I need some advice. My relationship with the mother of DP's children has been odd. We work together, so there is no chance to avoid her.
She was convinced for a time I was OW, which I wasn't. She has asked that before I meet the kids, two things happen.
- I unblock her from Facebook. I blocked her because of all the drama and stalking abuse. And when I added DP's sister in law and brother, she messaged in 10 minutes to say to DP about it.
- We all meet all three of us. Her, DP and I to discuss way forward with the meeting and boys and to clear the air.
This women has been the bane of my life for a few months, she has stalked my house and Facebook. Called me all manor of names, and brought my family into this.
Is this being rational on my part. Am I allowed to keep her at arms length, or am I gonna need to suck it up and do what's best for the kids.
Help?