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So last week I was out in the park with my friend and her four kids and my two. DS1 is three in October and I have a 6 month old baby. Friend is a SENCO. kids were all playing on some apparatus. My boy was joining in here and there but then at one point he starting walking around the swings etc in his own world. He was talking to himself and pretending to play at something. I was watching him and flippantly said "think he's got some of...............in him." (I used the name of a mutual friend who's boy has Aspergers). She looked back at me and I knew she wanted to say more. So I asked her to be honest and she said she'd thought same. She then said she'd seen him flapping him arms in excitement over something once and that he struggles to address her and other friend by first names. She said he goes through me to ask her for things, if we're at their house for example.
I've been a little wary as I have a cousin who has Aspergers and I'm a teacher so sometimes more heightened to theses things. Other "things" that might suggest it are - lining up his trucks and cars when he plays with them, he never says goodbye or waves to people preferring to just smile goodbye, potty training is ongoing and not easy, disliking me sing (but could be my voice), lack of confidence in new settings and needs me to hold his hand while he takes it all in, likes being at home although he's fine when we do go out.
Don't wanna drip feed but can't think of anything else.
I've just put these things down to confidence and shyness. Husband and I are sociable but we're reserved in a way and like to take our surroundings in. He seems ok in other ways, likes books, loves a good puzzle, plays with variety of toys and if we do go to new places, once he's warmed up and settled in, he's fine. SENCO friend said he often needs to check in with me if we're out and about.
Should I be worried or is SENCO friend just seeing things and adding it all up wrong?!
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Worriedaboutboy · 27/08/2017 09:07
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