2 DC (11 + 6) with my XH. Myself and DP do not live together.
My DP mentioned recently that perhaps his nephew and nephew's girlfriend and their baby could come over for Christmas to my house (he isn't able to host due to his housing arrangement). I think he imagined he would spend Christmas day with myself and my children. However, I want to keep things as settled for the children as I can (for various reasons it has been an unsettling year for them).
My thoughts are for myself, DP and DC to be together on Christmas Eve and Christmas morning and then DP to spend the rest of the day with his family and return in the evening. XH will come over for Christmas lunch and spend the afternoon/early evening with us before DP returns. Then XH will take the children to see his family on Boxing day and I will spend the day with DP and his family will be welcome over to my house then.
Does this sound ok? It keeps things fairly normal for my children in that I usually organised activities for us on Christmas Eve and XH always had a lie in on Christmas morning and I did stockings and a few presents with them before XH got up to help make the Christmas dinner and then we had more presents in the afternoon. Boxing day was then spent at a relative of XH's house. The only difference being DP being around this year (but they get on very well with him) and that I won't be with them on Boxing day (but I wasn't last year either. I also didn't go the year before but that was because my DS was ill so I stayed home with him and XH took DD to the relative's house).
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UndertheCedartree · 09/08/2018 22:04
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